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AA lied! WWYD?

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misstrot · 09/05/2023 12:48

I am FUMING! Lies! OMG-please read-sorry it's long-I need advice!
DD (20) hit a small piece of debris on motorway on the way home from uni on the motorway. Car seemed ok but next time she took it out it overheated so we called AA. Patrolman said everything was fine-it just needed oil and water (he filled water but we had to go get the oil) Now DD is a bit nervy driving so she asked was he sure it was ok to drive back to uni (2 hr drive) and he assured her-yes. Then I asked him and he said he 'wouldn't send a young girl onto the motorway in the car if he didn't believe the car was perfectly safe and roadworthy' Enter DH who asks him is he sure ok-doesn't need to be checked at the garage as his DD is very precious and he wants her to be safe etc-again AA reiterates 'all safe-all roadworthy-doesn't need anything doing"- I follow him to the van to input my email/sign attendance from and he tells me no need.
You guessed it-she goes back to uni and breaks down on the M4 in bad weather (it takes 5+ hours for them to send a recovery truck and she is traumatised!)
We get the car delivered back here and ask a local garage to come and look. The garage owner states the car had a severe water leak (the AA didn't pressure test the system) which has caused car to overheat and blown the head gasket-so dead. Bearing in mind DD worked and saved up all summer and only bought the car in August- from a reputable National chain and paid £4000 (it's a little mini) she is devastated.
Ok, so we send report to AA and ask for compensation/new (2nd hand) engine for car. They send an 'Independant Assessor' (paid for by AA and does most of his work for AA so not really independent!?) who literally spends 4 mins taking photos -opens the bonnet and says the head gasket has gone and leaves. His report states that it was our fault for driving it as the head gasket had gone (for clarity it was fine before-no smoke from exhaust and only had a full service and 120 point check in August etc)
The AA then state the patrolman informed us that the car was not roadworthy and should be taken to a garage so they don't hold liability!!!!!! WTF! A complete LIE and 360 on what he said to us. Sadly too late to download Ring doorbell footage to support us -as its gone and he never sent us an emailed report stating what he did or advised-normal protocol. Help! What can I do?

OP posts:
Male101 · 09/05/2023 13:45

SofiaSoFar · 09/05/2023 13:44

I'm not sure why people think these are useless responses.

OP might be able to complain that the AA person didn't spot the severity of the leak but the rest is avoidable, consequential damage.

You can't possibly claim it's the AA's fault she ignored the overheating to the point it trashed the engine.

Crazy.

Makes sense to me

SofiaSoFar · 09/05/2023 13:44

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 09/05/2023 13:37

Lol! Will there be a third comment? A hat-trick of uselessness?

I'm not sure why people think these are useless responses.

OP might be able to complain that the AA person didn't spot the severity of the leak but the rest is avoidable, consequential damage.

You can't possibly claim it's the AA's fault she ignored the overheating to the point it trashed the engine.

Crazy.

AnObserverInThisDarkWorld · 09/05/2023 13:40

So - was she on the drive when it wouldn't start?

It was definitely suspect he didn't ask any paperwork to be signed and I'd push with the AA that nothing was signed to prove he'd said it wasn't roadworthy either

If you and DH were so concerned, which it sounds like you already didn't trust him, why didn't you take the car to get checked over anyway?

Im99912 · 09/05/2023 13:39

I’ve had 3 mins over the years and in each one of them the head gasket went
my last mini only had 40000 miles
I’m just a sucker for them 😂
but you should have paperwork that clearly outlines what was done and anything that needs doing

Boujee11 · 09/05/2023 13:38

There must be some record that he attended? I recently had a new battery from the AA and they did email a report over, I had to sign too when he was finished, did you?

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 09/05/2023 13:37

Male101 · 09/05/2023 13:14

Also minis are well known for head gasket failures

Lol! Will there be a third comment? A hat-trick of uselessness?

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 09/05/2023 13:36

Male101 · 09/05/2023 13:12

Why didn't she pull over when she saw the temp rising?

I see the helpful car expert has logged on to save the day

peachespeachespeaches · 09/05/2023 13:34

@Male101 both absolutely fantastically helpful responses. Thank god you're here.

Male101 · 09/05/2023 13:14

Also minis are well known for head gasket failures

holaholiday · 09/05/2023 13:12

as you have no paperwork given by the AA person have you checked that this is the right procedure?. Surely they have to get you to sign somehow ,even electronicaly,for what they have done/advised as this situation proves, as much to cover themselves as well as you….I’ve not broken down for yonks but remember being given a paper copy.

Male101 · 09/05/2023 13:12

Why didn't she pull over when she saw the temp rising?