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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

So Doctor “ Beth “ Upton is off to pastures new , leaving a large ongoing bill for NHS Fife

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RhannionKPSS · 15/02/2026 10:30

Dr Upton is off to Australia it seems, after creating a toxic situation for women in NHS Fife, wonder if Dr Upton is going to be working in “ Gender Services “ down under ?

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lifeturnsonadime · 16/02/2026 16:24

I miss the laugh emoji looking at some of the recent posts!

I don't care why he's gone, he's an activist doctor with an agenda, good riddance.

i hope for the sake of Australian women that Australia sees sense soon, but I can't see that happening.

Grammarnut · 16/02/2026 16:25

Aluna · 15/02/2026 19:05

Depends where you are. In the hinterlands not so much.

But he'll likely go to Victoria? Very much TWAW.

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 16:28

Grammarnut · 16/02/2026 16:25

But he'll likely go to Victoria? Very much TWAW.

He would need to go where there is work. There are a lot of jobs in Australia but Australian doctors get prioritised over overseas doctors.

KilkennyCats · 16/02/2026 16:30

SidewaysOtter · 16/02/2026 15:30

How often would there be widespread condemnation of a woman leaving her abusive male partner? Sure you might get some complaints from his family who won't hear a word said against their darling, or from those who thought they knew him ("But he's always so nice!") but generally people would at least shrug and say to themselves that it's fair enough if she wants to leave: there must be more to it.

But with a transwoman partner I've seen the stories of women who've found themselves vilified for leaving their vulnerable/brave/oppressed partner who has finally been able to be their "authentic true self" only for his wife to leave. Never mind that she didn't sign up for being married to a trans woman, or a woman of any description/identity. Never mind that his 'coming out' will probably be the culmination of years of excusing and gaslighting: only a pair of women's knickers, only wearing a dress behind closed doors, only suggesting that they have sex with him dressed up, it not being a big deal, it not being fair on him when she won't accept his trans identity or this being her life now whether she likes it or not.

Only with transwidows do you get others polishing their right-on credentials by condemning the wife who dares leave, which absolutely does affect her agency.

Ok 🤷🏻‍♀️
I wouldn’t stay, and wouldn’t be swayed by anyone interested in vilifying me, whoever they may be.

SidewaysOtter · 16/02/2026 17:12

KilkennyCats · 16/02/2026 16:30

Ok 🤷🏻‍♀️
I wouldn’t stay, and wouldn’t be swayed by anyone interested in vilifying me, whoever they may be.

Glad to hear it. But I think you are woefully underestimating the effect of abuse and gaslighting, which comes rather too close to saying of any abuse victim “But why didn’t she just leave?”

KilkennyCats · 16/02/2026 17:20

Ok.

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 17:40

We don’t know if Upton’s wife is an abuse victim or an enthusiastic and willing cheer leader. I am not sure it is helpful to speculate which it is.

Igmum · 16/02/2026 18:59

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 11:22

Why do you feel sorry for the Australian women patients? Her medical skills aren't in question and there is no evidence or suggestion that she has ever mistreated any female patient. If you had a collapse and she was the only doctor in sight (like on a plane) I bet you'd be quite happy to put your prejudices aside and have her treat you!

He complained that an elderly patient with dementia misgendered him. He kept notes on at least one of his colleagues. He invented complaints other staff members said were false. He created fake screenshots to try to evidence his imaginary complaints. He said he would treat a patient who hadn’t given consent.

it would take a lot to make me grateful for this man who frankly should be struck off.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/02/2026 19:34

To be fair, I have no idea whether his medical skills are up to scratch or not. What I find dubious are his ethical standards.

SirChenjins · 16/02/2026 19:38

Igmum · 16/02/2026 18:59

He complained that an elderly patient with dementia misgendered him. He kept notes on at least one of his colleagues. He invented complaints other staff members said were false. He created fake screenshots to try to evidence his imaginary complaints. He said he would treat a patient who hadn’t given consent.

it would take a lot to make me grateful for this man who frankly should be struck off.

Exactly. This man may have passed his medical exams - but it requires far more than that to be a good doctor. He has displayed nothing but contempt for colleagues and patients who don't play along with his delusions and he'll stop at nothing, it seems.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 16/02/2026 20:05

And by the way Dr Upton isn't the first man to argue he's "biologically" female - cyclist Rachel (not his birth name) McKinnon / Veronica Ivy and India Willoughby both used the same (non) argument. I couldn't find sources earlier today but they are in Mr Menno's Somatically Female mashup:

Any excuse to enjoy a bit of Mr Menno!

