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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Amendment to Data Bill to revert all gender markers and out all trans people

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bluegoldflow · 02/05/2025 22:07

Hoping this passes, it shouldn't be possible to change your sex (a biological impossibility) on legal documents. This would prevent men using this loop hole to erase their past identities and stop male crimes being recorded as female crimes.

Amendment to Data Bill to revert all gender markers and out all trans people
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Merrymouse · 10/05/2025 16:11

people like you believe only in social constructs

You really would think the clue would be in the name, even if it’s just ‘radical feminist’…. 🤷

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/05/2025 16:28

Merrymouse · 10/05/2025 16:11

people like you believe only in social constructs

You really would think the clue would be in the name, even if it’s just ‘radical feminist’…. 🤷

These people seem to think that it is 'sex' itself that is the construct, rather than the idea or concept of 'Gender' or 'Gender identity'. It is as if they have just imbibed Judith Butler and not questioned anything, or thought it through at all.

And another huge irony is that is is they that see things as a binary. You are either 'cis' ( someone who doesn't question anything about their 'gender') or 'trans' ( someone who does). They seem to think that a man dressing up as a woman is rejecting the binary, and is therefore a radical act, and vice versa with a woman presenting as a man. Failing to see that what they are doing is rejecting one set of social constructs only to embrace another set of constructs.

DragonRunor · 10/05/2025 17:09

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 14:01

@Datun Another uneducated comment, you really need to research before posting Both Cis and Trans exist and they are widely used in scientific contexts. Why dont you actually do a little research. They identify the differences between Cis gender a woman born as the gender they identify as and Trans Woman a woman born with the gender they don't identify as, I'd explain in detail but I doubt you'd have the intellectual brain power to understand as people like you believe only in social constructs, and unaware of the objective reality due to how narrow minded you are

Woman is a universal term Period

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)
Intersex Woman

It doesn't matter which you are these are all woman and you need to get over that fact

No Tran woman wants to be a Cis Woman, No one wants your identify get over yourself you really aren't that special, GROW UP

I always wonder about this. I am an adult human, following a female biological pathway - so woman.

I don’t identify as a man, so not a transman
and I don’t identify as a woman, so not a ciswoman
I don’t identify as having any, or no gender, so not agender

In my language I’m a woman, in your language I have no label - are you trying to eradicate women like me? I could scream genocide, but honestly that would be overblown tripe wouldn’t it?

Annoyedone · 10/05/2025 17:11

@TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics why are you using the transphobic term cis?

TheOtherRaven · 10/05/2025 18:14

It's rather like a Christian requiring all to identify themselves as Christians, Heathens or Sinners depending on the requirers internal standards. Basically to defer to their right to control and define the other person to their own inner world, and require their participation.

No thanks, I'm an atheist.

Etaerio · 10/05/2025 18:21

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 13:15

@Etaerio I wouldnt even class that as making sense, let alome a good argument
I feel quite embarrassed for you that you would even think it was 😂

Your lack of education astounds me 🤣

Oh dear, not too bright are you? Poor thing!

GailBlancheViola · 10/05/2025 19:52

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)

There is no such thing as a non biological born woman and you make yourself sound so silly by saying it. Yes, I am laughing at you.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 10/05/2025 20:15

PoisedRubyLion · 02/05/2025 22:59

Right to privacy and Goodwin?

Your sex isn't private information.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 10/05/2025 20:21

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 14:01

@Datun Another uneducated comment, you really need to research before posting Both Cis and Trans exist and they are widely used in scientific contexts. Why dont you actually do a little research. They identify the differences between Cis gender a woman born as the gender they identify as and Trans Woman a woman born with the gender they don't identify as, I'd explain in detail but I doubt you'd have the intellectual brain power to understand as people like you believe only in social constructs, and unaware of the objective reality due to how narrow minded you are

Woman is a universal term Period

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)
Intersex Woman

It doesn't matter which you are these are all woman and you need to get over that fact

No Tran woman wants to be a Cis Woman, No one wants your identify get over yourself you really aren't that special, GROW UP

We don't need the word "cis" because there is only one type of woman. The female kind.

