Your child in this example of "hyperbloe"
Per the opening post you become the mother with a child filling out the application form but ignoring the request for you to declare your belief system when it comes to gender.
You send your child to the camp.
There are adults and children there.
The adults have a socio-political belief that people must be allowed to control the way they are described by others.
You stated you share the same belief.
You said that you feel so strongly about this that you would stop comminicating with me if I failed to accept that you had a right to dictate what words were used to describe you.
Therefore you are claiming that you would not have a problem with your child
• being taught to lie to you
• being told-off or sanctioned for correctly sexing a child
• being instructed by adults to obey instructions without question when you know said staff would openly lie knowing your child understood they were being lied to.
In the camp your child meets Sam.
Your child know Sam is a male.
The staff instruct your child that Sam is a female with she/her pronouns. And that your child must only recognise Sam as a female person.
Your child knows Sam is a male.
Your child knows that the adults know Sam is a male.
Your child knows that if there is a conversation about Sam, she/her rather than he/him is to be uses.
Your child knows an adult will force a adjustment of your childs language if male or him or he is used when speaking about Sam.
Your child knows that when you and your child have a conversation that Sam must be described as female not male and that the words she not he and her not him must be used.
So unless you ask your child for a detailed description the information you are given by your child is that Sam who slept in the same room as your child and shares changing areas and toilets is female
Eg
Sam slept in my room last night.
She has nice PJs and she changed into her Tshirt and jeans after we shower but before we had breakfast. I liked her runners.