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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

HW getting cancelled by the trans community

200 replies

Greyskybluesky · 27/11/2025 16:31

HW has posted on r/transgenderuk.
This past few weeks I’ve been in studios from Liverpool, to London, to Washington DC, using my voice to stand up for the trans community. What a whirlwind trip!

But the TRAs are NOT happy.

Helen, please. We know you probably mean well, but you DO NOT have the rhetorical or tactical skill to do this. You're damaging the cause you claim to be championing.

You have thoroughly embarrassed us with your performance.
It has been excruciating to listen to.

What the fuck, this is horrific. You've just gone and fed the fascist media machine the exact meat it was craving and it is running with it all the way to Timbuktu.

I'm not sure this has gone the way she hoped.

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BettyBooper · 27/11/2025 17:25

The projection on that thread is unreal 😂!

'Something to add to this, the people in these groups have bonded and formed friendships with their fellow haters.
They will never give up their crusade because once it's gone they have nothing left to bond over.
There are plenty of occasions where these groups have met and posted gleefully as if they are doing something daring when in reality other friend groups have been doing the same forever.
The reason it's such a big deal for them is that this is the only time they have been able to form close enough bonds with other people that they have been able to make those kinds of friendships.
They will do whatever it takes to keep that friendship and common bond alive no matter how repulsive it is and no matter how many people they hurt.'

😂

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:25

Genuine question - who do they think on their side comes across well in the media? They seem to think that if they just had a good communicator it would make all the difference, ok HW comes across as a bit mad but she basically espouses a lot of TRA points, so what would another person say that would make an impact?

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 17:26

How do we convince hosts and their audiences to love instead of hate?

It is all about the ‘convincing’ isn’t it?

How do we convince those women and girls to just be nice and let us cause them harm? How do we control those women and girls so they just shut the fuck up?

How do we convince people that children having permanent extreme body modifications to suit their philosophical belief about themselves that is not reflective of material reality is something to be celebrated?

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:29

BettyBooper · 27/11/2025 17:25

The projection on that thread is unreal 😂!

'Something to add to this, the people in these groups have bonded and formed friendships with their fellow haters.
They will never give up their crusade because once it's gone they have nothing left to bond over.
There are plenty of occasions where these groups have met and posted gleefully as if they are doing something daring when in reality other friend groups have been doing the same forever.
The reason it's such a big deal for them is that this is the only time they have been able to form close enough bonds with other people that they have been able to make those kinds of friendships.
They will do whatever it takes to keep that friendship and common bond alive no matter how repulsive it is and no matter how many people they hurt.'

😂

It’s amazing isn’t it? Nearly every TERF interview or podcast has a bit where they say God I wish I wasn’t having to do this, there’s so many other things I want to do or we as a society should be doing.

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 17:30

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:25

Genuine question - who do they think on their side comes across well in the media? They seem to think that if they just had a good communicator it would make all the difference, ok HW comes across as a bit mad but she basically espouses a lot of TRA points, so what would another person say that would make an impact?

well, after all those who have been abusive towards those who disagree with them, which influential speakers, who have transgender identities and fully support children being medicalised, are left?

Not one that I can think of. As soon as they would start speaking, their past interactions would be introduced and their credibility lost.

RachelFanshawe · 27/11/2025 17:33

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:25

Genuine question - who do they think on their side comes across well in the media? They seem to think that if they just had a good communicator it would make all the difference, ok HW comes across as a bit mad but she basically espouses a lot of TRA points, so what would another person say that would make an impact?

The funniest one was when Peter Tatchell took Fred Wallace along to a debate and Peter spent the whole time trying to stop him drinking and talking about getting fucked in S&M clubs 🤣

WallaceinAnderland · 27/11/2025 17:34

"Watching these videos is like watching a toddler spar with Mike Tyson" 😂

BettyBooper · 27/11/2025 17:38

HW goes onto lots of podcasts and rolls out all the standard GI arguments.

