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Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces

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user08101988 · Yesterday 12:32

Started because a thread on Girlguiding was getting too off topic.

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DauntlessDamson · Yesterday 13:18

AImportantMermaid · Yesterday 13:05

Sex is observed at birth, not assigned. There isn’t a sorting hat popped on your head when you exit the uterus and then you grow a penis or vagina. Your sex is in almost every cell of your DNA and has been since the moment of conception. It’s like a stick of rock and immutable, regardless of presentation. Wear a dress, paint your nails, sleep with whomever you like as long as it’s legal. Bang on about pronouns - I’ll happily call you Miss User and refer you as ‘she’ if that’s what you want. I don’t care - whatever floats your boat - but I wouldn’t really believe it, I’d just be indulging you for a quiet life. But you’re not, and never will be, female. Women don’t describe ourselves as ciswomen. We describe ourselves as women on the extremely rare occasions we would ever need to. If you were a real women you wouldn’t be coming on here and making posts like this because you’d have nothing to prove.

This.

Thanks @AImportantMermaid I couldn't be arsed writing all that down, but you have put it very succinctly.

The only way I differ from you is that I would not call a man 'she'. It only encourages them.

Dancingsquirrels · Yesterday 13:18

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:45

They are called women, much like women who were assigned female at birth are cisgender women. Trans is just an adjective

It's phrases like "trans is just an adjective" that got us in this mess in the first place, where bio males think they belong in women's single sex spaces. Just No

StandingDeskDisco · Yesterday 13:19

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:50

I appreciate the question. I am a trans-fem non-binary person. This means, while I was AMAB, I mostly see myself aligned with femininity. However, I do not see myself within the binary of gender, so that's why I use those pronouns

You may not see yourself within the binary of gender, but you most definitely are within the binary of sex. Because sex is binary and you are male.

Gender is probably not a binary, who knows?
How do you define 'gender'?

InfoSecInTheCity · Yesterday 13:19

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:53

They are biological females due to this study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

Also, if you think stripping down what women are to their body parts, that's what feminists fought against for years. Now women can get jobs, start bank accounts, own property, and so many more things. This is a very regressive view of what women are.

Have you read the study?

Even the writers of the paper who conducted the study didn’t say that Trans women have female brains. They said
“The Brain Sex of transgender women was estimated as 0.75 ± 0.39, thus hovering between cisgender men and cisgender women, albeit closer to cisgender men (see also Figure 1). The follow-up post hoc tests revealed that transgender women were significantly more female than cisgender men (Cohen’s d = 0.64, t(46) = 2.20, p = 0.016), but significantly less female than cisgender women (Cohen’s d = 1.87, t(46) = 6.48, p < 0.001).”

Brain Sex in Transgender Women Is Shifted towards Gender Identity - PMC

Transgender people report discomfort with their birth sex and a strong identification with the opposite sex. The current study was designed to shed further light on the question of whether the brains of transgender people resemble their birth sex or .....

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/#jcm-11-01582-f001

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 13:19

I wonder if this is what a female brain looks like?

Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces
PuggyPuggyPuggy · Yesterday 13:20

Ah, of course. Summer holidays, innit.

Oovavuuuu · Yesterday 13:20

Mumsnet is just an echo chamber for the anti trans movement. It's not how most people feel in real life. I wouldn't even bother debating here as people aren't interested in different view points.

Cuppachuchu · Yesterday 13:20

Babe, you're a bloke.

SidewaysOtter · Yesterday 13:21

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LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 13:21

Ahhhh.

When you've bled every single month since 1986, which is showing no signs of ending, and you've grown a uterus full of huge fibroids which make you bleed 24/7, then come back and let's talk.

Dancingsquirrels · Yesterday 13:21

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:50

I appreciate the question. I am a trans-fem non-binary person. This means, while I was AMAB, I mostly see myself aligned with femininity. However, I do not see myself within the binary of gender, so that's why I use those pronouns

"trans-fem non-binary person"

So, in old language "an effeminate man"

MrsVBS · Yesterday 13:21

It’s biologically impossible, no amount of putting a lipstick and dress on makes a man a woman.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 13:21

Bollocks. Literally.

PauliesWalnuts · Yesterday 13:22

MeridaBrave · Yesterday 12:50

I have bulging biceps. 💪🏻 does that make me less of a woman?

... and I've got PCOS so I've definitely got the beard. I am a woman and have XX chromosomes.

SidewaysOtter · Yesterday 13:22

Oovavuuuu · Yesterday 13:20

Mumsnet is just an echo chamber for the anti trans movement. It's not how most people feel in real life. I wouldn't even bother debating here as people aren't interested in different view points.

Define "anti trans".

Because trans people have the same rights as everyone else. What they don't have is the special privileges they've demanded and that's not "anti rights".

ghostyslovesheets · Yesterday 13:22

No means no - why do some men find that hard to understand

ProfessorBinturong · Yesterday 13:23

Ignoring the many, many shortcomings of the study being posted as 'proof' (sample size, factors controlled.for, testing parameters, treatment of statistical outliers etc, etc, etc) all you need to do to debunk the 'proof' is look at figure 1.

There are 3 ranges shown: 1 for men, one for TW, one for women. The range for TW is entirely - let me repeat that, entirely - within the range given for men.

aberamagold · Yesterday 13:23

Biologically and legally they are not women, and they have no right to access women's spaces.

'Brain sex' is nonsense.
Sex is not defined by brain anatomy. There is no reliable way of using scans of brain anatomy to determine sex, without which it's meaningless to say men who say they're women have 'woman' brains.

Shedmistress · Yesterday 13:24

Oovavuuuu · Yesterday 13:20

Mumsnet is just an echo chamber for the anti trans movement. It's not how most people feel in real life. I wouldn't even bother debating here as people aren't interested in different view points.

On the contrary, people have been asking how a man changes into a woman, like actually changes, for a decade. But apparently nobody can answer.

Maybe you have the answer, being that 'most people' feel they can 'in real life'?

The floor is yours...

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 13:24

MrsVBS · Yesterday 13:21

It’s biologically impossible, no amount of putting a lipstick and dress on makes a man a woman.

My brain is now trying desperately to conflate the phrases "lipstick on a pig" and "silk purse from a sow's ear".

MrsVBS · Yesterday 13:24

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Change2banon · Yesterday 13:24

Cuppachuchu · Yesterday 13:20

Babe, you're a bloke.

I wish we still had the laugh emoji .. and it was visible to everyone 😁😁 This made me laugh out loud 😂😂 Love it.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 13:24

I would suggest a course of lessons in basic biology for the OP.

Retro12 · Yesterday 13:25

Absolutely not!

JamesKirkupReviewWritersFund · Yesterday 13:25

Bank accounts? For women? No thank you sir, I'll be keeping my far-right/christian/moscow money in a box under my bed.

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