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Found a phone in my garden - isolated property - shit scared

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ScarredBunny · 24/04/2020 19:12

Name changed for this - Sorry if this seem trivial, I know people are dealing with far bigger things at the moment.

I found a phone lying on the ground, about 5 yards from my house.

We live in an isolated property about a mile away from the first road. We have not have any visitors , maintenance people for many weeks (obviously). Delivery drivers, yes, but they would not have any reason to go to this part of the garden/couldn't access it during daytime without us seeing something.
At first I assumed it belonged to one of us, but no! Confused
Phoned the police, have a ref./case number, etc. but they're busy and will get back to us when they can.
The police said to take the phone indoors and wait for their call/visit.

I am worried that the next visit is going to be from whomever the phone belongs to.
The phone is dead as a dodo but I assume it still can be found?

What should do?

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 03:00

@taxiforme - Now the drone theory makes more sense. First prison 25 miles away; can drones travel this far?

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 02:55

@Bettysnow - Thanks for your reply. I can see your points and agree, but also think that creep don't think like you and me. Obviously! Grin What we see as too risky, they might not, or they might even like. (vomit)

Did you see my post earlier *Betty8 about GSs?Smile We're doing it! I went to a rescue centre website after your post and applied, they've been in touch today, we've raised a fence to 5ft as per their requirement and we're doing the home assessment by phone tomorrow. SO excited!
If we pass through all the hoops and are approved, that must makes you the godmother of our new dogdogdoggy Smile Flowers

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 02:32

@VenusTiger - I'm okay, thanks!
That first story of yours gave me a chill. I trust and hope you were okay in the end? Flowers What happened? It's hard to see the big picture, under stress and primary reflexes are not always our best friends. Where they gone long? I can see how you'd be terrified, on your own in the house suddenly silent. How old were you? Did you lock yourself somewhere safe? Where they gone long?
Then the burglary, how mean do you have to be to take anything belonging to a child? I know it happens all the time , but still. Angry
They obviously knew they had all the time in the world.That must have been really sad to come back to this after your holidays.
CCTV;There are no houses opposite or near the start of the drives and we don't have any (yet).

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 01:54

@VanGoghsDog - Don't you remember, in your world there are no criminals, no nasty events of any sort anywhere whatsoever and now you're getting the helicopter out for your bil's phone! Tss. You ARE fun!

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 01:44

@QuimReaper - Thank you for the support, I really appreciate it. It's weird to be attacked for talking about an experience like this.
Intrusion is the right word isn't it, I have been using trespass (too much Better Call Saul)

@FlamingoAndJohn I can literally judge, knowing the house's layout, if it's in the kitchen, the sitting room or the study, it might be in their equivalent upstairs, of course but sometimes it randomly jumps into a field 3 miles away, always the same.

@safariboot - Thank youThank youThank You.

@GiveMeAllTheGin8 - Haven't slept much since, no.

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 01:16

@Yesterdayforgotten - Thank you, here are some Flowers for you tooSmile
I don't expect we will ever know. If it was ( which is more than likely) someone snooping, I am pleased, they lost their phone, otherwise we would have never known! At least now we are sharpening up on the security front. Someone upthread was mentioning the whole country being on flipflop holiday mode and negligent with security; that was us, full house, really pleased to have the kids back.

@TheMaddHugger - You see! Anything can happen! lol lol

@wonkylegs - Always wondered about the kids footballs when they had some, one night in the garden and pfff Thank you for the explanation!

@QuimReaper I don't know, I didn't get really, someone said it had something to do with IHGNFY

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 00:51

@ScreamingKid - Love your name! - Thanks for the support. Ours is not a holiday home, but yes the countryside has its share of crime and I think it's going to get much more of problem with the current situation, including all the lovely empty holiday homes, I hadn't thought of that, they must be a prime target. Agree too re.CCTV.

@BusyProcrastinator Haha! I have tried, but it's not easy to implement if you have to take a dog into account. If you search booby trap alarm it takes you to some very interesting survivalists websites Grin I love this stuff!
We've done a few things that are going to tell us for sure if someone has been in or not and made some changes so it's less welcoming to a stealthy visitor.
Bells are a great idea too!

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Lowprofilename · 27/04/2020 00:42

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 00:27

@VanGoghsDog - people are responding the way they have is because of all the inconsistencies and incredible "facts" in your story Really? Like what?
@teqcar and the rest - Some people are basically telling me I'm a liar, or a drama llama, that's quite rude and offensive imo.

I've answered all of their questions, as far as I can tell, even when I had to repeat stuff again and again. They don't come back to that with anything relevant by the way.
If they feel entitled to be as rude and hurtful as they wish to me then I feel entitled to tell them exactly what I think too. Their problem is that they can dish it but they can't take it.

