I understand that Dr. Upton etc all find being referred at as male as distressing but there is an objective truth here also needs acknowledging.
There is nothing inherently shameful abput being male. The objective truth is that Dr Upton is male and aways will be no matter what, if any, alterations he makes to himself cosmetically, chemically or medically.
From the perspective of a fly in the wall observer, Dr. Upton is male. There was nothing physically, objectively female about him (at this point). He is is identical to Pete the Plumber.
There never will be anything objectively female about him.
At first I didn't agree with NC choice of male pronouns but now I do.
Unclear language is obfuscating. You get a mental image of Dr. Upton which is not what Sandie saw. This whole tribunal is Sandie's.
Pronouns are Rohypnol. People are entitled to say what they see, compelled language and thought is for totalitarian regimes.