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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Nursery Pride face painting

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insomniaclife · 26/04/2025 12:55

Went to pick up three year old from nursery.
Staff and all kids in her class had rainbows painted on their faces.
“nice rainbows” I said. Staff said “we’re celebrating Pride”.

Is this normal? The timing seems odd - it’s not Pride week is it?

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MissyPants · 27/04/2025 17:13

It's not lobbying for BDSM., kink, sexual desire & fetish tho is it? The general concept of PRIDE is diverse sexualities - lesbian, gay, bi, trans. What do you think of when it comes to PRIDE? Probably not BDSM, kink, fetishes etc. I was just highlighting what is inclusive when it comes to the PRIDE movement. I suspect where schools are concerned the learning would be age appropriate, the basics - recognising it is ok to have same sex parents, be gay, lesbian.
I am not saying to learn about BDSM etc as that would be highly inappropriate.
I also said in your quoted post that I was referring to the movement in general, and wasn't focusing on a nursery environment, which I have put my hands up to.

SirChenjins · 27/04/2025 18:03

Trans isn’t a sexuality - and while pride might have started out just as a celebration of lesbian, gay and bisexual sexualities, those days are long gone. You can’t pick and choose the bits of the rainbow.

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 27/04/2025 21:05

MissyPants · 27/04/2025 17:13

It's not lobbying for BDSM., kink, sexual desire & fetish tho is it? The general concept of PRIDE is diverse sexualities - lesbian, gay, bi, trans. What do you think of when it comes to PRIDE? Probably not BDSM, kink, fetishes etc. I was just highlighting what is inclusive when it comes to the PRIDE movement. I suspect where schools are concerned the learning would be age appropriate, the basics - recognising it is ok to have same sex parents, be gay, lesbian.
I am not saying to learn about BDSM etc as that would be highly inappropriate.
I also said in your quoted post that I was referring to the movement in general, and wasn't focusing on a nursery environment, which I have put my hands up to.

Why teach three year olds about sexualities at all? But the point about pride being a movement and BDSM being part of that is if nursery are celebrating Pride, as they were, then you are introducing children specifically to the movement, BDSM and all. The BDSM is also introduced in books directed at young children like ‘Grandpas Pride’. The publisher defended the presence of a character dressed in fetish gear on the basis that that is what young children would see at pride. That is Queer theory in operation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-66607475

An illustration from the book

Grandad's Pride publisher defends kids' book showing man in leathers

Publisher Andersen Press spoke out after a Hull pre-school removed the book from its shelves.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-66607475

ladygindiva · 27/04/2025 21:17

afuckinggoat · 26/04/2025 14:34

This thread is wild!!
It comes across as really homophobic. It is totally right that children should be exposed to all different types of families from the start. Rainbow face paint is completely harmless.

Previous commenters sneeringly saying things like, "If there are gay parents, they wouldn't be parents without assistance" is actually harmful. Do you have the same distain for straight couples who have IVF?

I'm a gender critical feminist. As a group, we're facing harsh criticism on our beliefs more now than ever. Shit like this does not make us look good.

Go outside and have some fresh air.

I am also a GC feminist and I agree with all of this

Bobbingtons · 27/04/2025 22:07

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 27/04/2025 09:21

You should read up on Foucault, on Rubin, on Califa and on Butler. All the founding ‘fathers’ of queer theory. And yes everyone in their own words explains how queer theory means that children should be sexually available to adults. May be also open your eyes to paedophilia slogans like ‘love is love’, and talk of ‘cross generational sex’, plus the generalised push to lower age of consent and the wish of queer organisations to talk about sex with very young children and expose them to sexualised materials - of which there are huge numbers of examples.

It you want to go down that route you should include criticism of feminism because people like de Beauvoir was one of the signatures on the letter calling for the removal of the age of consent in France and Greer wrote a whole book about her sexual attraction to pre pubescent boys trying to justify it through a lens of feminist discourse.

sashh · 28/04/2025 05:52

I think face painting should be about something the child can explain if asked. So 'oh you look like cat, do you like cats?' a small child can answer that.

Unfortunately things do become tainted symbols, the obvious one is the swastika. Yes it is symbol of positivity for Hindus, Buddhists, and Jains but, even though the Nazi one was inverted but I doubt you would get away with painting it on a child to show you know it is Diwali.

Bigfatsunandclouds · 28/04/2025 08:04

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 27/04/2025 21:05

Why teach three year olds about sexualities at all? But the point about pride being a movement and BDSM being part of that is if nursery are celebrating Pride, as they were, then you are introducing children specifically to the movement, BDSM and all. The BDSM is also introduced in books directed at young children like ‘Grandpas Pride’. The publisher defended the presence of a character dressed in fetish gear on the basis that that is what young children would see at pride. That is Queer theory in operation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-66607475

I agree with you about queer theory and it's insidious in LGBT literature and teaching. Lots of LGB people don't agree with this and are actively campaigning to remove it. You can't tar all LGBT people with promoting this.

