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He stepped on a spider

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Alwaysrushingaroundffs · 20/04/2023 20:22

With glee/relish…

Man I like and have been attracted to for a while…(we’re not together)
There was a medium sized spider on the floor, one of the women in our party (not keen on spiders) asked him to remove it/get rid of it. He came over and stamped right on it with his big foot, sort of scraped his foot back, laughed and said ‘It’s the circle of life’ and walked off.

Aibu to have gone off him, pretty much immediately?

So disappointed

OP posts:
Barleysugar86 · 20/04/2023 20:25

I get freaked out by spiders, but any man which didn't catch and release it would be an instant nope from me.

Alwaysrushingaroundffs · 20/04/2023 20:25

I know! I hated him doing that 😩My ex (for all his faults) used to gently put it in a jar and into the garden, this was just cruel and made him look a proper dick

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GoodByeMyDearBrain · 20/04/2023 20:25

Yeah, I couldn't get over that either. Especially not the glee.

Spottycarousel · 20/04/2023 20:24

I wouldn't have liked that. He could have humanely removed it. His taking pleasure in squishing it would put me off him.

Domino20 · 20/04/2023 20:24

Ewww

IAcceptCookies · 20/04/2023 20:23

Ugh, what a horrible thoughtless thing to do.
The man's a tosser.

Drivingmisspotty · 20/04/2023 20:23

Ick!

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