Isn’t AGP also what every woman experiences when they get dressed up & feel good about themselves?

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I have no agenda here. I’ve always just been interested in exploring other perspectives of debates…although I’m sure this particular thought will get flamed on here and end up very one-sided indeed 🤣
I don’t believe every trans woman has AGP, but I believe a significant proportion do. And I’ve always considered that proportion to be creepy, I feel anger at the fact these men get to walk around, at least in some circles, socially accepted as women, just so they can satisfy a sexual fetish. However, I was thinking about how I feel as a woman who’s comfortable and happy about being a woman when I get dressed up in my favourite sexy outfit and put on some makeup. It makes me feel sexy. Not sexually aroused but I do feel sexy. Is that vastly different to what a trans woman feels like when they get dressed up and look (at least in their eyes) like a woman? Could it be that it’s either not AGP and we all feel sexy when we know we look good as the gender we are or want to be…or everyone’s a bit AGP when they think they look sexy because they therefore feel sexy? Or is this a totally unoriginal thought that’s already been troped out by TRAs and actually there is a huge difference??

Can’t answer the question? My question is actually relevant to the thread. Your last comment shows up your obvious bias.

I said that not all stores offer bra fittings by staff, a factual statement.

You said more than that, didn’t you?

You also made a laughable claim that men are bra fitters.

Mentioning a lie that was told and no correction offered is my 'bias'? LOL. Are you normally this defensive of slander?

And your question is unimportant. Why am I here? Because I chose to be here. Why do YOU think it's okay to make up lies to smear people?

No I didn't, I said men have measured women in outfits in some stores. My aunt had a wedding dress measured on her at a store years ago, the employee measuring was male.

Ummm.... pmsl, measuring a wedding dress is DIFFERENT from measuring BREASTS.

No one offered to measure someone's breasts. Nor did I say so.

That’s a tailor, mate, not a bra fitter. Hardly the same, is it 😂

Yes, I never maid claim that men measure women's bras. Care to point out where I did?

I know you men have no idea what happens with measuring, but when girls are fitted for a bra, their breasts are measured. That is what it entails. The measurer has to actually handle the breasts.

It's best not to use a laughing emoji when you can't even do basic reading comprehension.

Wow, you're really losing control of yourself.

Your last comment was about how “anti trans” we all are.

I’m here because this is the feminist board of a mostly female focussed website I’ve been on for 13 years. HTH.

I'd say it's anti trans to accuse someone of being a pedo or wanting them fired, for being trans.

So you're disablist, not just misogynistic. The whole issue was about a male wanting to measure a girl up for a bra. That was his intent.

No, it was because they were MALE. Not 'trans'.

No it wasn't, he mentioned the service, He wasn't a bra fitter. Proof that he offered to do it? Because even the complaint never claimed that. You're just making it up

He didn't offer to fit her for a bra. That wasn't even his job, obviously.

Why aren’t you gendering “her” correctly? You do realise that trans activists would see you much the same way as us?

I've not "falsely accused" anyone.

Again, that was his intent. That is how men operate.