The video clearly shows Vanessa asking for a refund and Starbucks ex-manager replying "You're not getting a refund". Ex-manager now claims that ex-manager offered a refund. Ex-manager is lying.
Because ex-manager has lied about offering a refund, we cannot believe anything else that ex-manager has said.
If Vice have seen Vanessa saying nasty things on socials, why haven't they taken and published screenshots? This looks a lot like baseless smearing to me.
And how convenient that all the accusations of transphobic behaviour weren't caught on camera.
There's in-store CCTV footage, surely? Ex-manager can submit a data subject access request for it and publish it.
Ready to dig if Vanessa is taken to court and crowdfunds a defence.