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FlipFlopsInMyCar · 01/06/2023 15:30

Maybe I am being unreasonable. Not sure.

But I clicked on my linkedIn profile today and two massive rainbows stuck out at me! Looks like two of my previous workplaces have changed their logos to the rainbow flag.

Now, I'm in support of individuals wearing rainbow badges if they want to publically show they are allies of LGBTQ+ Even a few colleagues have put the rainbow on their email signature. That's cool with me.

But I don't know how I feel about whole workplaces replacing their company logo with a rainbow? Seems like rainbows are taking over the world.

I guess maybe it doesn't matter but I can't help but think it's a bit weird that whole institutions are now becoming activists and replacing their identity with rainbows which to me, makes a statement?

Not sure whether and what I'm being unreasonable about, but just wondered other people's thoughts really?

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hotjuneafternoon · 04/06/2023 19:07

my daughter was met with a stonewall (ironically enough Grin) when she asked the leader of the diversity team at her Uni why they never do anything to support, champion or highlight the struggles of the University's many autistic (top RG stem heavy uni) students. Lots and lots of highlighting of trans issues though, ad infinitum...

alabastercodefier · 04/06/2023 18:50

You might enjoy this.
twitter.com/KeenanPeachy/status/1665403098142244864?s=20

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 20:19

Verv · 02/06/2023 18:50

@oakleaffy absolutely.
I've had a TIM insist that lesbians should think of his penis as a birth defect "like a cleft palate".

It's homophobic nonsense like this that has so many LGB people going back into self imposed closets and meeting in secret/private groups again.
"Progressive and inclusive" has sent us back 80 years.

Not to mention moderate society getting to sick to the back teeth of the encroaching into womens spaces/targetting children etc which creates ill-feeling towards the LGB because every time someone says something faintly sensible/critical the offense of the "LGBTQ community" is invoked to shut them down and silence.

We aren't a community. We need a divorce.

Could’t agree more with what you say.

You put your points of view across in a very articulate manner.

The poster on here who suggested that I “ Hate” Trans identified men is wrong.

I don’t “ Hate” anyone- I just wish they’d respect women’s spaces and sports and would stop the assertion that people can change sex-
That is just not physically possible.

The fantasies around having periods is annoying, too.

Trans identified females don’t seem to be as threatening to Gay men.

sunnydaysandhappythoughts · 02/06/2023 19:56

CountZacular · 01/06/2023 15:39

I would be a more willing to accept companies shoving rainbows on their logos and doors when they show the same level of virtual signalling support to disabilities.

Completely agree

Timesawastin · 02/06/2023 19:52

Thesunnymood · 01/06/2023 15:34

The only issue I have with this is that it's quite frankly just pr for most of these companies. No actual care

This. It's mostly just jumping on the bandwagon to make more money.

Verv · 02/06/2023 18:51

*so sick to the back teeth.

Verv · 02/06/2023 18:50

@oakleaffy absolutely.
I've had a TIM insist that lesbians should think of his penis as a birth defect "like a cleft palate".

It's homophobic nonsense like this that has so many LGB people going back into self imposed closets and meeting in secret/private groups again.
"Progressive and inclusive" has sent us back 80 years.

Not to mention moderate society getting to sick to the back teeth of the encroaching into womens spaces/targetting children etc which creates ill-feeling towards the LGB because every time someone says something faintly sensible/critical the offense of the "LGBTQ community" is invoked to shut them down and silence.

We aren't a community. We need a divorce.

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 18:15

Verv · 02/06/2023 17:52

"We exist/we want to exist" is both manipulative and disingenuous in the extreme.
Everyone exists, and will continue to do so until they die.

The meaning behind "we want to exist" in the context of gender ideology is "We want the rest of society to acquiesce to our belief system at the expense of reality and use the speech which we compel to validate our identities."

What's wanted is submission.
Existence has F all to do with it.

I had to actually leave the room in a women’s group because a male bodied person was wittering on about his periods that “Happen every three days” they are also “Lesbian” in their mind as they are attracted to women.

This person speaks over the actual women and their favourite term is “ Transphobic”.

This person was asked to leave a vulnerable women’s group elsewhere for showing porn to a woman.

Women want to exist without male bodied people boorishly entering our spaces, mansplaining what it is like to suffer “ Periods”😤

LangClegsInSpace · 02/06/2023 18:07

lailamaria · 02/06/2023 15:51

@TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening a protected characteristic is something that is if a person has that characteristic then they aren't allowed to be discriminated against, some include, race, sexuality, marriage and yes gender identity, meaning that they have a right to protection and cannot be removed from a workplace or an institution based on that characteristic, ie when so many people last year were annoyed that that trans student gave a speech at that university and said that they shouldn't have been allowed, well legally they couldn't stop them

I see someone has already pointed out that you are wrong about gender identity being a protected characteristic. You are also wrong about 'sexuality'. The protected characteristic is Sexual Orientation and is defined as being sexually orientated towards people of the same sex, people of the opposite sex or people of both sexes - i.e. being homosexual, heterosexual or bisexual. This is important because 'sexuality' can include all kinds of kinks and fetishes which are not, and should not be, protected.

so many people last year were annoyed that that trans student gave a speech at that university and said that they shouldn't have been allowed

What are you referring to here please?

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 18:04

alabastercodefier · 02/06/2023 17:51

I haven't read all the responses but I can assure you there's plenty of us gays who are sick to death of Pride and want no part of that 'community'. This article captures my feelings.
https://unherd.com/2023/06/pride-is-no-place-for-homosexuals/?cx_testId=4&cx_testVariant=cx_1&cx_artPos=2&cx_experienceId=EXHVQEIQA4S9#cxrecs_s

Very good article.
Thanks for sharing.