They are not teaching the children about sexualities at this age are they? They won't be going into details but sharing that families can be 2 women, 2 men etc...many children will have same sex parents and family, they are showing tolerance so same sex attracted people are not othered.

Bigfatsunandclouds · 28/04/2025 08:07

SirChenjins · 27/04/2025 18:03

Trans isn’t a sexuality - and while pride might have started out just as a celebration of lesbian, gay and bisexual sexualities, those days are long gone. You can’t pick and choose the bits of the rainbow.

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I disagree, my lesbian friends are GC and they still celebrate pride and paint rainbows on their children. They don't want the pride symbol hijacked by extremists.

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 28/04/2025 08:18

Bigfatsunandclouds · 28/04/2025 08:04

I agree with you about queer theory and it's insidious in LGBT literature and teaching. Lots of LGB people don't agree with this and are actively campaigning to remove it. You can't tar all LGBT people with promoting this.

They are not teaching the children about sexualities at this age are they? They won't be going into details but sharing that families can be 2 women, 2 men etc...many children will have same sex parents and family, they are showing tolerance so same sex attracted people are not othered.

This nursery was not just teaching about different types of families. It was celebrating Pride and that means they were introducing children to a political movement that, as a PP has pointed out, includes BDSM, fetish, sexuality. It doesn’t matter whether they actually mentioned those things in the nursery, they were teaching ‘this political movement is to be celebrated and includes you’.

AliasGrace47 · 04/09/2025 03:15

MalagaNights · 27/04/2025 08:49

I hate to be the one who breaks this to you:

Not all religious groups think God loves gay people.

And they are free to believe that.

Which ones are you referring to? Christianity teaches universal love, for one.

AliasGrace47 · 04/09/2025 03:20

MalagaNights · 27/04/2025 13:23

There are many people who would disagree that the promotion of lgbtqi sexuality to young children will help their mental health.

I'd suggest this is terrible for children's mental health and young people's mental health is declining as promotion of these beliefs increases.

With lgbtqi identifying kids having the worst mental health as you say, despite society being more accepting than ever.

There is zero evidence that promotion of lgbtqi improves mental health and lots of evidence suggesting it is undermining it.

You only have to meet some of the young people caught up in this movement to see the devastating impact. They are frequently confused irrational avoidant and fearful with a list of mental health diagnoses.

Yet this is all still sold as kindness.

Most gay people are normal apart from being gay and are quite happy with kids being normal and seeing normality. Nirmality isn't bad. They don't need celebrating, or 3 year olds to have their face painted to support their cause.

The people who want this want there to be no normal.
That's the Q.

'Normal apart from being gay' - I kind of see what you mean. But I think we need to draw a distinction between unusual but harmless things like being gay or gnc, and then things like trans, mental health problems which are (homophobically imo) being lumped in with being gay.

'Seeing normality' - presumably you mean this kind of weird Pride event rather than gay couples existing and coming into contact naturally with children (or having their own ofc). Or would you argue that would be 'seeing abnormality'? And that gay-identifying teens are 'abnormal'?

I agree that the queer promotion is v harmful but I don't think using 'abnormal' about lgb people is very helpful. I know you're probs using it in the statistical sense, but the connotations are still arguably negative

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 04/09/2025 07:41

This thread seems to have been resurrected. Since it was previously live there has been a ruling between fair cop and the police that police must not take part in Pride because it is political and doing so means they are taking sides on a political matter. This also makes it clear that schools cannot take part in Pride as they too must not promote a political matter.

I terms of ‘normality’, I interpreted PP as meaning being gay is being normal but by specifically celebrating it you are telling children it isn’t.

AliasGrace47 · 04/09/2025 14:23

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 04/09/2025 07:41

This thread seems to have been resurrected. Since it was previously live there has been a ruling between fair cop and the police that police must not take part in Pride because it is political and doing so means they are taking sides on a political matter. This also makes it clear that schools cannot take part in Pride as they too must not promote a political matter.

I terms of ‘normality’, I interpreted PP as meaning being gay is being normal but by specifically celebrating it you are telling children it isn’t.

That's a really good ruling.

If that's whash@MalagaNights meant, totally agree. 'Gay people are normal apart from being gay' made me doubtful, though.

Bobbymoore123 · 04/09/2025 14:55

PersephoneSeethes · 26/04/2025 13:34

So you have a story time about different types of families. The nursery doesn’t have to participate in political activism.

Before pride and wider acceptance, being gay was illegal. feel free to support bigotry but a bit of face paint doesn't seem like a big deal in comparison.

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 04/09/2025 16:26

Bobbymoore123 · 04/09/2025 14:55

Before pride and wider acceptance, being gay was illegal. feel free to support bigotry but a bit of face paint doesn't seem like a big deal in comparison.

You know Pride is now a homophobic organisation that denies same sex attraction right?

PersephoneSeethes · 04/09/2025 17:40

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 04/09/2025 16:26

You know Pride is now a homophobic organisation that denies same sex attraction right?

Quite. How many big, official Trans/ Queer exclusive events were on this Summer? It was somewhat telling.

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