I don’t know whether I’m being sensitive or whether this is something to feel annoyed about.
My husband and I are separating amicably. I’ve always got on with his family. His sister and mum continue to message me to check I’m ok and tell me they are here for me. Everyone in the family knows it’s not acrimonious.
My husband had a health issue recently which he’s in denial about. I messaged his brother about this because he is a doctor (husband is aware so no issues there). My brother in law then messaged my husband saying “I don’t know what’s going on. You should know this is what your wife is saying about you.” To me this implies that I could be lying and spreading false rumours about him, which I found offensive. I have never done anything to warrant that kind of characterisation.
My mother in law would like the whole family to get together in the next few weeks for a celebration (mostly so the kids can spend time with each other) and has asked me to join. I like her so I would have done it, but I don’t really feel like seeing my brother in law after this. I don’t know if I’m being overly sensitive though?