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goingtoboo · 15/05/2023 12:39

A colleague asked what I was doing at the weekend and I said I’m going to Edinburgh to see my friend.

She responded that she keeps seeing me do nice things (on social media) and wondered where these friends had come from 😐

I’m nice to everyone at work, albeit a bit quiet but quiet people can still have friends. Maybe I’m being sensitive though as she’s made these kind of brash comments before.

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Bathroomlove · 15/05/2023 12:48

Just say you met them all on FabSwingers.

WandaWonder · 15/05/2023 12:48

MillenialAvocado · 15/05/2023 12:45

Does she have many friends? She sounds a little jealous.

Sure I don't get the comment but every time someone says something odd or 'bad' the old 'they must be jealous' line comes out

I have to say it makes me think of children when that line is used

Op she could mean 101 things by it you could ask her what she meant?

MrsDoylesDoily · 15/05/2023 12:47

Does she just mean you haven't mentioned them in conversation?

itsmylife7 · 15/05/2023 12:46

She's assuming you're a quiet little mouse person who sits at home alone.

She also sounds rude I'd never say anything like that.

You could always tell her you do pole dancing at the weekend 😁

pecantoucan · 15/05/2023 12:46

Does she mean she was wondering how you know them? Or is she a nasty peice of work generally?

MillenialAvocado · 15/05/2023 12:45

Does she have many friends? She sounds a little jealous.

DucksNewburyport · 15/05/2023 12:43

How rude!

theGooHasGone · 15/05/2023 12:42

Tell her if she was nicer to people she could have friends too and walk away!

OhComeOnFFS · 15/05/2023 12:41

What does she mean, where have all the friends come from? That's a really weird thing to say.