Trans Reddit - 'no no stop Helen! You're making us look ridiculous!'

😂

Coatsoff42 · 27/11/2025 17:38

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:29

It’s amazing isn’t it? Nearly every TERF interview or podcast has a bit where they say God I wish I wasn’t having to do this, there’s so many other things I want to do or we as a society should be doing.

I thought that comment was about TRAs!

JumpingPumpkin · 27/11/2025 17:41

Interesting given quite a few GCs on X thought she shouldn't have been given the opportunity as it would only be good for her business.

HildegardP · 27/11/2025 17:43

GGP is far from her only money-making wheeze & the Gender Identitarians have been getting pissed off with her for a while now.
I'd be more concerned about Susie Green's drug dealing operation - she's got F1nn5ter on board & he's doing PR for her to his young & credulous audience.

OhYesWeAre · 27/11/2025 17:45

You love to see it.

JamieCannister · 27/11/2025 17:45

Rightsraptor · 27/11/2025 17:06

It's an interesting read. Helen is probably quite devastated - she posted her smug message all about 'we' and 'us' & all the work she's been doing for them and she gets those responses.

I am not feeling in the least bit sorry for her, in case this reads as though I am. I do wonder what it would take for her to turn on them. Maybe we're about to find out?

I bet it's posted by her "team" and they won't even bother to give her feedback.

Cynical, moi?

NecessaryScene · 27/11/2025 17:51

It is all about the ‘convincing’ isn’t it?

Yes, the people on Reddit are fully aligned with Webberly on that - they're just saying she's not very good at it.

Lifting a bit from Helen Joyce's latest (paywalled) newsletter:

She also has no concern whatsoever for the accuracy of what she says, instead seeming to say whatever suits in the moment. She insisted that the UK Equality Act grants trans people the right to use facilities of the opposite sex, which it never did. She suggested that the Supreme Court judgment was legally wrong — so ridiculous; the Supreme Court’s interpretations are the law, unless and until it’s changed. She makes appeals to authority (she said several times that I had no standing to talk about child gender medicine because I’m not a doctor) at the same time as confidently straying beyond her own purported field of expertise (if I can’t talk about medicine, why can she talk about equality law?) And so on and on and on.

I think this is because, for reasons unconnected with facts or evidence, she has decided that she will do everything she can to enable children of any age to socially transition and get hormonal interventions, if that is what they say they want. I won’t speculate about why she has decided this — I really don’t know. But she starts from that point and then does and says whatever seems most likely, in the moment, to advance that goal. She doesn’t reason forward from facts or even premises — she doesn’t even reason backward from observed outcomes. She doesn’t reason at all, and it’s a mistake to engage with her as if she does.

All of which applies equally to many of those critiquing her performance.

DeafLeppard · 27/11/2025 17:54

It’s also a text book example of men punching down on a service woman, even if she is as mad as a bag of bees….

Owly11 · 27/11/2025 18:11

I love how all the tras pretend that they are losing the arguments because HW is not media trained 😂 They are losing the argument because they don't have any. You only have to scratch the surface to find the emperor has no clothes. Now that bullying, intimidation, silencing and oppression isn't working and they realise that actual other people exist and have rights too they have nothing to fall back on.

JamieCannister · 27/11/2025 18:21

Owly11 · 27/11/2025 18:11

I love how all the tras pretend that they are losing the arguments because HW is not media trained 😂 They are losing the argument because they don't have any. You only have to scratch the surface to find the emperor has no clothes. Now that bullying, intimidation, silencing and oppression isn't working and they realise that actual other people exist and have rights too they have nothing to fall back on.

If there's one mistake they made it was demanding we listen to trans people.

Webberley has clearly listened to trans people as well, and the entire reason she is in the media is her history of listening to trans people.

