I had a look at the FB page of Vanessa’s partner, who took the video, after comments I saw that they were obviously dodgy. The comments on the video on there are a mix of his friends and people who have found it, and it has got a bit weird, but the early comments from friends are all basically on the lines of ‘people should feel free to be who they want to be but not everyone is going to be interested or noticed’.
It’s not people disliking anyone who is different - they’re just pointing out that most people don’t really care what anyone else is up to and so no one should expect to be the centre of anyone else’s existence. They’re not people contributing to a trans debate, just offering a pretty pragmatic view of the whole thing.