Trans women are a subcategory of men.

RoseHedgehog · 11/05/2025 00:05

Is this Data Bill amendment likely to progress soon?

Datun · 11/05/2025 00:29

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 14:01

@Datun Another uneducated comment, you really need to research before posting Both Cis and Trans exist and they are widely used in scientific contexts. Why dont you actually do a little research. They identify the differences between Cis gender a woman born as the gender they identify as and Trans Woman a woman born with the gender they don't identify as, I'd explain in detail but I doubt you'd have the intellectual brain power to understand as people like you believe only in social constructs, and unaware of the objective reality due to how narrow minded you are

Woman is a universal term Period

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)
Intersex Woman

It doesn't matter which you are these are all woman and you need to get over that fact

No Tran woman wants to be a Cis Woman, No one wants your identify get over yourself you really aren't that special, GROW UP

It's a little galling to be accused of a lack of education by someone who is a complete stranger to punctuation of any description.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 04:47

TruthInTransition · 05/05/2025 07:13

It's deeply unfair and dangerous to judge an entire community based on the actions of a few individuals. When someone commits a crime, they—and only they—should be held responsible. No one blames all cis women for the crimes of one (Nicola Murray for Child Abuse) to be like-minded, so why is it acceptable to do that to trans women?

Weaponizing the actions of a few people (some of whom may not even be genuinely trans) to smear thousands of innocent trans women who are simply trying to live their lives is nothing short of bigotry. It's the same flawed logic that has fueled racism, sexism, and homophobia for generations.

If you're truly concerned about justice and safety, focus on the individuals committing the crimes—not on tarring an entire group. Blanket assumptions like yours aren’t protecting anyone; they’re just spreading fear and hate.

Trans women are not a threat to cis women. Bigotry, misinformation, and scapegoating are the real threats to a fair and compassionate society.

What’s worse is that anti-trans activists are now pushing for our birth sex to be listed on official documents, which would effectively out trans women in every public setting—at work, at the doctor’s, when travelling, even at a checkout counter. This is a direct violation of our right to privacy and safety. The Equality Act exists to protect us from exactly this kind of discrimination, yet some are working to undermine it under the guise of 'safety'—while actually putting us in harm’s way. Heres a rhetorical question and try to be honest with yourselves

Let me ask a rhetorical question—and I urge you to answer it honestly in your heart:

How many of you have ever truly known, spoken to, or spent time with a trans woman who simply wants to live her life like any other woman? How many of you genuinely understand the emotional, social, and physical toll we endure just to exist peacefully in a world that questions our humanity at every turn?

The word “woman” is not a threat. It is not a battleground. It is a shared identity that reflects a lived experience—and trans women, like all women, navigate life through a lens shaped by society, by gender, and often by adversity. The fear some people express over trans women using the term "woman" reveals not a concern for safety but a deep-rooted discomfort with inclusion and equality. That discomfort is not our burden to carry.

This widespread misunderstanding needs to be addressed clearly: when trans women identify as women, we are not claiming to be cisgender. We are not attempting to erase biological distinctions, nor are we trying to appropriate someone else’s identity. We are simply stating the truth of our own lived realities. We are trans women—and we are proud of that fact.

We are not asking for special treatment. We are demanding basic human decency. The right to live authentically. The right to be recognized accurately. The right not to be misgendered or dismissed because of ignorance or prejudice.

To consistently refer to us as men is not only deeply disrespectful—it is discriminatory. It is a conscious choice to invalidate our identities and erase our humanity. If you refuse to acknowledge us as trans women, you are not just disagreeing—you are actively engaging in dehumanization.

This isn’t a matter of opinion. This is about dignity, safety, and truth. If your advocacy for women’s rights excludes trans women, then it is not truly about equality—it is about gatekeeping. And if your language reduces us to something we are not, then it’s not just wrong. It’s dangerous.

A just society is one that listens, learns, and evolves. It doesn’t cling to outdated fears; it builds a future where everyone—cis, trans, or otherwise—can live with respect, safety, and equality.