MumblesParty · 02/06/2023 17:56

YANBU. Irritates me actually, and if I had a choice between using a rainbow-logo company and one without, I’d choose without. If institutions are going to publicise their LGBT stance, why not say their position on rights of disabled people, women, children, single parents, ethnic minorities, deaf people, blind people etc etc - the list is endless. Why is the LGBT population so much more worthy of support? It’s just a virtue signalling bandwagon.

Verv · 02/06/2023 17:53

alabastercodefier · 02/06/2023 17:51

I haven't read all the responses but I can assure you there's plenty of us gays who are sick to death of Pride and want no part of that 'community'. This article captures my feelings.
https://unherd.com/2023/06/pride-is-no-place-for-homosexuals/?cx_testId=4&cx_testVariant=cx_1&cx_artPos=2&cx_experienceId=EXHVQEIQA4S9#cxrecs_s

That article sums it up perfectly.

Verv · 02/06/2023 17:52

senua · 02/06/2023 17:44

that trans student gave a speech at that university
I love your attention to detail.

trans people have a right to exist
Nobody has ever said otherwise. Do please stop trotting this line out - it makes you look very silly and slightly unhinged.

"We exist/we want to exist" is both manipulative and disingenuous in the extreme.
Everyone exists, and will continue to do so until they die.

The meaning behind "we want to exist" in the context of gender ideology is "We want the rest of society to acquiesce to our belief system at the expense of reality and use the speech which we compel to validate our identities."

What's wanted is submission.
Existence has F all to do with it.

senua · 02/06/2023 17:44

that trans student gave a speech at that university
I love your attention to detail.

trans people have a right to exist
Nobody has ever said otherwise. Do please stop trotting this line out - it makes you look very silly and slightly unhinged.

Sausagenbacon · 02/06/2023 17:42

The odd thing to me is that it is nowhere near as common elsewhere in Europe. I didn't see one rainbow flag when I travelled through France, Austria and Switzerland last year.

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 17:39

Hoppinggreen · 02/06/2023 17:19

It’s almost as if actual facts aren’t important and reality depends on who’s reality it is

That just about sums it up.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 02/06/2023 17:39

lailamaria · 02/06/2023 16:01

@Thesunnymood you're right, sex, sexuality and gender reassignment i feel falls under the same umbrella though but yeah my bad

@TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening well sexuality is lgtbq and that's on the list so i don't understand what you mean

You do understand what I mean but you've answered my question exactly how you thought you would, thank you.

ASimpleLampoon · 02/06/2023 17:38

It bugs me because it's virtue signalling unless they are actively trying to support people in everyday life, which is ongoing dedicated work.

It's a bit like Mainstream schools having cake stalls for Autism Awareness, when most do not meet the needs of autistic students and more high support needs students get segregated off into special schools.

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 17:37

Verv · 02/06/2023 16:34

The flag was created in 1978 by a gay man, and made its first appearance at the Gay Freedom Day Parade.
Craig Rodman, Fred Sergeant, Linda Rhodes and Ellen Broidy, Homosexuals, started Pride.
Go find images from the early events and see who wasn't there. The "TQ" are radically absent from photographs.

And, no thank you. No transwashing of gay history today, thanks.
Storme, a lesbian, threw the first brick at the Stonewall riots.
Martha was not there at the time that the riots started, and more importantly he identified as a gay man and laughed at and about people who thought he was a woman.
In HIS own words - https://www.youtube.com/shorts/sYW0Mg1i_wk
Yes, there was a mix of gays, lesbians, and drag queens. But those queens had no desire to occupy womanhood or pretend that their attire made them female.

In the UK Pride started with the Gay Liberation Front, Bev Jackson, a lesbian, was one of the founders and is still active as a founder of the LGB Alliance.. Once again, something's missing from the GLF, isnt it? Ah yes, the TQ, because they weren't introduced to the LGB until the 2010s when Stonewall, needed to find a new income stream once gay people had achieved equality.

And while we're at it, the hyperbole and silly bleats about "wiping us out" and "we exist" has got well past its sell by date.
Nobody is afraid of the tantrums anymore.

❤️

Highandlows · 02/06/2023 17:31

This is to make sure they are getting LGTB and GenZ and millennials to buy their products and to make sure they will not boycott otherwise. Nothing more.

OriginalUsername2 · 02/06/2023 17:25

FlipFlopsInMyCar · 01/06/2023 15:36

It does actually!!! I thought I might be being unreasonable, just something didn't sit right! Like the companies had lost their identity which was being replaced by a rainbow and all that is saying (which is good stuff, it's just it's only one issue so not sure why it's taking presidence (over say, BLM or woman's rights or North Korea or cost of living crisis or the Russia war or etc...)

Pretty sure BLM went bankrupt

Hoppinggreen · 02/06/2023 17:19

oakleaffy · 02/06/2023 17:04

Exactly. If 1978 was a century ago, I’d like my pension too, please!
Someone’s maths is way out!

It’s almost as if actual facts aren’t important and reality depends on who’s reality it is

Clarabe1 · 02/06/2023 17:18

The company I work for has gone pride mad. Rainbows are literally everywhere. I have no issue with this except for the blatant hypocrisy of it all when they actively seek business in Qatar! It’s just virtue signaling. I suspect most companies are the same and use Pride as a PR opportunity.

JulieHoney · 02/06/2023 17:05

Cynical corporate rainbow-washing. Capitalism taking over what was once protest.

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