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Meetingonthehill · 26/05/2023 21:45

AIBU to think school could and should have managed this better?

Son is Year 9.

Today school informed the children that there is an enrichment trip to a theme park. The letter would be sent to parents at 3.30pm and the payment portal opened at the same time. Kids advised it was first come first served.

This particular enrichment activity was open to Year 9 (this is their only offering for this year group) and also open to Year 8 (who have the choice of two theme parks).

(Year 9 have had no enrichment trips prior to this - Covid meant the Year 7 residential wasn’t offered and nothing was offered last year when they were in Year 8.)

My son tried to call me at 3.20 as he came out of school but I was at work (no phones allowed). I did finish work at 3.55 so called him back when he told me about the letter and trip.

I logged on to the portal straight away but all the places had gone.

AIBU to think that if offering something on a first for first served basis they should give people a bit more notice than 10 minutes? (The time between when the kids can use their phone after school and the time the portal opened.)

Surely only the parents who don’t work/have desk based jobs can realistically book something with that tight a turn around?

Not to mention those who may just be able to afford it but might need a little bit of time to balance the books to make sure.

Of course, it’s half term next week so nothing can be done and probably won’t be.

I realise they are lucky to have staff that can put on trips but it seems really unfair to split this opportunity across two year groups and not give everyone a fair chance at taking them up on the offer (especially as they haven’t had any other trips before). I realise they may not have the staff to cover everyone going. But why not make the booking process fairer?

OP posts:
budgiegirl · 27/05/2023 16:56

It is super easy to run a lottery system, probably 5 mins max to run it

Except it isn't, it's actually quite a bit more time consuming to run. The software that we use sends out emails, asks parents to sign up, and once the places are full, it runs a waiting list. This is all done automatically.

If we did a lottery system, then this would have to be done manually, would involve making lists, selecting names the old fashioned way (quite literally out of a hat!) sending out many more emails, and would be much more time consuming. I appreciate that this may depend on the systems used, but for my scout group, this is how it would be. And I'm only talking about a cub pack of 30, it would be much more time consuming for a school year group.

XelaM · 27/05/2023 16:53

AbreathofFrenchair · 27/05/2023 10:19

All trips at our secondary are first come first served unless its necessary for the lesson (local geography field trip for example) even the expensive ones. The ski trip this year was £2500 and first come first served.

Geography big trip was open to all as it was for gcse to stud the glaciers for 5 days but sons not going on that one as its around £3,800.

It's not fair but at the same, I wouldn't want to try and arrange a trip for a whole year group, 1 year group at our school is 300 hundred children.

Set a limit and first come first served is the fairest way and it won't do anyone any harm

What are those prices?!? 😱 My kid has been in private schools since reception and I've never seen school trip prices like the ones you mention. Ski trips, New York trip, trip to the Algarve etc. are all around the £1500 mark. Your school is nuts.

IhearyouClemFandango · 27/05/2023 16:49

budgiegirl · 27/05/2023 12:28

Lottery is inherently more fair than first come first served and no more difficult to administer. Why wouldn’t schools do that?

While it may be fairer, it's almost certainly more difficult to administer, as presumably the school are using software that they just set up and let run. It would be more work to do a lottery system, I would think.

I'm a cub leader, and organise about 6 trips/camps per year. Most are unlimited for attendance, but sometimes we have to limit numbers. We always do this on a first come, first served basis - it's the easiest way due to the software we use, I don't have time (or inclination) to run it any other way. Sometimes I release the details during the working day, with no notice (not even an hour, because of the way our system works). And because that's when it suits me to do it.

I do agree that a little more notice would be good, but the timing of the 'release' may just have to be during office hours, as that's when the teachers are available to release it. I appreciate that this will vary according to the software used, but may explain why some schools can't be more flexible.

At the end of the day, no system is perfect, and you'll always annoy someone!

It is super easy to run a lottery system, probably 5 mins max to run it.

LlynTegid · 27/05/2023 16:46

First come first served with several days warning would be better, though I still feel any time would disadvantage some.

Restricting numbers is reasonable in my view.

YellowDots · 27/05/2023 16:36

Firstly, any school trip that takes place during school hours in the UK CANNOT ask for payment - they can only request a voluntary donation. The school then has (limited) funds to subsidise pupils from very low income families who cannot afford school trips.*

Isn't that for educational trips?

towriteyoumustlive · 27/05/2023 16:33

AbreathofFrenchair · 27/05/2023 10:19

All trips at our secondary are first come first served unless its necessary for the lesson (local geography field trip for example) even the expensive ones. The ski trip this year was £2500 and first come first served.

Geography big trip was open to all as it was for gcse to stud the glaciers for 5 days but sons not going on that one as its around £3,800.

It's not fair but at the same, I wouldn't want to try and arrange a trip for a whole year group, 1 year group at our school is 300 hundred children.

Set a limit and first come first served is the fairest way and it won't do anyone any harm

I disagree with this.

How on earth is it the fairest way?!?!

