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MissJD · 26/04/2023 11:51

i moved in October to maisonette with my 6yo .

below us lives woman with 10 dogs . these dogs are never walked and always inside her 2 bedroom house .

obviously barking is constant. day and night . our life is hell . sleep deprivation is form of torture and it's not fair on dogs to always sit indoors too.

i reported this to RSPCA , council , landlords however nothing is done .

is my only option to move now ? is it animal cruelty to keep 10 dogs inside and never walk them ?

can anyone give me advice i'm desperate now , my child is disabled and she can't sleep at night begging me to stop barking .

smell is unbearable too , it comes up to our house from downstairs

any advice would be greatly appreciated

thank you

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Lattims83 · 01/11/2023 12:02

MissJD · 01/11/2023 11:52

i found a swap , moving in few weeks .

I tried EVERYTHING. RSPCA , council , even MP and nothing changed . These poor dogs were stuck in heatwave , they never out , they howl and cry and NO ONE cares .

One dog sounds like he is dying , and no one helps .

Summer was awful as all fumes of dogs faeces were coming up to my place , last year was hell .

And unfortunately no one cares , i reported about a week ago to RSPCA and they didn't even want to take her details . No one cares , unbelievable

But maybe smth will change as Clarion ( my HA ) called me to let me know they are taking this woman to court

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oh god, that's just horrible. Do you mind sending me a PM with the area you live in and any details you can give me? I'll post on some FB groups, see if someone can do something to help those animals.

MissJD · 01/11/2023 11:52

Lattims83 · 01/11/2023 11:47

Those poor dogs :( Also, RSPCA are beyond useless, they wouldn't do anything to stop cruelty if it were happening on their doorstep. Have you tried contacting local rescues, posting on animal welfare and dog loving fb groups? Sometimes with enough people involved the community can rally around and force her to do something out of fear of being ostracised. As someone who is passionate about animal welfare I can certainly say like minded people would get involved.Scrolling mums net during a meeting and just realised that I am very late to the game here, hopefully the situation was sorted, for both yourself and those poor animals.

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i found a swap , moving in few weeks .

I tried EVERYTHING. RSPCA , council , even MP and nothing changed . These poor dogs were stuck in heatwave , they never out , they howl and cry and NO ONE cares .

One dog sounds like he is dying , and no one helps .

Summer was awful as all fumes of dogs faeces were coming up to my place , last year was hell .

And unfortunately no one cares , i reported about a week ago to RSPCA and they didn't even want to take her details . No one cares , unbelievable

But maybe smth will change as Clarion ( my HA ) called me to let me know they are taking this woman to court

X

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Lattims83 · 01/11/2023 11:47

Those poor dogs :( Also, RSPCA are beyond useless, they wouldn't do anything to stop cruelty if it were happening on their doorstep. Have you tried contacting local rescues, posting on animal welfare and dog loving fb groups? Sometimes with enough people involved the community can rally around and force her to do something out of fear of being ostracised. As someone who is passionate about animal welfare I can certainly say like minded people would get involved.Scrolling mums net during a meeting and just realised that I am very late to the game here, hopefully the situation was sorted, for both yourself and those poor animals.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 05/05/2023 15:30

@MissJD - in addition to the Daily Mail article - you ,any wish to try to write to the key people of Clarion at their registered office address - details highlighted in the attached from the FCA website

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MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 05/05/2023 15:18

Sevenbells · 26/04/2023 12:56

Contact your local paper - it's a terrible situation and the council needs to do something.

If you are nice, you could let them know you are contacting the media first to give them a bit of a warning. Say that it's breaking your heart (it is) and that no one is listening and you are desperate.

Well, it's now in the mass circulation Daily Mail so maybe the poor OP can capitalise on that

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/parenting/article-12021417/My-neighbour-TEN-DOGS-NEVER-walks.html#comments

My neighbour has TEN DOGS which she NEVER walks

Taking to UK parenting site Mumsnet, the mother explained that she and her six-year-old recently moved to a maisonette. But seeing how the pets are treated, she fears that they're subject to cruelty.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/parenting/article-12021417/My-neighbour-TEN-DOGS-NEVER-walks.html#comments

MrsMoastyToasty · 01/05/2023 15:40

Address your complaints to the CEO of your housing association.

MissJD · 01/05/2023 15:05

PipMumsnet · 01/05/2023 10:57

Hi @MissJD,
We have hidden the post with your email address as this is something we advise against doing. If you need help with how to send a PM please contact us using the report feature on any of your posts and confirm that you are happy with us to delete that post with your email.
Best wishes,
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i'm sorry for posting my email. i figured out how to check private messages,

thank you :)

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MissJD · 01/05/2023 14:23

Augend23 · 01/05/2023 13:04

Hi OP, you want to check your personal messages by going to the top right of the too of the screen, you should have some notifications up there (PMs appear in a slightly different place from thread notifications so you should have a second number near the read one I have). This isn't on the App though, so it might not help if you use that.

i managed that ! turns out i can use Face Id to log into website

thank you for educating me ! Wink

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MissJD · 01/05/2023 13:06

Augend23 · 01/05/2023 13:04

Hi OP, you want to check your personal messages by going to the top right of the too of the screen, you should have some notifications up there (PMs appear in a slightly different place from thread notifications so you should have a second number near the read one I have). This isn't on the App though, so it might not help if you use that.

i only use app , and forgot all my login details unfortunately...

thank you for explaining though :) xx

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Augend23 · 01/05/2023 13:04

Hi OP, you want to check your personal messages by going to the top right of the too of the screen, you should have some notifications up there (PMs appear in a slightly different place from thread notifications so you should have a second number near the read one I have). This isn't on the App though, so it might not help if you use that.

