NHS workers ‘filmed having sex at children’s hospital’

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I suppose this is bringing your whole self to work.

Defending his lifestyle, the OnlyFans user posted last month: “I will not be made to feel any different just because I record my sex.”

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/bfc9a121-b58c-4555-bb03-1925ad0defa3?shareToken=e2a30f39b65b46398285cd599dd7f81a

Wasn't there one doing his thing in a us senate room?
No where is safe from pornification.

Some things are meant to be imaginary, fictional, stories, fantasies. The lack of boundaries between reality and fiction and the abuse of "bringing things to life" is really causing trouble.

Bloody hell, didn't this kind of thing used to mean immediate dismissal?

It's literally 'gross' misconduct.

From the title i thought it was in the public bit of the hospital not the staff room. Sex has always happened at workplaces, think the Scottish Sun is sensationalising the story surprisingly.

Agree the level of entitlement and delusion is genuinely astonishing. Come to work, do your job, and fuck off home. Don't watch (tractor) porn in meetings, don't wank in the toilets, don't film yourself shagging in the changing rooms.

Remember those old fashioned posters of rules in the swimming pool, including 'no heavy petting'? I think we're actually going to need to get the equivalent to go up in workplaces to tell people all the obviously inappropriate shit they shouldn't be doing.

We don't all watch porn.

To think this was only discovered because another member of staff recognised the room when they were watching the video.

Our society is rotten

Does anyone remember the NSPCC latex wanker? He made amateur porn in the toilets, tagging the charity. Owen Jones said critics were homophobic.

Oh yes.

SSUK saying this. They're not wrong. Boundaries are there for a reason.

https://x.com/safeschoolsuk/status/1771283598324138496?s=46&t=WHoOZZ_3Kv5G6-FyQuvE0LQ

What the fuck? You are actually defending someone making porn at a children's hospital?

Take a minute and think things through.

IF sex has always happened in workplaces, that really doesn't make it ok. In the staff room?! Where staff go to relax while they're on a break? 'Oh excuse me, can I just squeeze past you two humping to get to the coffee machine? Oh sorry I've just scalded your dick with my hot chocolate.' Yeah, sounds totally ok. And to be fair, even this daft, boundary-less, porn-addled, narcissistic pair don't seem to have been at it in the staff room, reports suggest it was a changing room, which hopefully then was at least locked but who knows? Regardless, totally inappropriate. You're at work to work.

I would hope the police are involved.

I've had friends with kids in this hospital, going through the worst times of their lives. If staff are unable to observe the most basic standards of social decency they should be working in the hate crime sex shop, not here.

I would hope the police are involved.

They'll probably investigate you for complaining.

I've got til April!

We’ve all watched porn
Actually, no. We haven't 'all watched porn'. I've always thought it was exploitative and grim.

Shagging at work
Filming it
Making it publicly available

What the actual fuck?

working in the hate crime sex shop

I've got a Fatboy Slim earworm now.

"Check it out now, the Hate Crime Sex shop,
Right about now, the Hate Crime Sex shop..."

Perhaps you could be on a new slide, Arabella?

Hang on a sec, according to that article this hasn't actually been proven and so far it's all rumours. Maybe we should wait for facts to be established before getting the proverbial pitchforks out.

Facts schmacts - you can use facts to prove anything that might be remotely true.

@RainSodOff yep, I have a feeling this is going to be "investigated" by the NHS then nothing will actually happen unless patients' parents/carers kick off. It already says on the BBC article that no evidence has been found. Which sounds suspect considering the video has been shared and seen by staff.

@Froodwithatowel summed it up v well. It's the lowering of boundaries that's encouraging more of this to happen. No one cares about your sex life in private but to not only do this at your workplace but to film it and upload it to a porn site in a place where sick and sadly also dying children are being treated is beyond the pale.

Not defending it no, but from the first comments I thought it was in the public part of a hospital. Obviously it shouldn't happen but it's naive to think it never does. And there's no way it's putting children at risk of harm which is what the premise of this post is.

What’s the proportion of male/females who have done this in your organisation? (I can guess who it mostly is…)

It should still be a dismissal offence. Sex at work (whether or not filmed) is not a perk of the job.

If it's true, it's absolutely a dismissal offense I would have thought - gross misconduct.

@crumpet but how does dismissal benefit the public when it occurred in a private space. You could go down the public image route and have the junior doctor's GMC number but who benefits? I think an investigation into both of their conduct in practice is needed if nothing is found then that's the end of it. Would it be different if porn of the two of them had been filmed elsewhere?

The world is changing, peoples opinions are largely changing (even if yours aren't) the pure number on onlyfans, social media etc shows this.

Yea I wouldn't do it, but I'm also not offended by other people doing it