This complexity has gained attention of activists who wish to deconstruct the two sexes, claiming that people with DSDs are not male or female. But humans are a gonochoric species: individuals are either male or female throughout their entire life cycle. People with DSDs are not new sexes (this would require a third gamete type), and they are not both sexes
Either male or female.
Even the dictionary definition gets it.
Woman: Adult human female of or denoting the sex who bears eggs.
'Denoting'
'Eggs'
TRAs have been going out of their way for years to try and include DSDs under their ever expanding umbrella. They've even tried to claim that a trans ID stems from a DSD.
Women addressing these issues (for bloody years), are not strangers to this technique.
Every human is either male or female. And no, doctors are not stumped as to which.
As for whether it's kind to discuss it, that's not really relevant, in my opinion. If we don't discuss it, people are going to continue to pretend that two obvious men, unfairly battering women, might actually not be men.
Yet again, take it up with transactivists.
They are the ones who, in the teeth of helpless opposition from the very people they're trying to co-op, have dragged DSDs into it.