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wizzywig · 01/05/2023 13:02

It can takes ages, eg, months to evict someone

MissJD · 01/05/2023 12:55

MikMak · 01/05/2023 11:44

We have an animal hoarder neighbour. She's a nightmare. 15 cats, 6 dogs in a 2 bed house. Claims to run an informal 'cat rescue'. You can smell the house from outside, flies crawling out of the letterbox. Dogs never exercised, yelled at, sworn at, grabbed roughly by the collar. Landlord doesn't care, claims tenant 'loves' animals. We've had to ring-fence our gardens to stop animals crapping all over them and in retaliation neighbour now claims to anyone who will listen that we maim and kill her animals. She has a high turnover of pets dying, but suspect this is mostly due to conditions inside the house. Environmental health ad rspca seem powerless and can't force entry to do welfare check. Don't want to get legal, despite false slander, as it will be a recorded dispute if we want to sell. I wish the government had stricter laws on pet ownership and animal rescues. You shouldn't be allowed to run one without proper facilities space in my opinion.

omg what a nightmare! this shouldn't be allowed poor animals

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MissJD · 01/05/2023 12:54

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Thesharkradar · 01/05/2023 12:52

@MikMak
What you said about animals dying has made me wonder....you don't live next door to Katie price do you?

MikMak · 01/05/2023 11:44

We have an animal hoarder neighbour. She's a nightmare. 15 cats, 6 dogs in a 2 bed house. Claims to run an informal 'cat rescue'. You can smell the house from outside, flies crawling out of the letterbox. Dogs never exercised, yelled at, sworn at, grabbed roughly by the collar. Landlord doesn't care, claims tenant 'loves' animals. We've had to ring-fence our gardens to stop animals crapping all over them and in retaliation neighbour now claims to anyone who will listen that we maim and kill her animals. She has a high turnover of pets dying, but suspect this is mostly due to conditions inside the house. Environmental health ad rspca seem powerless and can't force entry to do welfare check. Don't want to get legal, despite false slander, as it will be a recorded dispute if we want to sell. I wish the government had stricter laws on pet ownership and animal rescues. You shouldn't be allowed to run one without proper facilities space in my opinion.

VictoriaHop · 01/05/2023 11:05

I've sent you a private message with my telephone number. x

MyFaceIsAnAONB · 01/05/2023 11:04

Thesharkradar · 26/04/2023 12:09

This is awful I'm so sorry, I think the best solution is probably to move.
She sounds as if she has an animal hoarding disorder?

Animal hoarding disorder…. OR she’s just an utter piece of shit - I’m pretty sure stealing someone’s pension doesn’t come under any disorder 😄 just scum.

PipMumsnet · 01/05/2023 10:57

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MrBit · 01/05/2023 10:44

To private message go to the three dots at the bottom of the post you want to message and it will give you the option to PM the poster @MissJD
report your post as it’s not wise to give out your email on a public chat page

MissJD · 01/05/2023 10:33

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MissJD · 01/05/2023 10:31

VictoriaHop · 01/05/2023 10:22

Hiya,
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I am involved in animal rescue and have been involved in several situations similar to yours, all with successful outcomes for the animals and people that are suffering too.
I have no clue how mumset works, is there a way we can talk or message directly?

oh that's my first thread so i am not sure how it works too ! i will see if i can send you private message

i suppose it would safe to give my email ?

thank you

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VictoriaHop · 01/05/2023 10:22

Hiya,
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I am involved in animal rescue and have been involved in several situations similar to yours, all with successful outcomes for the animals and people that are suffering too.
I have no clue how mumset works, is there a way we can talk or message directly?

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 27/04/2023 21:30

I wouldn't do the Ombudsman, they're useless.

Have a look at the Community Trigger, it should be on your local authority website. Basically if you can prove you have made 3 separate complaints in total to ANY agency about ASB the community Trigger has to pick it up.

The CT will bring the council, EH, Clarion and even the police round a table to explain and justify their actions.

HAs and the local authority don't like them as they have to be reported on how many they are involved in.

Check out the govt website for the ASB crime and policing act 2014, its all on there. But also, legally HAs have far less legal recourse and powers to deal with noise nuisance than the councll/EH do as HAs don't have devolved powers so can't do community protection orders, noise abatement notices etc which is why its vital you get EH on board and do what they say.

Justanothercatlady · 27/04/2023 15:54

If you have the head space, make a complaint to Clarion about their failure to follow their own complaint process and ‘keep you in the loop’. Your MP is well placed to support you with this. Lack of sleep is horrendous and makes you wonder if you’re thinking clearly- especially when no one seems to be reacting to this horrible situation!

listsandbudgets · 27/04/2023 15:53

Please talk to your local councillor if you haven't already. Their job is to represent you and it sounds like you need them to get on and do that. What you describe sounds cruel to the dogs and inconsiderate (at best) to everyone else. Everyone will do their best to pass it on until they're forced to pick it up.

As an aside... I used to be a councillor some years ago. I had a very distressed lady come to see me. She lived in a tower block. For ten months she'd been trying to tell her housing office that there was a HORSE in the flat above her. Nobody believed her. Clearly everyone thought she was mad and they'd gone as far as telling her to visit her GP to discuss her mental health. I went to visit and I could definitely hear hooves and neighs. I was initially ignored (because the housing officers thought she was mad) finally I insisted (by turning up in her office and refusing to leave until she agreed!) that the director of housing went on a joint visit with me... guess what ... a horse living on 8th floor in the middle of the city!! The point is your local councillor needs to help you resolve this