What about parents who work? Parents who don't have instant access to a phone/computer? Parents who cannot pay immediately?

Firstly, any school trip that takes place during school hours in the UK CANNOT ask for payment - they can only request a voluntary donation. The school then has (limited) funds to subsidise pupils from very low income families who cannot afford school trips*.

The ONLY fair way to do it is to give people a time period (say 48 hours) to ask for a place, then if there are more demands than spaces, a fair ballot needs to take place.

  • If too many parents refuse to pay the voluntary donation but want their child to go on the school trip, the trip has to be cancelled.
budgiegirl · 27/05/2023 12:28

Lottery is inherently more fair than first come first served and no more difficult to administer. Why wouldn’t schools do that?

While it may be fairer, it's almost certainly more difficult to administer, as presumably the school are using software that they just set up and let run. It would be more work to do a lottery system, I would think.

I'm a cub leader, and organise about 6 trips/camps per year. Most are unlimited for attendance, but sometimes we have to limit numbers. We always do this on a first come, first served basis - it's the easiest way due to the software we use, I don't have time (or inclination) to run it any other way. Sometimes I release the details during the working day, with no notice (not even an hour, because of the way our system works). And because that's when it suits me to do it.

I do agree that a little more notice would be good, but the timing of the 'release' may just have to be during office hours, as that's when the teachers are available to release it. I appreciate that this will vary according to the software used, but may explain why some schools can't be more flexible.

At the end of the day, no system is perfect, and you'll always annoy someone!

EarringsandLipstick · 27/05/2023 12:09

Sartre · 27/05/2023 10:27

Similar situation the other day for me so I sympathise. I knew my DS wanted to go on a certain trip, the teachers had told them about it a few weeks ago so knew it would be coming up but didn’t know when. They announced it at 2pm but I was in a meeting which I was out of by 3pm so I went to pay for it but places had all gone.

I’d promised DS he could go and had been keeping an eye on the app for the announcement but obviously couldn’t help being in a meeting at the time. Can’t believe they announced in when most parents would be at work tbh, found it very unfair. Also surprised all 40 places had gone within an hour. It’s not a theme park trip, it’s a science museum. He’s in year 8 and been having a tough time with bullying so I feel mega guilty because I’d promised him.

I felt really sad for your DS (and you!) reading this.

It's so unfair. Nearly impossible for you to have paid in time.

Winterday1991 · 27/05/2023 11:43

GloryBees · 26/05/2023 22:13

I’m struggling to see how enrichment is a theme park visit (misses point of thread). Regardless it’s a completely unfair system, lottery much fairer if it’s over subscribed. Totally ridiculous.

I thought this too

rookiemere · 27/05/2023 11:42

This reminds me of the brilliant sports camp that was available for a few weeks in the school holidays. It was great value and tremendous fun, apparently as my DS never got in.

The phone lines for booking opened at 8am on a Monday so the only DCs that ever got in had SAHMs able to dial in at that point.

Sailawaytocromer · 27/05/2023 11:24

@paq. Thanks. And you sound like someone who could benefit from seeing how much good can be done by opening opportunities to children (and some of the adults who work with them). Michael and Clare Morpurgo were called “do-gooders”
too. Almost 50 years later, look how many children have been impacted by their “do gooding”

Paq · 27/05/2023 11:16

@Sailawaytocromer I won't reply again because OP's thread is about the method of including children in the trip, not the merits of it. But genuinely you sound like every middle class do-gooder who waded into the charity I worked for, telling us how we could do things better, when having really examined or thought about the issues.

Sailawaytocromer · 27/05/2023 10:31

@Paq “You'll be one of those that thinks that every deprived kid is a nascent Billy Elliott or some other fairy tale.”

how patronising. No. But I think deprived children need opportunities and not to be fobbed off and patronised with trips that don’t offer any educational value. A youth group going to a theme park? Great! A school? Use the money for something a bit more adventurous…

XelaM · 27/05/2023 10:29

I would honestly but a ticket and take him to the same theme park on the same day. I don't see what the problem is if the parent pays for it and is there to supervise

Sailawaytocromer · 27/05/2023 10:28

@paq The university town I live in puts on a week of free amazing science activities for children every year. It’s drop in, right in the centre of town, within walking distance of more than a dozen schools. The families who go are overwhelmingly middle class/privileged. It upsets me every year. I asked a few local families if they’d be interested in going and they said “my kids won’t like it”, “science is boring” etc. It’s drop in and it’s free. It’s lead by engaged and brilliant students. I persuaded one to go and they were amazed that their children enjoyed it so much. THIS IS WHY I am so passionate about schools being ambitious for children - especially when they don’t have parents whose lived experiences are pretty limited.

Those children don’t need to become scientists, but they had an interesting few hours, had the chance to chat to and be taught by students, saw inside amazing university labs, had a different experience.

Yes I’m a middle class fairly privileged parent. But I don’t spend a huge amount on extra curricular things and any free/low cost local events that sound interesting we will probably try.

