We had twins quite young by today's standards (30) and because of childcare costs, I stayed home to care for them. Compounded by the pandemic, it was difficult.
I've recently returned to work only to find myself a victim of undue influence. The situation with work is stressful and I am in the process of sorting it out.
I told mil what had happened and she snapped, saying I should be on more money at my age, that I can't be complaining about work issues and that the kids depend on me for support. She also assumed that the reason I was kicking up a fuss with work was because I wanted another child. She also accused me of not wanting to work (that I was lazy).
How can you be lazy with twins?
We have been dabbling with having another child but we can't afford it and have come up with a unanimous, no. It is none of her business.
The way she spoke to me has really shaken me up though. She needs to understand that I'm really trying my best. Aibu with her?