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To ask everyone who has heard of using pronouns to watch this?

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Moomoola · 03/07/2023 22:34

its a worthwhile introduction/ explanation of what’s going on that I’ve found. Please watch it - and post your responses. It may also be very worthwhile checking what’s going on in your child’s school - if they’re not in hols!
thank you!

Megyn Kelly Explains Why She Will No Longer Use "Preferred Pronouns" as Trans Ideology Grows

Megyn Kelly begins the show with a monologue explaining why she is done using "preferred pronouns" and will base her conversations on trans ideology in reali...

https://youtu.be/FxB0LHvS4fg

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Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 14:57

"Operating, drugs and irreversible damage, well they will have a lot to deal,with, mentally if nothing else. Side effects? , probably in 7-10 years - a friends daughter 7 years on now has walking aides and joint pain at 27."

Since you mention this OP, I hope that you don't mind if I post the link to this thread which has a link to detransitioner panel that some posters may not have seen and may be interested in.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4841422-detransitioners-talking?reply=127370751

Detransitioners talking | Mumsnet

This is worth a watch.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4841422-detransitioners-talking?reply=127370751

IWillNoLie · 04/07/2023 15:11

The only thing you are correct about is that now the American conservative right has got onto it something might actually be done because they are the ones that actually hold power in the world, thanks to faux-naive people like you campaigning for them.

The power of MN strikes again.

TheSingingBean · 04/07/2023 15:34

I had never heard of MK prior to seeing this video. I’m also left wing politically, but I think she nailed it. I wish I could argue my case as fluently, to be honest.

She may well have other views that I find repellent; it doesn’t mean I can’t agree with her on this.

Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 15:38

It is remarkable isn't WillNoLie.

Must be all that watching and reading of content written by unapproved authors and creators! Because we all know that watching or reading something is signalling our complete support and our alignment.

We mustn't bother watching or reading something by unapproved authors or creators so that we can discuss it from an informed position at all!! Even if we find most of what someone says abhorrent.

We must stay in a 'safe space' where no unapproved or unauthorised content is seen.

teawamutu · 04/07/2023 15:39

Hidinginaonesie · 04/07/2023 08:10

Bloody hell, can pps please stop requesting the thread be moved/removed/not watched!!
I’ve watched the clip and I 100% agree with her on this subject. I’ve also watched other opinions of hers that I don’t agree with at all.
It is possible. And not really that complicated.
I have my own opinions. I’ll watch whatever I want to watch in the knowledge that I’m perfectly capable of making up my own mind as to whether I agree or not.

Exactly this. I'll decide what I want to bloody watch, thank you, and if someone speaks sense on one thing, and rubbish otherwise, then I'll factor that in.

So sick of 'this person is A Baddy so everything they say is norty and wrong '. It's puerile.

LonginesPrime · 04/07/2023 15:44

Jibo · 03/07/2023 22:58

I like this explanation too.

I find the stroop test thing especially is really helpful.

LuckyPeonies · 04/07/2023 17:19

AlisonDonut · 04/07/2023 08:09

I wouldn't know, as I don't spend my time watching bible thumpers, racists, people who minimised insurrections, conspiracy theorists, not know who Alex Jones is (didn't she host the One Show?) Etc etc etc.

However she is still a woman right? And is entitled to have opinions whether you like her or not.

I keep informed, therefore I am aware of her and her ilk and their hate mongering.

You asked why I hold this opinion, and I was courteous enough to specify, instead of telling you to google it (which was my first inclination).

And nowhere did I imply she is not entitled to her opinion(s). I merely posted she is vile and odious, and I refuse to listen to her. Which is my opinion.

toomanytrees · 04/07/2023 18:21

Meghan kelly is vile and odious.

I wouldn't know, as I don't spend my time watching bible thumpers, racists, people who minimised insurrections, conspiracy theorists, not know who Alex Jones is (didn't she host the One Show?) Etc etc etc.

These spittle inflected insults are way off the mark. They are an emotive incantation to warn people off. Do leftists not have any proper arguments? Are they afraid that people will discover that the right wing have some good ideas?

Prove that Megyn Kelly is a racist. Why use the insulting term "bible thumper"? The seriousness of capitol "insurrection" is a legitimate topic for discussion. "Conspiracy theories" have become probabilities or facts, for example, the lab leak hypothesis.

