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StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 12:29

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 13/05/2023 12:19

The double standards are appalling. This is from the mail article,

In another post she writes: ‘Labels are important with gender identity because without labels we wouldn’t have identity. Labels are not the problem. Bigotry and intolerance of difference is the problem. Labels should be celebrated and used to build one’s character and sense of self.’

Leaving aside the total idiocy of 'without labels we wouldn't have an identity' (how about, "me"?) this person believes that the name creates the self - and yet had the arrogant presumption to impose the label "Karen" on to her customer. How dare Luna attack Vanessa's character and sense of self in that way?

Yes @SirSamVimesCityWatch he was doing two things there that don’t fit the tolerant image - attacking Vanessa in the moment - and women actually called Karen by perpetuating their ‘name as public shame tag’ not really something a tra would endorse??

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 12:32

Luna I mean

TrashyPanda · 13/05/2023 12:44

@SirSamVimesCityWatch - Luna clearly demonstrates they are an intolerant bigot. Preach one thing, do something completely different.

all the pronouns and “pat-on-the-back” labels in the world aren’t going to change the fact Lunas behaviour was misogynistic

SinnerBoy · 13/05/2023 12:57

Is Luna short for something? I've no sympathy for them, they decided to be aggressive for no reason, thinking that them would get away with it and be supported for they's bullying.

Them has had an unpleasant, for they, trip to reality.

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 13:04

SinnerBoy · 13/05/2023 12:57

Is Luna short for something? I've no sympathy for them, they decided to be aggressive for no reason, thinking that them would get away with it and be supported for they's bullying.

Them has had an unpleasant, for they, trip to reality.

@SinnerBoy I wonder what it could be short for 🤔

Excellent job on the pronouns btw!!! I don’t trust myself with the plural for 3rd person singular yet …..

SerendipityJane · 13/05/2023 13:31

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/05/2023 10:28

Oh dear - revealing these details can compromise the justice system if they look as though they might affect the fairness of a trial.

If the UK had a justice system, then yes, it could compromise it.

However since we don't (and indeed never have had) that's alright then.

What we do have is a system that protects the status quo at any cost.

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 13:52

SerendipityJane · 13/05/2023 13:31

If the UK had a justice system, then yes, it could compromise it.

However since we don't (and indeed never have had) that's alright then.

What we do have is a system that protects the status quo at any cost.

Justice for this incident would be amazing.

As far as we know Vanessa hasn’t even got her £10 refund from Starbucks yet

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 13:55

For the coffee, orange juice, and cake she paid for

Leftoverssandwich · 13/05/2023 14:06

Well, there has always been a lot of irony in the fact that the only forbidden identity is those of us who reject the label ‘cis’.

BreadInCaptivity · 13/05/2023 14:12

I'm not sure this recent article is any more intrusive to Luna than previous ones were for Vanessa.

Both sought out testimonies of people who knew them.

It's interesting imho that nobody was calling the earlier articles intrusive....

Leftoverssandwich · 13/05/2023 14:14

It‘s the inclusion of the child I objected to. Even pixelated.

Rightsraptor · 13/05/2023 14:24

Luna did vow after Brianna Ghey's death to be more 'out there' with the trans stuff, so Luna will probably be enjoying having been named by the DM. Such lovely publicity for The Cause.

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 14:49

Rightsraptor · 13/05/2023 14:24

Luna did vow after Brianna Ghey's death to be more 'out there' with the trans stuff, so Luna will probably be enjoying having been named by the DM. Such lovely publicity for The Cause.

@Rightsraptor Definitely out there now.

Although what an ironic path to fame. Luna literally inverts the original Karen meme to go viral.

We need a new meme now:

‘Karen doesn’t want to talk to The Manager’ ……

Manager tries to talk to Karen but Karen would rather carry on talking to ‘this lady’

DialSquare · 13/05/2023 14:52

Is Luna short for something?

Lunatic?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 13/05/2023 14:54

@StarbucksKaren I hadn't noticed the inversion. That's beautiful! And so ironic.

I'm imagining a Benny Hill-type chase of a customer running away from a pursuing manager, zigzagging all over the place.

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/05/2023 15:18

TrashyPanda · 13/05/2023 12:19

You can knit spats????

off to find a pattern on Ravelry

i knitted a thistle pattern cowl in white, purple and green for a protest rally outside the Scottish Parliament earlier this year.

Are you able to share the pattern for the cowl? Or alternatively tell us where we can get it?

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/05/2023 15:18

ifIwerenotanandroid · 13/05/2023 14:54

@StarbucksKaren I hadn't noticed the inversion. That's beautiful! And so ironic.

I'm imagining a Benny Hill-type chase of a customer running away from a pursuing manager, zigzagging all over the place.

😂

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/05/2023 15:20

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 13/05/2023 12:19

The double standards are appalling. This is from the mail article,

In another post she writes: ‘Labels are important with gender identity because without labels we wouldn’t have identity. Labels are not the problem. Bigotry and intolerance of difference is the problem. Labels should be celebrated and used to build one’s character and sense of self.’

Leaving aside the total idiocy of 'without labels we wouldn't have an identity' (how about, "me"?) this person believes that the name creates the self - and yet had the arrogant presumption to impose the label "Karen" on to her customer. How dare Luna attack Vanessa's character and sense of self in that way?

Leaving aside the total idiocy of 'without labels we wouldn't have an identity'

And yet are determined to appropriate the label "woman" and take females' identity from them.

StarbucksKaren · 13/05/2023 15:22

ifIwerenotanandroid · 13/05/2023 14:54

@StarbucksKaren I hadn't noticed the inversion. That's beautiful! And so ironic.

I'm imagining a Benny Hill-type chase of a customer running away from a pursuing manager, zigzagging all over the place.

@ifIwerenotanandroid yesss 😂😂😂

I love the image of zigzagging manager in hot pursuit

GrabbyGabby · 13/05/2023 15:32

That article makes me feel really uneasy. It is very intrusive and suggestive. This dude is clearly not pleasant and deserves to lose job and whatever else comes through official channels but i am not sure this type of scrutiny is warranted. They could so easily end up being portrayed as the victim in this.

EpicChaos · 13/05/2023 15:35

Ya just knew that the parents were going to be called Nigel and Fiona!
Ya just knew it! :-/
Perhaps Nigel and Fiona would like to explain, why they've done such a lousy job of parenting, bringing a kid up to think it's ok to behave like that?!

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/05/2023 15:36

They could so easily end up being portrayed as the victim in this.

This is what concerns me.

KalimbaMoon · 13/05/2023 15:43

The last thing we need is TRAs declaring Luna to be the victim of a media witch-hunt, so I don’t think the DM should have gone digging the dirt. Unwise especially when the police are investigating.

However, it’s interesting about the importance this individual has reportedly attached to labels. If you’re a non-conforming type of person, as many of us are, surely you laugh in the face of labels? You don’t want to be pigeonholed or put into a neat little box. I know I don’t, which is why the term cishet gives me a surge of rage, as I know that’s the label TRAs would bestow upon me. Really surprised that labels matter to this person. Sounds very conformist.

BezMills · 13/05/2023 16:30

Needing others to reinforce your identity, isn't very wise really. What are you going to do when they refuse, or simply do it wrong? Shout and bawl at them, and then storm off in a big huff? What kind of a way is that to live your best life fgs

Helleofabore · 13/05/2023 16:37

It would seem the child has been posted by Luna themselves though. It is all out there for the world to see.

If Luna is not the parent of this child, the parents allowed their child to have their photo taken and published by Luna on social media.