Make an argument then...
I think Labour's attitude to gender is disasterous for women. Particularly vulnerable women in refuges, rape support centres, care homes, hospital wards and prisons. It also bad news for the children in care who have been over-represented in the accelerated, affirmation treaments paths for gender issues.
If you're middle class, and Labour is the party of the middle class now, then you can probably say I'm alright Jack and vote Labour. Pat yourself on the back for being a good person without considering the appaulling affect on women a Labour government will be.
If you think the Labour Party will be better for women I would like to hear how. The specifics please. I have voted Labour many times in the past and will no doubt do so again. I am open to changing my mind not least because the Tories have been pretty usless and need a turn in oppostion. The trouble is if you cannot accept the biological definition of a woman you cannot protect women. And then there is all the other identity politics divisive stuff and the antsemitism.
The problem with this country is too many people treat politics like a football team. My dad always voted Labour, never Tories, I can't think for myself, etc etc. And when pressed they say empty things like:
"People supporting Labour are woman haters?
Eh?"
AND
"Any woman who believes that the Tories are on their side is deluded. They’re desperate and saying what they need to, to whoever will fall for it. "
Without any actual facts or argument. Then they say things like, "well I can't help you".
Well you can help by explaining. Explain how a party that will not define women biologically and in the face of all the WPATH evidence this week still wants to persue unthinkingly the same policies they had last year on conversion therapy and transition, can possibly be of use to the women it can define??
Explain why you think Kemi Badenoch or Jackie Doyle Price or Nick Fletcher or Miriam Cates or Liz Truss are faking their interest in women's rights to safe spaces. Because hand on heart I have seen no evidence of that whatever else you might think of them.
I have read this though - about how many of Angela Eagle's donors are deeply connected to gender ideology campaigns. https://gendercriticalwoman.blog/2023/06/22/angela-eagle-mp/