As MALES, transwomen ARE a threat to women, @TruthInTransition . That is why we have male and female spaces. We know not all males are a threat to females, but we keep all males out - for safety, as well as dignity and privacy. Your entire post is typical selfish Male Pattern male privilege. Advocating for women necessitates excluding all males. That, includes transwomen. You are not a woman. You are not female. You are a male. This is about safety, dignity and truth for the female sex. And no, you don't get to colonise and water down our definition, as the oppressed sex class. You're a male. And you will never, ever, ever, ever qualify as a woman or female. You don't have the shared experience of growing from a girl into a woman. Of having periods. Of being catcalled. Of being sexualised. As a male, you DON'T have the shared LIVED EXPERIENCE of being female.

Lastly, it isn't 'outing' you as you out yourself. None of you pass. No matter how delusional you are. The fact you think this 'outs' you shows the delusion.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 04:55

TruthInTransition · 05/05/2025 07:34

Your definition of “woman” may be based on a narrow, biological framework—but womanhood, like all human identity, is far more nuanced than anatomy.

You claim the word “woman” refers only to “adult human females,” as if that ends the conversation. But definitions evolve with society. Language is not static—it reflects how we understand people, experiences, and humanity. Once, “marriage” only meant a union between a man and a woman. Once, “voter” excluded women entirely. Should we have stopped evolving then too?

Trans women are not “twisting” words—we are living our truths. Recognizing trans women as women doesn’t erase or override anyone else’s identity. It expands our understanding of womanhood to include the diverse ways it is lived and experienced. That is not an insult—it is progress.

You say it’s “insulting” for trans women to be included in womanhood. But what’s truly insulting is the suggestion that trans women don’t deserve dignity, don’t deserve recognition, don’t deserve safety—because we don’t fit your personal criteria. That’s not about facts. That’s about fear.

The reality is this: trans women exist. We live as women, we are treated as women by society, and we face the same misogyny, threats, and discrimination—often compounded by our trans identity.

What you’re advocating isn’t about preserving language—it’s about exclusion. And exclusion, under the guise of “shared reality,” has always been a tool of oppression. It was used to keep Black people out of schools. To keep women out of voting booths. And now, it’s being used to keep trans women from being seen, heard, and safe.

You don’t get to decide who is or isn’t valid ANYMORE! based on your discomfort. Your beliefs do not override our existence.

Trans women are not erasing anyone. We are not stealing anything. We are demanding to live, fully and authentically, in a world that has tried again and again to deny us that right.

So no—we’re not twisting words. We’re speaking truth. And if that truth threatens your worldview, maybe it’s your worldview that needs to change.

Recognizing trans women as women doesn’t erase or override anyone else’s identity.

Yes it does. Just as recognising Rachel Dolezal as an African American over-rides the actual lived experience and oppression that African Americans face.

It expands our understanding of womanhood to include the diverse ways it is lived and experienced. That is not an insult—it is progress.

Only a male could be so arrogant, so entitled, and so utterly offensive to say recognising males as women is 'progress'.

You don't get to colonise the word woman and enter our safe spaces for a fetish. You DON'T get to over-ride our language, our rights and our spaces. We say NO. You're a male. A man. A member of the oppressor sex class. Just as a fox does not get to identify as a hen and enter the hen house, you don't get to identify into our oppressed sex class when you have no actual lived experience as girl growing into a woman. Your posts reek of Male Privilege and Male Entitlement, and you, are the reason we are pushing back. We are telling you no. NO. That's it and that's final.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:04

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 09:41

Were you there? This isn’t what I saw at all.

You clearly didn't see any coverage of it.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:10

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 11:14

Well yes - I was going to add to my post that I would’ve felt unhappy if I’d seen that sign and challenged them, but didn’t want to derail this thread. The police did a good job I thought. FWIW I HATE the term cis. The people I care about know I’ll have their backs, I read these threads occasionally to see the challenges they’re up against. Probably shouldn’t, it’s upsetting. I’m not radical just an issue very close to me.

What about the challenges females are up against? You don't learn about those from reading these threads? Or you disregard them because you simply don't care about the oppressed sex class?

