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Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

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TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:13

JamesKirkupReviewWritersFund · 17/08/2026 22:20

My eyes!

Jo the Orc's insta account shows marmite spread on the top of a shop bought Xmas mince pie. The depravity knows no bounds.

(said as a marmite lover but........ some things are just too much)

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Ooh I quite like the sound of that. Probably the munchies kicking in though. Thankfully I'll have forgotten by the time I next have mince pies in the house

Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:22

DialSquare · 18/08/2026 08:47

And a gold lamé handbag

I'm not too sure about the handbag.

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/08/2026 23:57

She's all kinds of fabulous 👌

Igmum · Yesterday 09:15

RedToothBrush · 18/08/2026 09:22

"I am anxious so I knowingly wear stuff that intimidates others so they are silenced into not commenting. It makes me feel better.

And then I walk into the ladies".

Yup. And here he is doing just that. Not sure I’d want to see either incarnation anywhere near me while I was in a state of undress.

And am I the only one who thinks the OP is Jo R’r? He doesn’t have many instagram likes so not sure his ‘show’ - assuming that’s not of euphemism for life - has many viewers.

Edited for typos.

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
ArabellaScott · Yesterday 09:49

Some men just enjoy scaring and intimidating women.

Shedmistress · Yesterday 09:53

Posting it on here would fit the MO

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · Yesterday 10:49

I'm still chuckling at the Scooby Doo pronunciation for R'rith - genius

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 10:59

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · Yesterday 10:49

I'm still chuckling at the Scooby Doo pronunciation for R'rith - genius

100%

BoreOfWhabylon · Yesterday 12:34

I'm informed by MNHQ that the OP won't be returning Wink
They're leaving the thread up because it would be criminal to lose posts like the Scooby Doo one Grin

MrsOvertonsWindow · Yesterday 13:03

BoreOfWhabylon · Yesterday 12:34

I'm informed by MNHQ that the OP won't be returning Wink
They're leaving the thread up because it would be criminal to lose posts like the Scooby Doo one Grin

Well done to MNHQ for all their efforts in tackling so many bad faith trolls in recent weeks.
It must be so time consuming but then these posters aren't the brightest. This OP on another thread posted a lengthy rambling comment forgetting that one of his mates had posted this much earlier on in the thread. 1/10 for effort.

But they do offer posters many opportunities for entertainment (and recipes) as well as generating incredibly articulate and thoughtful posts about women's rights. And of course Scooby Doo posts 😂

ChequerToRed · Yesterday 13:13

He lost me at ‘Y’all’.
Ffs, man, you’re British, don’t use contrived and hokey Americanisms. I was half expecting a ‘folks’ but may have missed it due to my eyes rolling.

MagpiePi · Yesterday 13:18

BoreOfWhabylon · Yesterday 12:34

I'm informed by MNHQ that the OP won't be returning Wink
They're leaving the thread up because it would be criminal to lose posts like the Scooby Doo one Grin

Agree!

And another @Boiledbeetle masterpiece. TOAO! *

*Trans Orcs Are Orcs

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 13:21

MrsOvertonsWindow · Yesterday 13:03

Well done to MNHQ for all their efforts in tackling so many bad faith trolls in recent weeks.
It must be so time consuming but then these posters aren't the brightest. This OP on another thread posted a lengthy rambling comment forgetting that one of his mates had posted this much earlier on in the thread. 1/10 for effort.

But they do offer posters many opportunities for entertainment (and recipes) as well as generating incredibly articulate and thoughtful posts about women's rights. And of course Scooby Doo posts 😂

Are orcs a type of troll?

MrsOvertonsWindow · Yesterday 13:37

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 13:21

Are orcs a type of troll?

If they self identify as one surely Arabella? 😅

Also worth remembering that the limited range of posting styles, repetition of phrases, identical insults thrown at women suggest that there are just 6 angry men in a basement somewhere 😆

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 13:45

MrsOvertonsWindow · Yesterday 13:37

If they self identify as one surely Arabella? 😅

Also worth remembering that the limited range of posting styles, repetition of phrases, identical insults thrown at women suggest that there are just 6 angry men in a basement somewhere 😆

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💯

I actually hope they are the same person, because if TRA discourse has collapsed to the point different people sound so incredibly similar they really have devolved into pure group think.

The women on FWR may have some very fundamental convictions in common but as a rule we can express them in our own words. Because we think about the fundamentals then build the argument, rather than treat it like some sort of faith ritual.

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 13:48

(Also, if orc guy exists, I don't have any issue at all with his Orc joy. It's just the sexism of his appropriating women's existence as a metaphor for his personality and the arrogance of believing this gives him any moral right whatsoever to access women's resources or have others accept his sexist self identity as a woman as more meaningful than our own knowledge that he is not.)

BernardBlacksMolluscs · Yesterday 13:54

Yeah, I mean I dunno how any actual orcs feel but I’m glad for him that he has a hobby that gets him out and about and seems very creative

I just don’t want to meet him in the ladies loos

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 14:39

I'm sad we didn't get to the recipe stage.

DialSquare · Yesterday 14:45

Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:22

I'm not too sure about the handbag.

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how very dare you catherine tate GIF
Davros · Yesterday 14:48

Scooby Doo comment was genius, still chortling

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 14:50

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 14:39

I'm sad we didn't get to the recipe stage.

P'orc scratchings do you?

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 14:51

Maybe a plate of orc d'oeuvres.

Igneococcus · Yesterday 14:58

Orcchops? To obvious a pun?

KnottyAuty · Yesterday 15:09

Igmum · Yesterday 09:15

Yup. And here he is doing just that. Not sure I’d want to see either incarnation anywhere near me while I was in a state of undress.

And am I the only one who thinks the OP is Jo R’r? He doesn’t have many instagram likes so not sure his ‘show’ - assuming that’s not of euphemism for life - has many viewers.

Edited for typos.

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Shame that person doesn't feel comfortable enough in their own skin to be themselves. I can't imagine having to disguise oneself in order to leave the house. Shame they have to take the characters to such an extreme - what's wrong with a bit of lippy and a new handbag?

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