She is really going full throttle on this issue. Judging by this thread, the gender ideologues are very afraid of her.

LuckyPeonies · 04/07/2023 19:10

toomanytrees · 04/07/2023 18:21

Meghan kelly is vile and odious.

I wouldn't know, as I don't spend my time watching bible thumpers, racists, people who minimised insurrections, conspiracy theorists, not know who Alex Jones is (didn't she host the One Show?) Etc etc etc.

These spittle inflected insults are way off the mark. They are an emotive incantation to warn people off. Do leftists not have any proper arguments? Are they afraid that people will discover that the right wing have some good ideas?

Prove that Megyn Kelly is a racist. Why use the insulting term "bible thumper"? The seriousness of capitol "insurrection" is a legitimate topic for discussion. "Conspiracy theories" have become probabilities or facts, for example, the lab leak hypothesis.

She is really going full throttle on this issue. Judging by this thread, the gender ideologues are very afraid of her.

Incantations ? Perhaps I need to be burned at the stake as a witch? 🙄 I am not keeping anyone, nor trying to keep anyone, from watching this video. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. And my opinion of kelly (and her ilk) is exactly what I posted.

Furthermore, I am not a gender ideologue by any definition. I don’t use they/them and I do not believe one can change one’s biological sex. I also do not believe men should compete in women’s sports.

However, I personally find kelly (and her ilk) vile and odious for their general hate-mongering, and gleeful attempts to add fuel to the current inflammatory political climate in the US. There is no legitimacy to the 6 jan insurrection-minimizing kelly and other right wing extremist push, and it is dangerous to try to minimize such an event. As for her bigotry/racism, google it.

Lastly, I will happily retract ‘bible thumper’ and replace it with ‘an aggressively zealous advocate of christian fundamentalism’, if that suits.

Moomoola · 04/07/2023 19:32

Hi lucky you obviously know your stuff and thank you for pointing out that Megyn is all of the above - I only thought she was a bit glam tv show host - obv I need to do more research - though I still think she explains things well - and suitably sentimentally (it’s tv after all).
Please could you post any links you’ve found to stuff that could help explain in a less inflammatory way?
im not being funny, I genuinely need help to explain rationally to a mum who wants to medicalise my child.
thank you!

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AnElegantChaos · 04/07/2023 19:39

Prove that Megyn Kelly is a racist.

Simple google search will help you out here, many times over!

LuckyPeonies · 04/07/2023 19:44

@moomoola I would advise you to google her. Scads of info out there so you can make up your own opinion. Mind you, those who are conservative will, no doubt, not find much to disagree with. Which is their right, of course.

Thank you for pointing out that I was being inflammatory, I should not have been and I do apologize. The woman makes me see red, especially since her declaration ‘ the scotus nailed it’ when they overturned abortion rights, and ‘abortion rights should not be part of the feminist platform’.

PurpleBugz · 04/07/2023 20:21

I watched it. I feel strongly that if someone tells me not to watch or read something then I should. I will use JKR as my example why we should look it up for ourselves not rely on what others say.

I think the video was a brilliant explanation of how someone can move from "be kind" to understanding. It made the point well with clear examples and no unnecessary waffle.

The video makes no reference to her other beliefs and opinions so as a stand alone I do agree it's a good starting point to explain why preferred pronouns are such a problem. As many people have already said: we can agree with some on one point and grossly disagree on most others.

I genuinely think it's a tactic used to keep women from uniting. To point out ways we are different or disagree so we then focus on that rather than the topic at hand. I would march next to a racist against gender ideology, and I would March next to a TRA against racism. The point is we speak keep speaking and peak people to what is happening

CrazyArmadilloLady · 04/07/2023 20:35

Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 15:38

It is remarkable isn't WillNoLie.

Must be all that watching and reading of content written by unapproved authors and creators! Because we all know that watching or reading something is signalling our complete support and our alignment.

We mustn't bother watching or reading something by unapproved authors or creators so that we can discuss it from an informed position at all!! Even if we find most of what someone says abhorrent.

We must stay in a 'safe space' where no unapproved or unauthorised content is seen.

That’s certainly what the TRAs want.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/07/2023 20:37

I genuinely think it's a tactic used to keep women from uniting. To point out ways we are different or disagree so we then focus on that rather than the topic at hand. I would march next to a racist against gender ideology, and I would March next to a TRA against racism. The point is we speak keep speaking and peak people to what is happening

Absolutely!