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:13

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 11:22

Yes I was there and didn’t see that sign or anything aggressive.

It's so convenient that there has been soooooo much coverage of the numerous vile, bigoted and hateful signs, as well as men urinating on feminist statues, in papers, in print, on camera and on tv, and you conveniently 'didn't see it'. I call bullshit. You must have walked around with your eyes glued shut.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:16

WaffleParty · 05/05/2025 11:26

Beautifully written and well-considered.
Unfortunately it will not be well received on Mumsnet, but be assured there are plenty of cis women in the real world who understand that trans women pose no threat and deserve support and understanding.
Brave to post on here!

Any MALE, poses a threat to women, @WaffleParty , no matter how brainwashed you are to think a fully intact male in a dress, like a wolf in sheeps clothing, suddenly becomes no threat to women, because he has re-labelled himself. How foolish of you. Especially considering there are actual transwomen in jail for RAPING women. Numerous transwomen in jail. So you're clearly ignorant of the facts.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:17

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 11:28

It wasn’t a lovely day out, I was there for hours and didn’t see any of that so couldn’t challenge. I wouldn’t agree that all are lovely, as I’ve already explained I was there quietly supporting those I care about. Sadly, I don’t feel comfortable saying more due to the vitriol shown here. I’ve already had to report one post which was vulgar and personal, though the poster knows nothing about me.

It's a shame you can't support females and our needs to safety, privacy and dignity. But of course it's all about the Mens Rights movement.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:20

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 11:45

I agree with you, seems I’m getting a hard time here!

Oh yes, those poor men getting a hard time from women defending their human rights! How very dare we speak up and defend our rights! How dare we! Poooooor men.

Helleofabore · 11/05/2025 05:22

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 14:01

@Datun Another uneducated comment, you really need to research before posting Both Cis and Trans exist and they are widely used in scientific contexts. Why dont you actually do a little research. They identify the differences between Cis gender a woman born as the gender they identify as and Trans Woman a woman born with the gender they don't identify as, I'd explain in detail but I doubt you'd have the intellectual brain power to understand as people like you believe only in social constructs, and unaware of the objective reality due to how narrow minded you are

Woman is a universal term Period

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)
Intersex Woman

It doesn't matter which you are these are all woman and you need to get over that fact

No Tran woman wants to be a Cis Woman, No one wants your identify get over yourself you really aren't that special, GROW UP

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)”
“Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)”
“Intersex Woman”

I am rather surprised that you pulled this offensive whopper out while claiming datun to be the one who is uneducated.

Your logic is flawed here. And it is offensively so.

The category you have termed ‘intersex woman’ relates to whom? Because all people with differences of sex development (they are not ‘intersex’) are either male or female people. They can be reliably categorised into male or female with testing using modern techniques. Which means they are in the ‘biological’ category.

Yet, you have offensively claimed with your grouping that they are not biologically ‘women’ or ‘men’.

But either way, your attempt to force the word woman to be a descriptor for any male person is incorrect and always was. Woman is a noun that was a clear category description for human female people. It never referred to male people. Attempts to forcibly change the meaning has not succeeded.

The noun for a male who holds the philosophical belief that they are in any way ‘female’ is the category label ‘transwoman’. This language fuckwittery in adding the space is only a political campaign and it hasn’t changed the meaning of the word in reality. Obviously, the space was meant to make people believe that a male person could be a woman. With ‘trans’ being falsely treated as an adjective with the same grouping as tall or bald. But the logic doesn’t work.

Any attempt to include the opposite sex in the word makes the word completely meaningless.

Your post was a lesson in how to make words meaningless.

FlakyCritic · 11/05/2025 05:23

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 05/05/2025 11:59

Ok I’ll leave you lot to argue it out amongst yourselves as I’m in tears here due to the comments aimed at me. I came on Mumsnet. I’m just a mum. You know when you support and love your children? Remember that? Well that’s me. Everything we’ve been through, I find it insulting to suggest I wasn’t observing. That is the whole reason I went. I know the person I care for inside out, and those they choose as friends. I wanted to view the wider community. I purposely didn’t march, in case it was too “hardcore”. I went straight to Parliament Square. I am not part of “rent-a-crowd” or on a jolly day out. The flowers comment was an easy target for sarcasm. The police were turned towards the crowds, and there were plenty of independent observers. I’m sorry I didn’t see the sign you refer to, I saw plenty of others whilst searching for the group, a lot had very moving personal messages. I would just implore you all to treat people with kindness and compassion.