PoppyWarrior · 27/11/2025 18:34

OMG the comments on that Reddit thread!

t’s all well and good saying “you can’t change your sex”, but I’ve never heard anyone explain WHY it isn’t possible, or assuming that it’s true, WHY it’s important. It’s all well and good saying “trans women are men”, but again there’s usually no proof, and when convincing argument is made for the sheer fact it lacks importance to the wider problem at hand.

What's that phrase? It fits these people perfectly!!

Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon. It'll just knock over the pieces, shit on the board and strut about like it's won anyway.

Greyskybluesky · 27/11/2025 18:37

niadainud · 27/11/2025 17:23

She's not really though, because GR admitted that he was flogging crap, which is the opposite of what HW is trying to do.

Oh yes you're right! She's flogging crap and NOT admitting it!

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Boiledbeetle · 27/11/2025 19:07

BettyBooper · 27/11/2025 17:25

The projection on that thread is unreal 😂!

'Something to add to this, the people in these groups have bonded and formed friendships with their fellow haters.
They will never give up their crusade because once it's gone they have nothing left to bond over.
There are plenty of occasions where these groups have met and posted gleefully as if they are doing something daring when in reality other friend groups have been doing the same forever.
The reason it's such a big deal for them is that this is the only time they have been able to form close enough bonds with other people that they have been able to make those kinds of friendships.
They will do whatever it takes to keep that friendship and common bond alive no matter how repulsive it is and no matter how many people they hurt.'

😂

I'm loving one of the replies to that

"I read that's what happened with the women who brought the FWS case, they met on Mumsnet, became friends and, as weird middle-aged women with no hobbies do, bonded over taking the Scottish Government to court. Wish they'd took up knitting or jetskiing or something instead."

I'm trying to imagine Susan, Trina and Marion jet skiing!

WomensRightsRenegade · 27/11/2025 19:14

Rightsraptor · 27/11/2025 17:06

It's an interesting read. Helen is probably quite devastated - she posted her smug message all about 'we' and 'us' & all the work she's been doing for them and she gets those responses.

I am not feeling in the least bit sorry for her, in case this reads as though I am. I do wonder what it would take for her to turn on them. Maybe we're about to find out?

How can she possibly turn on them? She can’t ever reverse ferret out of the corner she’s painted herself into. After the grotesque damage she’s done to so many young lives.

BettyBooper · 27/11/2025 19:41

Owly11 · 27/11/2025 18:11

I love how all the tras pretend that they are losing the arguments because HW is not media trained 😂 They are losing the argument because they don't have any. You only have to scratch the surface to find the emperor has no clothes. Now that bullying, intimidation, silencing and oppression isn't working and they realise that actual other people exist and have rights too they have nothing to fall back on.

Absolutely!

HW used their own arguments and it's gone down like a bucket of sick.

And they're mad at her about it?!

Not enough irony points for that.

BendoftheBeginning · 27/11/2025 20:06

Boiledbeetle · 27/11/2025 19:07

I'm loving one of the replies to that

"I read that's what happened with the women who brought the FWS case, they met on Mumsnet, became friends and, as weird middle-aged women with no hobbies do, bonded over taking the Scottish Government to court. Wish they'd took up knitting or jetskiing or something instead."

I'm trying to imagine Susan, Trina and Marion jet skiing!

I actually almost admire the way they eagerly repeat the same sorts of insults aimed against every wave of women’s liberation from the beginning, yet still regard themselves as the good guys.

cinnamongirl123 · 27/11/2025 20:07

junipery · 27/11/2025 17:25

Genuine question - who do they think on their side comes across well in the media? They seem to think that if they just had a good communicator it would make all the difference, ok HW comes across as a bit mad but she basically espouses a lot of TRA points, so what would another person say that would make an impact?

Benjamin Butterworth
Owen Jones
Lloyd Russell-Moyle
Dr Adrian Harrop

Oh wait……
😂😂😂

Boiledbeetle · 27/11/2025 20:48

One of the Reddit mods has posted

"Some of the more toxic transphobes are lurking this post and posting screenshots on Twitter, be aware."

just wait til they realise Mumsnet are lurking as well!