I have also taught under privileged children rurally (some of them may well not have been on an escalator either but most know all there was to know about lambing!). It is so important that schools educate and nurture - treats are great but if our school ran a trip to a theme park I think most parents would be really surprised and question that decision.

Sartre · 27/05/2023 10:27

Similar situation the other day for me so I sympathise. I knew my DS wanted to go on a certain trip, the teachers had told them about it a few weeks ago so knew it would be coming up but didn’t know when. They announced it at 2pm but I was in a meeting which I was out of by 3pm so I went to pay for it but places had all gone.

I’d promised DS he could go and had been keeping an eye on the app for the announcement but obviously couldn’t help being in a meeting at the time. Can’t believe they announced in when most parents would be at work tbh, found it very unfair. Also surprised all 40 places had gone within an hour. It’s not a theme park trip, it’s a science museum. He’s in year 8 and been having a tough time with bullying so I feel mega guilty because I’d promised him.

XelaM · 27/05/2023 10:26

openstop · 27/05/2023 09:34

I really don't think the school would like that

Why not? What's the problem with this?

Paq · 27/05/2023 10:25

Sailawaytocromer · 27/05/2023 10:20

@Paq I’m not on a high horse. I understand that many children have few opportunities to do very much with their families or to travel out of their village/town. But it’s not a race to the bottom.

For children who have limited opportunities, I’d just love for the schools to be ambitious enough for them that a theme park might not trump something that could show them a bit more life… There is SO much out there that is free/low cost for children. Lots of parents can’t or won’t engage their children but schools can.

You simply don't get it. It's fine, unless you have worked in and with communities that have deep and persistent deprivation you never will. You'll be one of those that thinks that every deprived kid is a nascent Billy Elliott or some other fairy tale.

thesnailandthewhale · 27/05/2023 10:25

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 27/05/2023 00:20

I don't understand why a day trip to a theme park even has a cap. Offer it to 100% of Y9 students. Staff accordingly. They are y9, they can be grouped up and asked to call and check in on the hour. Put a staff member on the gate to make sure none leave. Job done.

Mad. Can understand caps on trips to the galapagos or Iceland, but Thorpe Park??

If only Confused ... the rules and regs behind school trips are huge. Every trip just generates complaints like these from parents who don't appreciate what has to go in to organising and running a trip. Very rarely do any parents thank staff afterwards.

Meetingonthehill · 27/05/2023 10:23

AbreathofFrenchair · 27/05/2023 10:19

All trips at our secondary are first come first served unless its necessary for the lesson (local geography field trip for example) even the expensive ones. The ski trip this year was £2500 and first come first served.

Geography big trip was open to all as it was for gcse to stud the glaciers for 5 days but sons not going on that one as its around £3,800.

It's not fair but at the same, I wouldn't want to try and arrange a trip for a whole year group, 1 year group at our school is 300 hundred children.

Set a limit and first come first served is the fairest way and it won't do anyone any harm

Just to clarify - it’s not so much the first come first served part.

But the way in which there was very little (as in minutes) notice to the booking being open.

If it is to be first come first served, that’s fine, but give a bit of notice so parents can prepare as necessary - get someone else to log in for them or chance to work out their finances or both!

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mycoffeecup · 27/05/2023 10:22

BlackeyedSusan · 27/05/2023 10:15

This is how our school do it.

Much fairer.

Yup, ours too. gives them time also to look at other factors e.g. some trips you get priority if you're doing a related subject for GCSE

BungleandGeorge · 27/05/2023 10:22

I think anyone who works with young people should be able to recognise that selective trips to theme parks are really unfair and shouldn’t be happening. It’s a perfectly valid complaint. It would actually be better not to organise it at all. Organising a trip for a specific group eg those studying x is fine but I really don’t understand why school staff can be onboard for these highly selective trips that exclude many people. Picking out of a hat isn’t a whole lot better either

Sailawaytocromer · 27/05/2023 10:20

@Paq I’m not on a high horse. I understand that many children have few opportunities to do very much with their families or to travel out of their village/town. But it’s not a race to the bottom.

For children who have limited opportunities, I’d just love for the schools to be ambitious enough for them that a theme park might not trump something that could show them a bit more life… There is SO much out there that is free/low cost for children. Lots of parents can’t or won’t engage their children but schools can.

AbreathofFrenchair · 27/05/2023 10:19

All trips at our secondary are first come first served unless its necessary for the lesson (local geography field trip for example) even the expensive ones. The ski trip this year was £2500 and first come first served.

Geography big trip was open to all as it was for gcse to stud the glaciers for 5 days but sons not going on that one as its around £3,800.

It's not fair but at the same, I wouldn't want to try and arrange a trip for a whole year group, 1 year group at our school is 300 hundred children.

Set a limit and first come first served is the fairest way and it won't do anyone any harm

BlackeyedSusan · 27/05/2023 10:15

mycoffeecup · 26/05/2023 21:58

Easy. Anyone who wants to go signs up before a certain time, if demand outstrips supply, those who didn't get to go on the last trip get priority then names out of a hat.

This is how our school do it.

Much fairer.