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Homework not good enough?

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AnotherNameChanges · 01/02/2023 07:14

When I was at school, if I rushed my homework or did a bad job of it, I got a bad mark, and if it was a good teacher, some feedbac to help me next time.
End of.

My son (yr6), gets quite a bit of homework (regular state school not private). He gets about 30mins of maths homework each week, 30ins of English homework, and 30 mins writing (where he writes about things he's read). He always does it. Sometimes he does it well, sometimes he rushes, but he always does it. (And he's a competitive athlete in so with training each night and competitions all weekend, it's not always easy to fit it in, but he does).

A couple of weeks ago his teacher made him stay in at lunch to re-do his writing work as 'it wasn't good enough'. So the next time he had this homework I sat with him and helped him. I tried my best. I've got a PhD so I can write. But, he was told again it wasn't good enough and this time he was asked to re-do it at home, as well as all this week's homework, and re-submit.

He was a bit upset because he's honestly trying. This week I helped him again with the re-subkitted work and the new homework that's been set. I'm don't doing it for him, just trying to help him where I am guessing he's gone wrong (largely not writing enough. Not putting capital letters, full stops etc... I think...), But, I can't see what he's doing majorly wrong and have asked the teacher 'if its not good enough again can you please explain what he needs to do'.

AIBU to think making a child re-do their homework is a bit mean. Why not just give them a poor mark and some feedback to help them improve for next time? He's only just turned 11 and has enough homework to do IMO without having to re-do what he's already done.

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Gagagardener · 01/02/2023 17:44

Teacher's response definitely not good enough! Ask for a model answer, together with an explanation of why it is good. When I taught GCSE, I used to prepare these for lower ability groups. They found them helpful.

'Please Sir/Miss, model the outcome you want.'

AnotherNameChanges · 01/02/2023 17:36

Dragonsandcats · 01/02/2023 07:20

i think feedback of “it’s not good enough” isn’t constructive or helpful. How is he meant to magically know what to do? (Unless he’s clearly putting in zero effort and a 5 minute rush job which doesn’t sound the case). I’d request a meeting with the teacher.

That was kind of my feeling too. He's so disheartened because after he was kept in at lunch (which was basically a punishment even though he did actually do his homework and it's not his fault it wasn't good enough! He did try!) he didn't want that to happen again, so he tried super hard the next week (and I helped him!) and still the teacher made him re-do it with no explanation why or what to work on , just saying it wasn't good enough gggrrrr..

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Dragonsandcats · 01/02/2023 07:20

i think feedback of “it’s not good enough” isn’t constructive or helpful. How is he meant to magically know what to do? (Unless he’s clearly putting in zero effort and a 5 minute rush job which doesn’t sound the case). I’d request a meeting with the teacher.

AnotherNameChanges · 01/02/2023 07:15

Apologies for the typos! I'm not re-doing the post though! Just give me a bad mark!!

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