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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

183 replies

TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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TheyAreLovelyLovelyPeople · 17/08/2026 20:34

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

Actually spitting-out of coffee happened Grin

Dadalus · 17/08/2026 20:37

I never got why fantasy authors put random punctuation into the names of character or species. If in your fantasy world, the humans had to translate some otherworldy name they'd heard into English, why wouldn't just do it phonetically? Who does the apostrophe help?

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/08/2026 20:42

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

😂

amazing!

BlueDillieDillie · 17/08/2026 20:46

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 20:27

Another brand new poster asking what "we" think. There's a lot of them recently.

Somehow I don't think these posters are being honest when they present as identifying with Gender Critical Feminists. I think their "we" is really a "you".

Much of the 'we' is really "I". Because it is about "me".

AMatterOfInfiniteHope · 17/08/2026 20:47

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

😂

Yes!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/08/2026 20:47

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 20:27

Another brand new poster asking what "we" think. There's a lot of them recently.

Somehow I don't think these posters are being honest when they present as identifying with Gender Critical Feminists. I think their "we" is really a "you".

This poster in their first few posts on Mumsnet has already copied word for word a post by another "not keen on FWR women" poster presenting it as his own thoughts. (the cult thread)

Almost as if they're in the same room 😂

lcakethereforeIam · 17/08/2026 20:48

I'm going to assume transphobic abuse hasn't happened or he'd have said something about it.

I don't understand why dressing up and pretending makes him an actual woman but dressing up and pretending doesn't make him an actual orc.

anyone scooby GIF
GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/08/2026 20:48

BabblingBiddy · 17/08/2026 20:32

I have cPTSD following years of sexual abuse from a man who used to tell me he wished he could join the guides/rangers insert other single sex groups I attended so that he could "always be with me"

So I have every sympathy for TW who have any level of trauma from using mens toilets/ changing rooms. But the solution isn't too further traumatise me.

This.
His PTSD doesn't override a woman's PTSD, a woman who needs a single sex space.

Hope that's cleared that up, OP.

WerewolfOfLoudon · 17/08/2026 20:50

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

🤣 Nearly drowned on my coffee!

Turmericisfashionable · 17/08/2026 20:51

This appears to be Jo R'rith in Jo's ork costume. I think it's fair to say that Jo doesn't look very feminine when wearing the ork costume.

Joanne R'rith (@ortharrrith) • Instagram photos and videos

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/08/2026 20:59

Turmericisfashionable · 17/08/2026 20:51

This appears to be Jo R'rith in Jo's ork costume. I think it's fair to say that Jo doesn't look very feminine when wearing the ork costume.

Joanne R'rith (@ortharrrith) • Instagram photos and videos

Riiiiight...
Well, that puts a few things in context.
No surprise why people don't interact with him when he's dressed like that.

dinodart · 17/08/2026 21:00

maybe, if people hadn't lied to him in the first place that he could use them, or inflated his delusions about being a woman, he wouldn't be having issues...

someone puffed up his transwoman balloon and it got popped.

AMatterOfInfiniteHope · 17/08/2026 21:01

So he has PTSD because not everyone will go along with the pretence that he thinks he is female. That women will rightly not want him in their women only spaces.

He’s not traumatised by war or assualt or witnessing death or been caught up in a terrorist attack. No he’s got PTSD because someone has pointed out that he’s a man and that he can’t change sex. And because others who like to cosplay as women have been told that they are still men. And because none of them should be using women only spaces.

DialSquare · 17/08/2026 21:01

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

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Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:02

Turmericisfashionable · 17/08/2026 20:51

This appears to be Jo R'rith in Jo's ork costume. I think it's fair to say that Jo doesn't look very feminine when wearing the ork costume.

Joanne R'rith (@ortharrrith) • Instagram photos and videos

Any pictures, for those of us that don't have Insta so can't view that profile?

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dinodart · 17/08/2026 21:05

TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:02

Any pictures, for those of us that don't have Insta so can't view that profile?

there are sites that let you view instagram profiles not logged in, just do a search for them

AMatterOfInfiniteHope · 17/08/2026 21:05

dinodart · 17/08/2026 21:00

maybe, if people hadn't lied to him in the first place that he could use them, or inflated his delusions about being a woman, he wouldn't be having issues...

someone puffed up his transwoman balloon and it got popped.

This.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 21:05

TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:02

Any pictures, for those of us that don't have Insta so can't view that profile?

what made you post this OP?

what are your views on the post? how did you come across it?

how do you feel about made up surnames?

are trans orcs orcs?

c'mon, give us something...

TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:09

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 21:05

what made you post this OP?

what are your views on the post? how did you come across it?

how do you feel about made up surnames?

are trans orcs orcs?

c'mon, give us something...

Felt it was important to keep The Cult updated on everything our targets are doing and saying. Otherwise, where will the outrage come from, if it isn't manufactured for reasons known to those who are doing this but remains a mystery to The Cult?

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 21:17

🙄

Imagine if OP and his ilk put half as much effort into rational posts as they do into their tedious games, point scoring and daft classification system. They even might do some actual good for trans people!

DialSquare · 17/08/2026 21:18

TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:09

Felt it was important to keep The Cult updated on everything our targets are doing and saying. Otherwise, where will the outrage come from, if it isn't manufactured for reasons known to those who are doing this but remains a mystery to The Cult?

They’re probably too busy writing songs or touring to be interested in your shit posts.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/08/2026 21:27

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 21:17

🙄

Imagine if OP and his ilk put half as much effort into rational posts as they do into their tedious games, point scoring and daft classification system. They even might do some actual good for trans people!

Sneering at women seems to be their level judging by the nature of posts. Like teenage boys harassing girls because they lack the maturity to engage as adults.

Of course most of the boys eventually mature and manage healthy relationships with women. Others however......

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:28

He Sells Sanctimony

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:29

Turmericisfashionable · 17/08/2026 20:51

This appears to be Jo R'rith in Jo's ork costume. I think it's fair to say that Jo doesn't look very feminine when wearing the ork costume.

Joanne R'rith (@ortharrrith) • Instagram photos and videos

shocked face

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 21:32

DialSquare · 17/08/2026 21:18

They’re probably too busy writing songs or touring to be interested in your shit posts.

Nothing coming up. Ian Astbury is very busy playing (Not professional) football in and around LA I hear. Big toffees fan. Good lad.