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Found a phone in my garden - isolated property - shit scared

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ScarredBunny · 24/04/2020 19:12

Name changed for this - Sorry if this seem trivial, I know people are dealing with far bigger things at the moment.

I found a phone lying on the ground, about 5 yards from my house.

We live in an isolated property about a mile away from the first road. We have not have any visitors , maintenance people for many weeks (obviously). Delivery drivers, yes, but they would not have any reason to go to this part of the garden/couldn't access it during daytime without us seeing something.
At first I assumed it belonged to one of us, but no! Confused
Phoned the police, have a ref./case number, etc. but they're busy and will get back to us when they can.
The police said to take the phone indoors and wait for their call/visit.

I am worried that the next visit is going to be from whomever the phone belongs to.
The phone is dead as a dodo but I assume it still can be found?

What should do?

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taxiforme · 27/04/2020 10:29

Hi OP- the prison drone theory - I doubt they have such a range but it might be likely that smugglers practice a drop (weight and manoeuvrability) beforehand. As I said, if someone has dropped it in suspicious circumstances then they are unlikely to be back. The police will be interested in it as it could hold sources of intel (it’s incredible what people put on their phones and think “nobody will ever see..” Hmm ).

A dog is a great deterrent. Especially a big dog. We have three rescues. As people said, that’s a lovely end to the story.

Keep us posted if the police come up with an answer!

AmelieTaylor · 27/04/2020 10:16

@scarredbunny

Nothing like having your life pulled apart is there 🤣MN isn't ALL like this, no - but AIBU has generally turns into a bitch fest - unfortunately.

I have read the entire thread, but I somehow missed why you're getting another dog -when you have one & it barked. Are you planning on it being an outside dog?

Dogs are a good thing (we will need photos!). Just being nosey 😊

ElonsMusk · 27/04/2020 10:04

Well this is odd. I also found a phone in my garden. The one I found was inside my DCs clam shell sandpit that had been closed all winter. 6 foot fence all the way around and surrounded by other gardens.

I had put it in a drawer and planned on going around asking the neighbours if they’d lost one, but the lockdown happened and I forgot about it until I saw this thread. Blush

DH wants to take it to the police. It’s quite a new iPhone, but won’t switch on as it’s damaged. I feel uneasy about it. Someone’s been in my garden and out it there.

LockedInMadness · 27/04/2020 09:51

I think the biggest mystery op is when do you sleep?!!!!

🤣

AncientRainbowABC · 27/04/2020 09:50

OP just to say sorry this happened and glad you’re in better spirits. I read the whole thread after waking in the small hours. You write so well, with heart and humour, and you sound lovely. It’s ended up being funny and warm thread despite the dodgy circumstances.

ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 09:47

@Bettysnow - another dog : [bear[[flower]Smile Silver linings and all that Grin

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JKScot4 · 27/04/2020 09:42

Horrible thing to happen, amazed at the volume of idiots who can’t understand rural living ie no passers by 🙄
Best part is hopefully you rescue a lovely GSD, I like the boy that’s been waiting 4 years or the pair or Sergei!!!

stairway · 27/04/2020 09:31

I had something similar happen to me. Someone in the night came in through our back door ( unlocked) and stole our cheap Aldi slow cooker but left my handbag. In fact they didn’t even steal the slow cooker as we found it buried in our hedge. We called the police in the morning and they took a copy of a foot print. It freaked us out for months. It made no sense at all.

PenfoldsFive · 27/04/2020 07:31

Been following this thread and am very excited by the new turn of events. Did you see Edward and Bear on the GSD page? 💕

GnomeDePlume · 27/04/2020 07:30

I would say quite possibly scoping out for burglary but the dog scared them off and will continue to do so.

What do people steal? Pretty much anything not nailed down. Garden tools, cars, farm machinery. They may have parked up a van some distance away and walked over to see what you had and whether it was worth raiding your property.

However, thieves are essentially lazy and risk averse. They wont risk a dog bite just to get your goods. They will go somewhere easier. Two dogs will be even more effective as thieves cant hope to shut them away.

We have an allotment on a field. Every few months the field gets broken into at night (it is fenced and gate padlocked). The thieves arrive in a van and will go through the field breaking open sheds, often they will take the barrows people have lying about to transport the 'swag'. They will go from plot to plot picking up tools, discarding other tools when they find something better. They even bagged up some hens once. Obviously got them to the van then abandoned them.

Nothing of great value gets stolen but stolen tools will raise a few pounds and to the thief its free money.

randomlettersabc · 27/04/2020 07:28

Keep checking back too to see if you've had any word from police or any developments OP? I honestly cannot believe some of the responses you've had here(!)

I live rurally too, big dark field at the back of us, it can be scary when husband goes away, got two young DC. Had a few instances of finding strangers where they shouldn't be (and have no reason to be, we are quite a way from main road/other houses) and it is of course concerning. Anyone who says I'm need to man up and think otherwise is quite frankly barmy.

Got two dogs which makes me feel better at night (until they do their "there's someone there" bark then I wet myself).

