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AIBU to see this accidental rejection email as a red flag?

204 replies

ElizabethReed · 01/04/2026 11:32

What they do not want
Too senior
This is a major red flag.
They do not want:

  • 15–20 year veteran
  • people who have “done everything already”
  • people who feel too established / too corporate
  • someone who may be less hungry for a builder seat
G specifically said profiles like “I built xxx rm” are probably not the right fit.

I accidentally received this email along with my rejection today. The notes from the hiring manager.

OP posts:
ToKittyornottoKitty · 01/04/2026 12:44

Your post doesn’t make much sense. Red flag for what though? They didn’t offer you the job anyway

FlapperFlamingo · 01/04/2026 12:45

It's unfortunate you were sent the information about why you were rejected, but I don't see it as a red flag. Afterall, you won't be working there anyway. Perhaps you did come across as too corporate as though you thought you knew a lot. The rejection notes just gives some advice to the hirer/screener I think.

MrMucker · 01/04/2026 12:46

If it's about you then it's pretty useful. If you apply and interview for a job but get rejected it is almost impossible to obtain truthful and pertinent feedback on why you didn't get the post, which is what this is.
But it might not even be about you. It's clearly a basic admin error, who's to say that the content doesn't relate to someone else.
In no way is it a good idea to get back to them about it. If you are genuinely looking for work you need to take rejections with a good grave and accept them as a learning experience.
You getting back to them about a stupid email is the way to be remembered for the wrong reasons, and yes, it IS sometimes useful to be remembered as the candidate who wasn't selected because you never know who talks to who.
There's nothing in that email to say "not a great person".

Also, whoever suggested age discrimination... 🙄

GoldenCupsatHarvestTime · 01/04/2026 12:47

Nodwyddaedafedd · 01/04/2026 11:59

I kind of understand it.
I would interpret it as - we are going to put all of X on the job description but actually what we truly want is someone who can just about get the job done for 20k less rather than someone who is more experienced and more expensive.

This. They want a discount person who is using it as their first step into the higher job category and so will be able to pay them less due to lack of exp.

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 12:47

IDontHateRainbows · 01/04/2026 12:26

It's not a red flag, they can want who they want, whether it's going to be a fit for you is another question. Plenty of places want someone they can mold into a role and woudl see someone too established as not what they are looking for

And that is the epitome of age discrimination.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 01/04/2026 12:49

newornotnew · 01/04/2026 12:20

It's all just code for 'we don't want someone old'

It really is. So yes age discrimination.

SugarPuffSandwiches · 01/04/2026 12:49

Is that a bad attempt at some ChatGPT or something as I can barely understand a word of it 😕

IDontHateRainbows · 01/04/2026 12:50

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 12:47

And that is the epitome of age discrimination.

No, it's not. People can change careers at any age. You saying they can't IS age discrimination. The epitome of it, even.

BoogieTownTop · 01/04/2026 12:50

IDontHateRainbows · 01/04/2026 12:26

It's not a red flag, they can want who they want, whether it's going to be a fit for you is another question. Plenty of places want someone they can mold into a role and woudl see someone too established as not what they are looking for

This, I don’t understand the red flag comment? You’ve not been offered the job, so it’s not like you think, I was going to take it and I won’t now they’ve made this error, it’s a red flag.

MrMucker · 01/04/2026 12:51

Sorry but if you think the email is evidence of age discrimination then you come across as somebody unable to read actual words.

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 12:53

IDontHateRainbows · 01/04/2026 12:50

No, it's not. People can change careers at any age. You saying they can't IS age discrimination. The epitome of it, even.

The point which you are spectacularly missing is this affects older people more than younger and is therefore the very definition of indirect discrimination.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 01/04/2026 12:55

newornotnew · 01/04/2026 12:21

Isn't that just age discrimination?

I don’t think so necessarily. My employer hires on a graduate scheme, and also on a retraining scheme. Both require you to have no experience in our industry, but have attracted candidates who are in their 30/40/50s because they’ve retrained and done a degree later in life, or have worked in [retail/public sector/other irrelevant field] and want to retrain into our profession.

The experience is not an age barrier, it truly is an experience barrier. We have other roles that may or may not be open at any given time for people who have relevant experience.

itsnotagameshow · 01/04/2026 12:56

I'm old, and working full time in a senior role. If I were the interviewee, I wouldn't go back to the company with any feedback on this, I'd just take it on board. OP, you'll just stand out as difficult and a bullet dodged if you go back to them accusing them of unprofessionalism and age discrimination. While it might make you feel better, it won't change their beliefs or behaviour (even if they are wrong/ unpalatable). I'd take the rejection as a 'phew' moment, I wouldn't want to work for them based on this.

ladyamy · 01/04/2026 12:56

TheNorns · 01/04/2026 12:10

Because it's a fairly serious breach, and could easily have contained actionable material that the OP, had she been so minded, could have acted on. By making it clear that she's seen it and noted it, she's making herself look professional.

Ack I wouldn’t have bothered, but to each, their own

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 01/04/2026 12:57

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 12:53

The point which you are spectacularly missing is this affects older people more than younger and is therefore the very definition of indirect discrimination.

And any job that requires 5 years + experience rules out 18-23 year olds as a minimum, and probably a lot of other younger people. Is that also indirect discrimination?

Aiming4Optimistic · 01/04/2026 12:59

Not sure why people are struggling to understand the OP - it's pretty clear. Maybe if that company hired people who were more 'corporate' and 'experienced', they wouldn't be in the position of having sent out unprofessional and age discriminatory emails.

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 13:00

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 01/04/2026 12:57

And any job that requires 5 years + experience rules out 18-23 year olds as a minimum, and probably a lot of other younger people. Is that also indirect discrimination?

Yes, that's right. There's lots of case law about both. Have a look. I suggest you do some basic reading around this.

Middlechild3 · 01/04/2026 13:01

They probably just want someone hungry enough for promotion to work over above their pay grade) and overtime for free. Maleable.

prh47bridge · 01/04/2026 13:02

Saying they don't want a 15-20 year veteran is likely to be indirect age discrimination, notwithstanding the fact that some older candidates may have less experience than this.

prh47bridge · 01/04/2026 13:02

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 01/04/2026 12:57

And any job that requires 5 years + experience rules out 18-23 year olds as a minimum, and probably a lot of other younger people. Is that also indirect discrimination?

Yes. It is well established in law that requiring 5+ years experience or similar is indirect age discrimination.

RaininSummer · 01/04/2026 13:03

Since it didn't contain people's names etc it's not really a data breach. Just a silly error where their notes got sent to you. Move on.

IDontHateRainbows · 01/04/2026 13:03

PrincessofWells · 01/04/2026 12:53

The point which you are spectacularly missing is this affects older people more than younger and is therefore the very definition of indirect discrimination.

I think there was a red flag in this recruitment process ... for them

Jobseeker2026 · 01/04/2026 13:05

newornotnew · 01/04/2026 12:21

Isn't that just age discrimination?

They’ve said they want someone newer to the industry, not necessarily someone younger. It could be someone changing careers?

Nourishinghandcream · 01/04/2026 13:06

beefthief · 01/04/2026 12:13

If you interview like you post, they were probably just confused

This was my thinking....
glad I am not the only one who thinks so.

prh47bridge · 01/04/2026 13:09

Jobseeker2026 · 01/04/2026 13:05

They’ve said they want someone newer to the industry, not necessarily someone younger. It could be someone changing careers?

The courts have been clear that this kind of requirement is indirect age discrimination. The fact the requirement could be fulfilled by someone changing careers is irrelevant.