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He called his ex when drunk

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confuseddotcom201 · 06/05/2023 11:44

My partner went out and had a few too many.
When he got home I heard him on the phone telling someone he thought of them every single day.
He also said he missed them and something about a holiday.
I snooped on his phone this morning and it was his ex.
Aibu to think he still has feelings for her? They split properly 4 months ago but I think things were rocky for a bit before that.

OP posts:
Darkroot · 06/05/2023 11:50

He split up with his ex 4 months ago and you already live together?

confuseddotcom201 · 06/05/2023 11:50

They split officially 4 months ago but the relationship had run its course months before that. I know he wasn't happy with her the last 2 months they were together.
I know we've got together quite quick but we were friends before so I've known him longer.

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happypoobum · 06/05/2023 11:49

Yeah I wouldn’t be happy playing second best.

Off he fucks.

Chickychoccyegg · 06/05/2023 11:47

Well he's not really your partner, if he only split with his ex 4 months ago?
Of course he still has feelings for her, you heard him say it himself?