And I also wonder how people know that Megyn Kelly is "vile and racist" if they never listen to her.

Is it in the same way that "everyone knows that JK Rowling is a bigot and a TERF" but no-one can ever point to anything she has said or written which is booted or TERF-y?

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/07/2023 20:38

*bigoted, not booted

FFS autocarrot - can you not behave for 5 minutes?

Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 20:48

"And I also wonder how people know that Megyn Kelly is "vile and racist" if they never listen to her."

Oh no viper, you have used logic! The fucking horror!

Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 20:49

Just to be clear viper, I was not being sarcastic towards you at all.

IWillNoLie · 04/07/2023 20:55

I wasn’t going to bother listening. As pp say, there is too much stuff to listen to everything. But the determination of posters that I should not listen means I feel should now dedicate the time to doing so.

MavisMcMinty · 04/07/2023 21:02

Absolutely. As Stephen King says, if a book is banned from school, young people must seek out and read that book.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/07/2023 21:03

Helleofabore · 04/07/2023 20:49

Just to be clear viper, I was not being sarcastic towards you at all.

I didn't think you were, Bore.

Witchorama · 04/07/2023 21:09

I only know MK from this particular video, which I saw a while back, and the segment where she interviewed the14 year old poet. I don't know anything else about her.

However, since she is speaking about it, I did make an assumption that she was of the right because I have yet to see anyone from the Democratic side be so fiercely frank about the topic.

I would love to hear Democratic women with huge platforms talk about the impact of gender ideology on women. Please point me their way.

LuckyPeonies · 04/07/2023 21:11

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/07/2023 20:37

I genuinely think it's a tactic used to keep women from uniting. To point out ways we are different or disagree so we then focus on that rather than the topic at hand. I would march next to a racist against gender ideology, and I would March next to a TRA against racism. The point is we speak keep speaking and peak people to what is happening

Absolutely!

And I also wonder how people know that Megyn Kelly is "vile and racist" if they never listen to her.

Is it in the same way that "everyone knows that JK Rowling is a bigot and a TERF" but no-one can ever point to anything she has said or written which is booted or TERF-y?

I happen to agree with JK Rowling and find the attempts to ‘cancel’ her appalling. And, at least in my case, my refusal to listen to people such as kelly is due to having listened to them enough to realize they are not worth listening to.

i do find it curious that posters who dislike shills for conservative propaganda, like kelly, are accused of attempting to keep people from listening. i have not read one post which stated ‘do not listen to her’. In fact, the gist is ‘i don’t listen to her’. ‘I don’t’ in no way implies ‘you can’t’.

Moomoola · 04/07/2023 21:15

What’s interesting is that I posted this as a, I thought, clear explanation of why pronouns are dangerous. I intended it to helpfully inform mothers who are blind to the stealth indoctrination towards medicalisation of their kids. And yes, that means yours too.
I thought it was informative because she has admitted changing her views as she gained more knowledge.
yet here we mostly are in an emotive discussion as to her background and other beliefs, and this means we should dismiss her. The message I’d like you to hear, and spread, is lost, while we all argue. I believe it’s a tactic used forever - that if we are kept angryand emotional, we will miss seeing what is actually going on.
I am very concerned that this means anyone who has, at any time, held a view that doesn’t align in everything we agree with, is not to be listened to.
To my mind that means we are in trouble. To my mind that means we are not allowing people to review their beliefs based in newly acquired knowledge, and if they hold a view about something, anything, we disagree with - we will argue amongst ourselves and their message is lost.
I think, right or left, whatever you believe re gender, we are all being duped.

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CrazyArmadilloLady · 04/07/2023 21:17

LuckyPeonies · 04/07/2023 21:11

I happen to agree with JK Rowling and find the attempts to ‘cancel’ her appalling. And, at least in my case, my refusal to listen to people such as kelly is due to having listened to them enough to realize they are not worth listening to.

i do find it curious that posters who dislike shills for conservative propaganda, like kelly, are accused of attempting to keep people from listening. i have not read one post which stated ‘do not listen to her’. In fact, the gist is ‘i don’t listen to her’. ‘I don’t’ in no way implies ‘you can’t’.

Go back to page 1 of the thread and read it - people being thoroughly discredited for even thinking about listening to her.

I, too, would love for just one female Democrat to speak up for women.