Anyway.. OP you are not crazy, you do not need to man up, you are being perfectly reasonable... why has Mumsnet become so nasty lately? Trolls in lockdown with nowhere else to go?

People seem to have forgotten #bekind very quickly.

Anyway I'm rambling. Hope you're ok x

DysonFury · 27/04/2020 06:50

I Keep checking back to see if you've caught him in a home made bear trap yet?
Is reading the OP now optional before dishing out sage advice?

Bettysnow · 27/04/2020 06:29

Ohhhh am chuffed to bitsGrin So excited for you! Its so heartwarming that something amazing will hopefully come out of such a horrendous experience! You sound like a great person and clearly have the right environment for another dog so hopefully a new addition to family soonGrin This big ole bear of mine is sprawled out across the lounge rug here. At night he sprawls across our bedroom door as soon as we're in bed and does a few nightly patrols of the bottom of the house. So intelligent!
Aww am delighted for you! Isn't it strange how good things really do happen out of something bad! Can't wait to hear how it goesSmile

ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 06:28

Thanks @Soph1993 Have a good day

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 06:25

pm me with the outcome. This thread is so getting nowhere Grin

@Monty27 - For better entertainment try netflix lol
What sort of an outcome do you have in mind? Burglary, murder, dramatic arrest? The creep brought back here by the police so we can finally meet? Confused

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Soph1993 · 27/04/2020 06:22

Turn it on *

Soph1993 · 27/04/2020 06:22

They won’t be able to track a signal don’t worry I have tried before to find a lost phone of mine however if u turn it in the chances are they might locate it tho via apps find my phone, Facebook has a location finder... ect so if u do get it on id recommend only briefly but it will probs my be locked any way this is worrying to find a random phone in your garden someone has been in your gate sen obviously to of dropped it I’d get spotlights check security in your house it’s good you have a dog, I really don’t think they would no where they lost it phoning the the police is the right move so they are aware try not to worry to much x

ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 06:07

@Lowprofilename - First friend 10 miles away doesn't drive.

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 06:04

@parentsnet123 - Ah, Thank you! Flowers 25 pages? Moi? Well, I do drone on! Blush
The YABU/YANBU were a fat fingers mistake, I didn't mean to have voting, seems to attracts some argumentative bunnies.

Thank you for your nice words Parent, I got shaken, taking in the possible implications, but I'm in a better place now.
We've done stuff today so we have less of an easy prowling ground for an intruder and have a new dog to look forward to. Stopped me feeling hopeless.

I've put in place a nifty little trick (thank you John Le Carré) that will let us know if someone has come round again or not.

That creep is not going to stop us enjoying our home.
He's shown us how vulnerable we were and we're doing something about it, which is a plus.

I've had my dark hours but don't feel I've been hysterically screaming blue murder, if so, sorry, must be me being french.
One thing you can say is that when a stranger goes out of their way to lurk under your windows, they're sick in the head. That comes in all shapes and sizes from the most benign to the more scary.
If they managed to lose their phone and give the game away, they're probably thick and scatty and not that focused, a good thing for us, surely.
We'll never know. What matters is that we learn our lessons and move on.

I am glad the thread has provided you with some distraction from the ambient shit storm, you're very welcome to that Smile. We'll take whatever we can at this stage. Besides, there is far worse going on than this, right now.

The thread has helped me lots and kept me going when no sleep, it's been interesting and great for processing stuff, ( DH is not a 'dweller').
Thanks for the Mowgli quote, I like it.

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Incontinencesucks · 27/04/2020 04:57

That would make me pretty uneasy. Do you have motion sensor lights or an alarm? I'd probably get one anyway.

ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 04:03

we’ve had loads of walkers - including a woman heading merrily through our garden today like it was a footpath. No apologies, just straight up the driveway! Could it be something similar?

@thecatsabsentcojones - No, as per thread,. But it's true, as you have said that there are more walkers about.I have the feeling it stems from that.
I'd rather believe it's something that just cropped up and hopefully only happened once.

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Monty27 · 27/04/2020 03:54

OP can you pm me with the outcome. This thread is so getting nowhere Grin

ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 03:46

@TheMotherofAllDilemmas - Thank you, again Flowers and you too thank you @AntennaReborn Flowers Is it always like this on MN?

A mechanic left his phone on the roof of my car once, half a mile I drove before it fell off. It could have been a delivery person, they may have done a similar thing
Sure. (bangs head)

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 03:25

*It's probably broken and whomever owned it probably ditched it out the window as they were passing.

No need to overthink it*
@FelicisNox - No need to read any of the thread before you pitch in.

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ScarredBunny · 27/04/2020 03:19

What exactly are you worried about. Are you a child? So what someones dropped there phone. If they come back for it and introduce themselves as the local axe murderer then maybe be alarmed. Otherwise man up

Welcome to the thread @Jeeperscreepers69! Would you like to read some of the posts? Just a warning, I am very rude. I hope you appreciate plain-speaking and that you're not easily offended!
It's their, not there. My teacher told me.

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