ErinBell01 · 16/02/2026 20:08

Needmoresleep · 16/02/2026 07:32

Not read the whole thread but the case and him going to Australia may not be linked.

There are very few jobs for UK trained doctors at his level. At the time of the case he was an F3. A year long contract for those who have finished their 2 foundation years. (He was on a Foundation rotation in A&E when it all happened.)

Boris, perhaps motivated by Covid, designated all doctor jobs as shortage jobs, which means that they open to worldwide applications with no priority given to those already resident in the UK. Wes Streeting has tightened up rules around speciality training positions as application numbers had gone through the roof, but has otherwise ignored the issue. It means that doctors like 'Beth' at the start of their careers are competing for entry level jobs with doctors from overseas with bags of experience. The choice, for DD is insecure and poorly paid zero hours locum work or emigrating.

DD is also about to leave. About 25% of those who completed F2 in her deanery last August are in or en route to Australia. She already knows that 7 from her Deanery and six from her medical school will be working in the same hospital. Perhaps Beth as well.

In short this decision will not be about 'trans', but simply that Beth's special status was not enough to protect her from the realities of trying to build a career within the NHS.

Beth is a male, so a him. No one can change sex, despite what he says. Only handmaidens think he's a woman!

anyolddinosaur · 16/02/2026 20:20

If Australia favour who can manage on a busy ward then it's perhaps still Upton "may" go to Australia. He dissolved into tears (he claimed) over a nurse saying he shouldnt be in a female toilet. Still wondering why no-one reported to senior nursing staff someone in great distress running around the department looking for a senior doctor. Only the doctor noticed this great distress.

ErinBell01 · 16/02/2026 20:23

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 15/02/2026 21:11

Because so very many of the medical staff in this country come from all over the world? So long as they speak English, which is what really matters if you are an English speaker and want to tell a doctor what the problem is, I can't see that it matters. If you aren't, you may need a translator no matter which country the doctor happens to come from. The last one who treated me was a Finn, who naturally spoke better English than I do. The one before that was a Bulgarian.

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Apart from any language barrier, it would be nice to know that doctors from abroad have been trained to equivalent or better standards than UK doctors. I'm currently listening to a podcast about foreign doctors in Oz and the health board didn't check their training, or registrations or complaints, such that they had doctors who had been restricted in their practice doing the very same operations that they were incompetent to carry out, with devastating complications. There have certainly been cases here of foreign doctors with fake qualifications because no one bothered checking the spelling mistakes and the fuzzy photocopies.

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 20:42

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/02/2026 19:34

To be fair, I have no idea whether his medical skills are up to scratch or not. What I find dubious are his ethical standards.

His medical skills must be woeful if he thinks people can change sex and he is biologically female.

HildegardP · 16/02/2026 20:57

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 09:13

Most who go abroad do so because they can’t get places here. They do count as international medical graduates and I am sceptical about courses where people can pass their medical degree without having sufficient local language to engage properly with patients. How can that be patient centred care? However, if they are British citizens they have a right to work here as long as they can pass PLAB.

Some European universities teach in English anyway & medical degree courses are taught in English in Germany, Poland, Romania, Italy & the Czech Republic, to name a few. A good standard of English was generally expected of medical students because the bulk of the big medical journals published in English & the major medical conferences were English-medium. We native English speakers by contrast, were noted for our perplexing monoglottism.

I know that you can get bumped off English-medium medical courses in Italy if your standard of Italian (classes are provided within the medical school) isn't of a sufficient standard by year 3 when patient contact begins, presumably the same applies elsewhere - think of the insurance! 2 years is plenty to go from Beginners to degree-level in a Romance language, Polish might be more sticky, a bit of pre-application prep would be advisable.

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 21:11

Some European universities teach in English

Learning medicine in English is not the same as learning to communicate effectively with patients in English, especially patients with regional accents. I know lecturers who teach dentistry who say they despair of the level of English of many of their students. Overseas testing of English to gain access to university courses in the UK are known to be riddled with fraud and cheating.

Also someone who speaks a creole, pidgin or diaspora language variations of English might well be able to pass an English language test but be incredibly difficult to understand by people in the UK.

