I'm quite interested in the bit about Dr Upton facing the wall when changing and it making him sad - as referenced by pp.
Dr U said by habit they’d face the Corner to make sure that no one got the impression that Dr U was looking at others. They said they “felt sad” they had to do this/be so careful. Even though that’s how average women behave in CRs
It is absolutely my experience that that is exactly how women normally behave in open changing rooms. Gettting changed with as little exposure as possible, and absolutely not wanting to look at anyone else. Women are skilled at getting into/out of a bra and into/out of a swimming costume without taking their jumper off. We are conditioned into shame about our bodies - both top and bottom half.
I suspect it's just completely different to the behaviour of men - particularly those who have taken part in sports activities at school or university, which Dr Upton's hockey photos would suggest he has. Men need have no shame in being topless for one thing, and given they use urinals regularly, they are well used to exposing their private parts in a way that no woman is. The trope of the mens changing room is one of everyone letting it all hang out - definitely not avoiding eye contact and facing the wall.
It makes me wonder if Dr Upton's expectation was that behaviour in the women's changing room would be just like the mens, and therefore assumed that people's avoidance of eye contact etc was all about him.
A bit of narcissism obviously, but also just symptomatic of the fact that men do not/can not understand women's experiences and how they shape our behaviours.