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polon · 07/06/2023 12:24

Been seeing ExDP again since last year, not exclusively.

He has a long history of asking lots of questions about my sexual past and accusing me of sleeping with people when I haven't.

Last night he asked for a nude photo and I sent it. All fine.

Today, randomly and out of the blue he then accused me of editing it to make my body look more curvy (I didn't) and said I had clearly sent it to other men. And said I'm making such an effort to impress other men.

I denied the accusations but he carried on. I was sleeping with a man years ago now who turns out to not be a very nice person, he often gets brought up. He said today that he finds it "cringe" and that I defend sleeping him and that I should admit to regretting it. I didn't know the bad things about him at the time.

I called him crazy and said that he is relentless with this. He said he's not, that he can be a "little psycho" but he's just protective and that's the way he is. He says he doesn't tell me what to do or what to wear or ever shout at me.

He said: "sensitive polon strikes again".

I've ended things. He thinks I've overreacted.

Have I?

OP posts:
SallySunrise · 07/06/2023 12:28

You've done the right thing.

35965a · 07/06/2023 12:26

He’s an abusive nightmare, free yourself from him. Don’t take him back.

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 07/06/2023 12:26

No. He is awful. You deserve better. He is an insecure abusive asshole.

Needanewnamebeingwatched · 07/06/2023 12:26

Ex's and ex's for a reason.

He sounds controlling and not very nice

Seriously I would LTB and move on

Cap89 · 07/06/2023 12:26

Obviously not. This guy is a nightmare. Block and move on. Do not go back.

GrazingSheep · 07/06/2023 12:25

No.

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