You are aware of the changing name feature on Mumsnet, yes?
Not that it should matter, but I deliberately changed my name for this topic as what I'm writing here is pretty outing if you know me IRL as I'm having very similar arguments on Facebook ATM.
Under my previous name, I'm discussing some personal stuff I want kept private and not for anyone who recognises me to be able to read.
This is pretty normal on MN, we talk about some very personal stuff here. Are you new round here?! If not, why are you pretending you don't know name changing is very common on MN?
Also, I am still posting on those other topics but - again you should know this if you are a regular - these days, MN reverts to old names for posts you've already posted on.