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School Safeguarding Concern

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ItsMyGoldenHour · 08/06/2023 15:39

Name changed as outing. The week before half term I got a call from school to say my son had fallen and possibly broken his arm. I took him to hospital and contacted the school as I could tell I wasn’t getting the whole story from my son. They told me as far as they knew he had fallen and their concern was getting his arm attended to.

I took him to hospital and he had snapped the bone ja shad a fracture and was lucky not to need surgery. The following day I had a call from the head of year asking if I knew what had happened. I told her I was told he’d fallen but didn’t believe it. She then went on to tell me that an older boy had come over to my sons friendship group on the school field at break time and bet them they couldn’t push one of the others over. The teachers story is my son agreed which he insists he didn’t but was pushed over. This resulted in the broken arm. They had taken statements from his friends and agreed it was more rough play than anything serious and more stupidity than maliciousness.

My son has come home today and told me that one of his friends has gone to hospital with a suspected broken arm as someone had slide tackled him on the field at break ‘as a joke’.

I really feel like I want to contact the school again and raise concerns about this as how can two children break their arms in a few weeks as a ‘joke’.

My son doesn’t want me to ‘be a Karen’ but surely this needs addressing? I don’t know what the answer is but it sounds like no one is supervising anything as no teachers/staff saw this happen to my son or this boy.

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BrieAndChilli · 08/06/2023 16:29

I would imagine that this 2nd incidnet will trigger some sort of review anyway - its not something you may know about, you have no idea what they are now doing behind the scenes.

NowItsSpring · 08/06/2023 16:15

Definitely address this with school. I did for a game where boys were punchibg one anothers arms to the point of bruising in a so called game, never mind fractures. (Please stop using Karen in this derogatory way)

Sahara123 · 08/06/2023 16:12

I am a secondary school first aider ,I see lots of boys messing about type of injuries! I have to record every single visit to first aid , and complete incident reports for more serious injuries, ie broken bones . These go to the business manager , and possibly on to the council , one of the reasons for these reports is to see if there’s any correlation between various injuries and something else, perhaps equipment failure, loose flooring etc etc .

We don’t just go fuck it , it’s just a couple of broken arms, what’s the problem!

MatildaTheCat · 08/06/2023 16:02

Sissynova · 08/06/2023 15:46

I just don't really see what you would contact them about? You've already been in contact with them about your son, the other boy has nothing to do with you and you aren't involved at all.

How old is your son?

Teachers are not supervising all pupils at all times during breaks, particularly when they get older. It isn't feasible.

Well because there is a pattern of similar injuries which could be linked? Worth pointing out, surely? Fractures are serious injuries and will impact their lives for weeks at least.

For context I had two sons who managed to get through education (and to the best of my knowledge so did their friends) without any such injuries.

Sporting injuries yes, definitely. Playground, no.

Sissynova · 08/06/2023 15:46

I just don't really see what you would contact them about? You've already been in contact with them about your son, the other boy has nothing to do with you and you aren't involved at all.

How old is your son?

Teachers are not supervising all pupils at all times during breaks, particularly when they get older. It isn't feasible.