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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

183 replies

TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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EmpressaurusKitty · 17/08/2026 20:02

Who is this bloke?

WhereYouLeftIt · 17/08/2026 20:04

He sounds nice.

Honestly, they just love making shit up. Just use the Gents, Derek!

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:06

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show"

Can anybody put a number to this? 5, 50, 500 regular viewers???

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:08

he's a man who enjoys dressing as an orc and intruding into women's single sex spaces?

right oh

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:10

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:06

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show"

Can anybody put a number to this? 5, 50, 500 regular viewers???

Grin

"George and Amber, my regular viewers"

how are we saying "R'rith" do you think?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 20:11

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:08

he's a man who enjoys dressing as an orc and intruding into women's single sex spaces?

right oh

It’s really the only response!

TBATST · 17/08/2026 20:11

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:08

he's a man who enjoys dressing as an orc and intruding into women's single sex spaces?

right oh

And what do we think about their claims of PTSD? Also to be mocked, do you think?

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:13

TBATST · 17/08/2026 20:11

And what do we think about their claims of PTSD? Also to be mocked, do you think?

how many of them are there??

or do you mean 'his' claims of PTSD?

I dunno who he is chicken and neither does google apparently. i think he may not have as many 'regular viewers' as he thinks he does

JanesLittleGirl · 17/08/2026 20:13

I don't know how good his Uruk-Hai General is but he has got drama queen down to a Tee.

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:14

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:10

Grin

"George and Amber, my regular viewers"

how are we saying "R'rith" do you think?

Maybe OP @TBATST can tell us

SupaStah · 17/08/2026 20:14

Good god

Judge Judy Eye Roll GIF
BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:14

I see Jo has shared a post from a page called "We have, I fear, confused power with greatness" that goes after Gia Milinovich. That page rather pissed over its feminist credentials by spending the first paragraph or so attempting to define Gina by what her husband does.

Twats of a feather flock together, I guess.

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:16

TBATST · 17/08/2026 20:11

And what do we think about their claims of PTSD? Also to be mocked, do you think?

I mean he's essentially mocking the many women with PTSD following sexual assaults who have explained why single-sex spaces are so important to them. So...

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:10

Grin

"George and Amber, my regular viewers"

how are we saying "R'rith" do you think?

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:17

I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans.

How do you tell someone is a trans-Uruk-Hai?

Thehorticulturalhussie · 17/08/2026 20:17

At last I understand. I realise that I identify as a TERF Cockwomble. Soooo many things make sense now.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:17

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

YES!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 20:17

Lots of men suffer from PTSD. Many may well need support. However, women-only spaces are not a resource for this support.

This does not change because the man in question wants to be treated as a woman. That is a separate thing.

It's important that the two - the need for support and the desire to be treated as "a woman" - are not conflated.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:19

Thehorticulturalhussie · 17/08/2026 20:17

At last I understand. I realise that I identify as a TERF Cockwomble. Soooo many things make sense now.

I always thought you had to have a cock to be a cockwomble. somehow I had seen it as a sexed insult

google is not much help on the surname:

"it's not a standard or widely recognized surname in major genealogical databases. It is likely a misspelling, a typographical error, a fantasy/sci-fictional name with an apostrophe"

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:22

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:17

I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans.

How do you tell someone is a trans-Uruk-Hai?

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I do know all too well that looking a bit different can garner unwanted attention

it's just possible that people are passing comment because he's going out in public dressed as a fucking orc and it's nothing to do with 'trans'

Thehorticulturalhussie · 17/08/2026 20:22

Then @BernardBlacksMolluscs I have decided that I definitely have a cock. Even better.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 20:24

OP, @TBATST why do you think this is relevant to women here?

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:25

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:22

I do know all too well that looking a bit different can garner unwanted attention

it's just possible that people are passing comment because he's going out in public dressed as a fucking orc and it's nothing to do with 'trans'

Yes, that is why I'm wondering. How do you know someone is trans if they are under a full Uruk-Hai costume?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/08/2026 20:27

Another brand new poster asking what "we" think. There's a lot of them recently.

Somehow I don't think these posters are being honest when they present as identifying with Gender Critical Feminists. I think their "we" is really a "you".

BabblingBiddy · 17/08/2026 20:32

I have cPTSD following years of sexual abuse from a man who used to tell me he wished he could join the guides/rangers insert other single sex groups I attended so that he could "always be with me"

So I have every sympathy for TW who have any level of trauma from using mens toilets/ changing rooms. But the solution isn't too further traumatise me.