How about you treat females with kindness and compassion? And defend OUR rights?

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2025 05:28

CIS

It's all sciencey and scientificalised and everything. That's us proved wrong and no mistake! I'm so glad, I always thought it meant Co-Op Insurance Services.

Helleofabore · 11/05/2025 05:49

TotallyExhaustingRighteousFanatics · 10/05/2025 14:01

@Datun Another uneducated comment, you really need to research before posting Both Cis and Trans exist and they are widely used in scientific contexts. Why dont you actually do a little research. They identify the differences between Cis gender a woman born as the gender they identify as and Trans Woman a woman born with the gender they don't identify as, I'd explain in detail but I doubt you'd have the intellectual brain power to understand as people like you believe only in social constructs, and unaware of the objective reality due to how narrow minded you are

Woman is a universal term Period

Cis - Woman (Biological Born)
Trans - Woman (Non Biological Born)
Intersex Woman

It doesn't matter which you are these are all woman and you need to get over that fact

No Tran woman wants to be a Cis Woman, No one wants your identify get over yourself you really aren't that special, GROW UP

The other significant issue with ‘cis’ is that its very usage forcibly categorises someone into having a philosophical belief that they may or may not have. It is very problematic for those who do not have a ‘gender identity’.

In fact, to extrapolate it out : if ‘cis’ excludes those who do not ‘identify as having a gender aligned with the sex they were born’ then the trans gender community would be fucking huge.

Because it would include everyone who doesn’t believe in gender identities at all. Not through deliberately self-categorisation as ‘agender’ but simply through rejection of anything to do with that philosophical belief that is the foundation for gender identity and the theories that shape those identities.

Because, the only commonality with all those claiming a transgender identity is philosophical belief. Not a medical 'problem' according to transgender people and academics and medical professionals who are transgender and shaping public awareness. No scientific and robustly established material facts.

So only philosophical belief.

And I would be pleased to know just what other philosophical belief should be given the power to shape a whole populations language to the extent that we are seeing these language changes being demanded?

If someone who was religious called me a non-believer, I cannot dispute that. Because it reflects my reality. I don’t believe in their religion so in their religion centred language that is what I am. It could be considered neutral in that respect. It doesn’t change my belief.

As an example, labelling me ‘cis’ is not neutral. It falsely categorises my beliefs and is not a neutral act at all. Calling me ‘cis’ coercively forces me to believe in gender identity and the theories that are foundational to them.

That is not forgetting that in recent years it has also become clear that the term ‘cis woman’ has been used to incorporate male people with differences of sex development. Those who have masculinised using the testosterone their bodies produces from testes.

I believe that happened because of that other problematic phrase ‘assigned female at birth’ . It is problematic because it too was unsuccessfully repurposed in another false attempt to support a philosophical belief as being something more than just belief.

The term cis woman was said to mean ‘a person assigned female at birth who identified as the gender they were born’ or ‘identified as a woman’. It is quite interesting really as you see the not subtle political manoeuvring in these artificial word changes.

Either way, it was a scientific term that has been wrongly repurposed. It was never meant to describe human belief systems and it fails dismally in that role.

But do keep cracking on with attempting to bully others into agreeing with you. How is that working for you?

gingerelephant · 11/05/2025 05:53

People are either male or female at birth that’s biology. The courts have backed biology so you remain male or female throughout your life. I do not acknowledge the term cis, I am female , I don’t need another label as female describes me.

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2025 06:06

I think these words by Helleofabore bear repeating:

As an example, labelling me ‘cis’ is not neutral. It falsely categorises my beliefs and is not a neutral act at all. Calling me ‘cis’ coercively forces me to believe in gender identity and the theories that are foundational to them.

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