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ScarredBunny · 26/04/2020 23:55

@georgialondon - Nice!Grin

@CircleofWillis _ I doubt they would dust for fingerprints but I don't know. They took it away in a nice evidence bag like on the telly though!
If they do the forensics they will find my fingerprints all over it!

@SuitedandBooted Sergei is lovely and would be ideal, save for the enormous massiveness of him, poor darling Smile but that's the spirit!
Come over here too @Bettysnow because last night after your message I filled in the application form for fostering from GSDR, the very people that Suitedandbooted is suggesting Shock!! This morning the area manager called us and we've spent the afternoon bringing up one part of the fence that wasn't high enough to 5ft so we could be considered. Tomorrow we're doing the home assessment over the phone. I hope we pass and they offer us a new friend. We're all really exited now! SmileSmileSmile

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Rachel709 · 26/04/2020 23:51

Maybe a rambler being nosy and lost their phone. Have the police been?

parentsnet123 · 26/04/2020 23:22

OP I’m sorry you’ve had to spend 25 pages explaining the same points over and over. Why are some people so rude..?! Of course YANBU.

You will feel jittery for a while but in a few weeks you will be fine. Please don’t let this idiot (because an intruder is of course the most likely scenario) make you feel unsafe in your own home. Be thankful you don’t live alone and you have your barking dog. Good advise from pp to invest in extra visible security. Although you are imagining some loony psycho from a horror movie it’s most likely young amateur criminals who will be put off if they see signs that you have CCTV and security lights/ alarm etc. And another dog!

Can I please also thank you for giving me half an hour escapism from bloody covid! I understand this is fully at your expense! But it’s nice all the same Wink Grin

Seriously though I’ve experienced freaky unexpected crimes myself and they really do leave you shaken up for a while. Learn to be more security aware as I have, but please don’t let it make you fearful. In the words of Mogili- I’m not afraid of you Shere Khan!! 💐

ScarredBunny · 26/04/2020 23:19

@Mothership4two - The animals are only a very remote possibility but I keep an open mind and would rather it was thatSmile
The drone, I know nothing about them - but there would have been a drone noise?
I love the paraglider idea because it's hilarious, I think, but no way, never seen one here.
No swimming pool or even nice garden furniture Sad. No markings, that I can see, anywhere, I actually checked for them the day it happened.
The lights make us visible from a long distance, can't decide if they should be on or off. Some do have sensors, but not near where the phone was. Will try to get some more.
Thank you for your wishes and for being here!
It's scary retrospectively, as more than likely someone was here and we didn't use to close the curtains, or check the windows or doors much before going to bed, we do now Grin
The odd answers are from people who don't read the thread don't you think?

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thecatsabsentcojones · 26/04/2020 22:02

I live in a house which has several acres of woods, since lockdown we’ve had loads of walkers - including a woman heading merrily through our garden today like it was a footpath. No apologies, just straight up the driveway! Could it be something similar? Everyday walkers seem to know where you can go and where you can’t, the new to walking lockdown exercisers go anywhere. Could it be that?

CambsAlways · 26/04/2020 21:41

Well I would be concerned if I found a phone in my garden if I lived in a isolated place,

CorianderLord · 26/04/2020 21:37

@clutter my phone dies within a couple of hours, not days. And a wet one would die v quickly

CorianderLord · 26/04/2020 21:35

Well there are two options: someone was in your yard and dropped it.

Or a bird stole and dropped it (gulls, jay, possibly bird of prey)

ThistleTits · 26/04/2020 20:48

A mechanic left his phone on the roof of my car once, half a mile I drove before it fell off. It could have been a delivery person, they may have done a similar thing

StoneofDestiny · 26/04/2020 20:26

The police should be able to trace it - hope you hear soon

Tistheseason17 · 26/04/2020 20:08

Hope you hear back from police

AntennaReborn · 26/04/2020 19:49

I can't believe how many people comment who haven't RTFT (or even the OP).

How many times does the OP have to explain that due to the distance of the house from the nearest road, and the layout of the garden, it simply cannot be a passers-by who just dropped it???

Jeeperscreepers69 · 26/04/2020 19:41

There is no axe murderer ladies. Over thinking and a portion of drama in the mix

VenusTiger · 26/04/2020 19:19

@FelicisNox read the OP's posts - your suggestion is impossible

TheMotherofAllDilemmas · 26/04/2020 19:01

exactly are you worried about. Are you a child?

... because she lives 2-3 miles away from the nearest house, in a lane that is not a though road and the phone was found under the window?

Obviously, if you have neighbours and live in a city you can scream for attention, call the police, but being so far away from anyone/help you are pretty much on your own with a burglar or a peeping Tom

nannygoat50 · 26/04/2020 19:00

I would be scared too . I see your point totally and as you say nobody has been near you for weeks plus you are isolated. I would dry it out on salt and try to recharge and check that Boone in your house could have a secret phone