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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

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TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:33

WerewolfOfLoudon · 17/08/2026 20:50

🤣 Nearly drowned on my coffee!

Me too 🤣

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 21:35

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:28

He Sells Sanctimony

<chef's kiss>

WerewolfOfLoudon · 17/08/2026 21:37

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:28

He Sells Sanctimony

🤣🤣🤣 Thankfully wasn't drinking coffee for that one!

SabrinaThwaite · 17/08/2026 21:44

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 21:32

Nothing coming up. Ian Astbury is very busy playing (Not professional) football in and around LA I hear. Big toffees fan. Good lad.

Perhaps with Daphne Moon’s useless brother Simon as the goalie?

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 21:44

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 21:28

He Sells Sanctimony

Excellent work madam.

BiologicalRobot · 17/08/2026 21:47

I got to a couple of posts above this one to realise he dressed as an orc and not an orca. I'm now sad as I was looking forward to seeing pictures of him travelling on the train dressed as one.

Edit. Someone ate a word

Helleofabore · 17/08/2026 22:04

So, women and girls have to make accommodations that cause us harm to make a male person feel better, and we have to accept him calling us names?

Great job, OP! I am sure that readers will see your posts and develop a deeper understanding than they had before about the use of female people as therapeutic aids for male people. Thank you.

dinodart · 17/08/2026 22:12

Yes, we are The Cult of Reality. It's nice here, not having to twist our minds into knots to prop up this ideology as reality and basic facts are on our side.

DialSquare · 17/08/2026 22:14

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 21:32

Nothing coming up. Ian Astbury is very busy playing (Not professional) football in and around LA I hear. Big toffees fan. Good lad.

That’s interesting. Looks like the last album was in 2022. Would prefer he was an Arsenal fan though!

JamesKirkupReviewWritersFund · 17/08/2026 22:20

My eyes!

Jo the Orc's insta account shows marmite spread on the top of a shop bought Xmas mince pie. The depravity knows no bounds.

(said as a marmite lover but........ some things are just too much)

SerendipityCat · 17/08/2026 22:24

For those of you with Facebook accounts, I'll leave this here -

https://www.facebook.com/ortharrrith

It's nothing new, just same old same old with a lot of Tolkienesque cosplay thrown in. The threats are barely even under the surface, such as this comment by a (female?) follower -

"People are cockwombles and you are a general of the Orcs. This country is honestly unrecognizable sometimes. I despair for my trans friends, but if I see anyone being a Terf. Lord help them, what the Orcs do will look tame! Just do you Jo. No explanation necessary! Xxxxxx"

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fortharrrith

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 17/08/2026 22:26

OP, given that you are clearly against single-sex spaces, and given that you clearly disagree with the majority of regular posters on this forum,

why are you sharing this transwoman's post on a GC forum? Did you ask JR's permission first?

What's the big idea here? Did JR nick your parking space, or eat your last rolo? What are you seeking petty revenge for?

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 17/08/2026 22:29

Is Jo your ex? Are you setting this random person up for public ridicule from women because of a bad break-up?

Soontobe60 · 17/08/2026 22:34

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/08/2026 20:10

Grin

"George and Amber, my regular viewers"

how are we saying "R'rith" do you think?

how are we saying "R'rith" do you think

Wanker I believe.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 17/08/2026 22:38

Ooh, I know, it's a houseshare gone wrong, and this is a row about people using up the milk and putting empty cartons back in the fridge!

murasaki · 17/08/2026 22:39

I can't decide who is more weird, the OP or Mr Orc.

Unless he is Mr Orc, just with a masochism thing going on.

Katkins17 · 17/08/2026 22:43

Awww bless…he feels anxiety by cross dressing and parodying a woman….

its as if women haven’t had to deal with bigoted, abusive, and intimidating men for a millennium ….

jeez these men boil my piss.

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 22:43

Those orc costumes look like they’d niff in this weather.

AvacadoChic · 17/08/2026 22:48

BiologicalRobot · 17/08/2026 21:47

I got to a couple of posts above this one to realise he dressed as an orc and not an orca. I'm now sad as I was looking forward to seeing pictures of him travelling on the train dressed as one.

Edit. Someone ate a word

Edited

That made me laugh far more than it should have done. Just picturing him casually wearing a massive killer whale outfit on the underground.

lcakethereforeIam · 17/08/2026 22:48

This, I believe, is one of the most famous Orc-ish lines from the LotR.

Not very inclusive is it? Can see why they're the bad guys.

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DialSquare · 17/08/2026 22:55

Found some Transorcs.

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
BiologicalRobot · 17/08/2026 22:56

Could have got a cute matching one for his support animal (I'm assuming he has one) but no, he's an orc 😔

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 23:09

murasaki · 17/08/2026 22:39

I can't decide who is more weird, the OP or Mr Orc.

Unless he is Mr Orc, just with a masochism thing going on.

I think it’s a non zero possibility.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 17/08/2026 23:26

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2026 23:09

I think it’s a non zero possibility.

Well, that's boring.

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