HildegardP · 16/02/2026 22:57

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 21:11

Some European universities teach in English

Learning medicine in English is not the same as learning to communicate effectively with patients in English, especially patients with regional accents. I know lecturers who teach dentistry who say they despair of the level of English of many of their students. Overseas testing of English to gain access to university courses in the UK are known to be riddled with fraud and cheating.

Also someone who speaks a creole, pidgin or diaspora language variations of English might well be able to pass an English language test but be incredibly difficult to understand by people in the UK.

I was referring to UK students who choose to take their medical degrees abroad. I'm all-too familiar with the language competency problems in UK universities & in my own life despair of being sent to clinicians whose English is barely B1, never mind the C2 level at which they should be functioning.

ElenOfTheWays · 17/02/2026 05:51

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/02/2026 19:34

To be fair, I have no idea whether his medical skills are up to scratch or not. What I find dubious are his ethical standards.

I wouldn't expect much of his competency tbh. If he were a talented physician he probably wouldn't have felt the need to make himself a "special identity" to no doubt cover his flaws.
And his compassion levels appear to be nil. So hardly a healing presence.

TimeForATerf · 17/02/2026 08:11

Wherever Theo ends up, IMO his career, at least as a clinical doctor, is finished. Not only does he not have the mental capacity to cope but it will take two minutes to know who he is when his application lands. Unless of course he changes his name to something else...

His career was over when he walked into that tribunal and opened his mouth.

RareGoalsVerge · 17/02/2026 08:24

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 11:22

Why do you feel sorry for the Australian women patients? Her medical skills aren't in question and there is no evidence or suggestion that she has ever mistreated any female patient. If you had a collapse and she was the only doctor in sight (like on a plane) I bet you'd be quite happy to put your prejudices aside and have her treat you!

Beth Upton has said on the record that he would ignore patient consent and lie to a patient about what was going to be happening if a female patient requested to be treated by female staff (which can often be a legitimate need particularly for survivors of Sexual Abuse) because Beth Upton's desire to be perceived as a woman is more important than actual patient wellbeing, consent or dignity

Mylovelygreendress · 17/02/2026 08:31

RareGoalsVerge · 17/02/2026 08:24

Beth Upton has said on the record that he would ignore patient consent and lie to a patient about what was going to be happening if a female patient requested to be treated by female staff (which can often be a legitimate need particularly for survivors of Sexual Abuse) because Beth Upton's desire to be perceived as a woman is more important than actual patient wellbeing, consent or dignity

Having seen Theo Upton in person ( I happened to be in Dundee during the Tribunal) I can assure you that no one sane would mistake him for a woman !

AnSolas · 17/02/2026 08:41

TimeForATerf · 17/02/2026 08:11

Wherever Theo ends up, IMO his career, at least as a clinical doctor, is finished. Not only does he not have the mental capacity to cope but it will take two minutes to know who he is when his application lands. Unless of course he changes his name to something else...

His career was over when he walked into that tribunal and opened his mouth.

I would not bet on his medical career being over as there are clearly true believers in medicine.
The only saving grace will be that most doctors are very very aware that shit will be bulldozed down over them in an adverse incident. Having a doctor with his history leaves them with someone who is not credible and has been proven to give unreliable evidence to a Court.

Swapping over to his wifes name etc would disguise his past.

RareGoalsVerge · 17/02/2026 08:42

Mylovelygreendress · 17/02/2026 08:31

Having seen Theo Upton in person ( I happened to be in Dundee during the Tribunal) I can assure you that no one sane would mistake him for a woman !

Which means that no female patient, who for any reason needs same-sex care, in a hospital where Beth Upton works, can trust that if they consent to a general anaesthetic, their wishes will be respected while they are unconscious - hence this is relevant to @user2848502016 feeling sorry for the women of Australia if these reports are true, which @PithyViewer questioned on the grounds that Beth has not mistreated any female patient. I think overruling any woman's consent for anything to be done or not done to her body by a male because the male's desires are more important is distinctly problematic and is mistreatment.

TinselAngel · 17/02/2026 10:01

KilkennyCats · 16/02/2026 16:30

Ok 🤷🏻‍♀️
I wouldn’t stay, and wouldn’t be swayed by anyone interested in vilifying me, whoever they may be.

In your spare time, when you’re not posting on mumsnet, do you go around knocking on the door of Freedom Programme meetings shouting “I’D HAVE LEFT HIM YOU KNOW”?