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justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:46

There is very little information to go on in the report linked. It's also a very well known fact that descriptions are very difficult to give. A 5ft 10 woman wouldn't be so unusual - I doubt I would be able to say whether someone was 5ft 10 or 6ft 3.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:47

RavingStone · 05/07/2023 14:38

I'm interested in sex, not gender ID.

Gender ID is only generally discussed here because self ID has been forced on us.

I've yet to see compelling evidence that a declaration of gender ID changes a male human's propensity to commit crimes.

Sex can be related to gender though and many people appreciate that simplicity. You cannot always reliably judge someones sex by looking at a person as though. I've met more cis women who I thought where Trans than the other way around

Chersfrozenface · 05/07/2023 14:50

justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:46

There is very little information to go on in the report linked. It's also a very well known fact that descriptions are very difficult to give. A 5ft 10 woman wouldn't be so unusual - I doubt I would be able to say whether someone was 5ft 10 or 6ft 3.

I wouldn't have any trouble if they were in close proximity to me. A person who is 1 foot taller than me (and I know how much a foot is) will be 6 foot 3. A person who is 6 inches taller than me will be 5 foot 9.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 05/07/2023 14:50

2 perps, one described as 5ft 10 other as 6ft 3. Most people could reasonably estimate 5 inches different between people so if taller was 5ft 10 that reduces the 2nd to 5ft 5. The majority of 15 year old boys will be taller than this so it's not an understandable error in these circumstances. The heights won't be significantly out

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:51

justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:46

There is very little information to go on in the report linked. It's also a very well known fact that descriptions are very difficult to give. A 5ft 10 woman wouldn't be so unusual - I doubt I would be able to say whether someone was 5ft 10 or 6ft 3.

There is always the possibility it could be a Trans and Cis woman one as the main offender, another an accomplice. Honestly 2 Trans women in such a small area is already very unlikely.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:51

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:51

There is always the possibility it could be a Trans and Cis woman one as the main offender, another an accomplice. Honestly 2 Trans women in such a small area is already very unlikely.

Anyway sorry this is a bad take it's worth waiting to see what happens and keep a close eye on it

BringMeTea · 05/07/2023 14:52

By cis women you mean women, right?

FlyingNorth · 05/07/2023 14:53

Honestly 2 Trans women in such a small area is already very unlikely.

Burgess Hill is up the road from Brighton. It's really not that unlikely.

Dumbo12 · 05/07/2023 14:53

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:51

There is always the possibility it could be a Trans and Cis woman one as the main offender, another an accomplice. Honestly 2 Trans women in such a small area is already very unlikely.

It is entirely possible that the offenders have met specifically to offend. One is reported to have an accent from hundreds of miles from the site of the offence.

Clymene · 05/07/2023 14:53

Most 15 year old boys are 5ft 9 +. I'm sure he victim could tell whether his assailants were taller than him.

Supersimkin2 · 05/07/2023 14:54

BBC. Really?

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:54

FlyingNorth · 05/07/2023 14:53

Honestly 2 Trans women in such a small area is already very unlikely.

Burgess Hill is up the road from Brighton. It's really not that unlikely.

True. I'm just gonna wait on it for a bit there is so little info available at the moment.

Ouchee · 05/07/2023 14:55

Quiverer · 05/07/2023 13:42

That's the recollection of an injured and shocked boy. She may well have been quite a bit shorter, and of course she may have been wearing stacked shoes.

the 6'3 attacker was in trainers. and a crop top.

DevilinaCardigan · 05/07/2023 14:55

I wonder what the goal is here? By the police not accurately reporting pertinent details about the perpetrators, how can the public actually help? Or stay away from the possible perps.

I think there’s a push towards blurring the lines between male and female crimes. Then the need for single sex spaces is no longer necessary as women are as violent and dangerous as men.
(adjusts tin foil hat)

Supersimkin2 · 05/07/2023 14:55

And the avail info can’t be trusted.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 14:55

Dumbo12 · 05/07/2023 14:53

It is entirely possible that the offenders have met specifically to offend. One is reported to have an accent from hundreds of miles from the site of the offence.

People carry accents that's not really proof of anything haha. I have a midlands accent and live in Yorkshire. I don't know a single one of my friends who has a Yorkshire accent

justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:56

Chersfrozenface · 05/07/2023 14:50

I wouldn't have any trouble if they were in close proximity to me. A person who is 1 foot taller than me (and I know how much a foot is) will be 6 foot 3. A person who is 6 inches taller than me will be 5 foot 9.

Well, what we do know from the report is that the 15 year old was in a very stressful situation, and not just standing there. It's a fact that different people will give a very different witness description of the same person. In a moving, stressful situation, I doubt I would have much awareness of how much taller someone is of me that clearly.

And if someone has reported a crime as being females, do you expect it to be reported as "posing as female.." when there is no actual evidence that they are posing as female? That's what I'm reading in this thread.

FlyingNorth · 05/07/2023 14:56

Come on, we all know what's going on here.

Jarnsaxa · 05/07/2023 14:57

RealityFan · 05/07/2023 14:42

This is a spoof post, yes? I mean where's the emoticon for "crock of..."?

Please tell me you're kidding.

Would it have helped if I'd put 'ladies' in scare quotes. Cos, yeah. It makes a lot of sense. Boy meets 'girl' online. Arranges date. 'Girl' is 6"3 dude in a crop top. Boy says 'no thanks '. 'Girl and mate proceed to batter and sexualy assault boy.

lady69 · 05/07/2023 14:58

Please don’t use cis on this board. It’s a slur, as well as being meaningless twaddle.

justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:58

DevilinaCardigan · 05/07/2023 14:55

I wonder what the goal is here? By the police not accurately reporting pertinent details about the perpetrators, how can the public actually help? Or stay away from the possible perps.

I think there’s a push towards blurring the lines between male and female crimes. Then the need for single sex spaces is no longer necessary as women are as violent and dangerous as men.
(adjusts tin foil hat)

How do you know they're not reporting pertinent details? You can guess they aren't, but you don't actually know.

Interestingly, my previous manager is a 6ft 3 female with bright red hair. I wonder what she was doing that day...

backinthebox · 05/07/2023 15:01

@evieowlette ’Cis woman.’ You know that is a slur, yes? Are you intending to be offensive?

ProudToBeANorthener · 05/07/2023 15:01

That poor child; is this the latest method for “men” to hide their crimes?

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 15:01

justteanbiscuits · 05/07/2023 14:56

Well, what we do know from the report is that the 15 year old was in a very stressful situation, and not just standing there. It's a fact that different people will give a very different witness description of the same person. In a moving, stressful situation, I doubt I would have much awareness of how much taller someone is of me that clearly.

And if someone has reported a crime as being females, do you expect it to be reported as "posing as female.." when there is no actual evidence that they are posing as female? That's what I'm reading in this thread.

Definitely. I can't imagine how scary it must have been. It's not in an area renowned for these kind of offences as well.

In terms of eye witness accounts I can speak from experience just 3 days ago I was trading on facebook marketplace and someone bolted with the item I had. Some 17 year old it turned out but I found linked accounts on facebook and identified the wrong kids mother which obviously she was horrified about. I could not for the life of me tell you his height only his age and gender

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 15:03

backinthebox · 05/07/2023 15:01

@evieowlette ’Cis woman.’ You know that is a slur, yes? Are you intending to be offensive?

The day the word cis is counted as an actual slur I can stop using it. It's useful semantics to distinguish Trans from Cis otherwise it gets confusing. I would normally use just the word "Woman" for a Cisgender women because it makes more sense after all.

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