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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What rights do transpeople believe they do not have?

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sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 17:33

Serious question, so I can go back and discuss with my DDs (aged 38 and 42) without a row. I support JKR and they call me a TERF!

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BKingso · 17/04/2023 21:49

OP I think it would be great for you and your daughters to listen to the podcast "The Witch Trials of JK Rowling".

Also you could print out or link them to her original essay from a few years ago and if they read it, pick out anything they disagree with and discuss from there.

twelly · 17/04/2023 21:50

They have the following the rights that everyone has such as right to vote etc. I don't think they are denied any rights at all. They live in a free society.

My own view is that not using toilet of their choice is not a right it is a preference and we all denied preferences in some way or another.

SpringCherryTrees · 17/04/2023 21:56

Being able to control the recording of their biological data. So being able to actually change their birth certificate biological sex, and death record biological sex, and any data such as crime recorded as their ‘preferred gender’ being recorded as their actual biological sex.

No other group has ever been able to change their data recorded in this way.

It affects everyone as data is collected for very specific reasons. For example data recorded for biological sex is used for example to record health data - who is getting cancer and what the trends are. If we do not know which biological sex is getting which cancer, and how, we are not able to treat it.

But apparently things like now knowing who commits most sexual crimes or who gets which cancer is less important than a trans persons feelings about what is recorded about their biological sex.

piedbeauty · 17/04/2023 21:58

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oakleaffy · 17/04/2023 21:59

YouJustDoYou · 17/04/2023 18:31

Sit down and shut up, stupid women! Especially YOU, lesbians, who aren't turned on by my cock!

A Transwoman with a penis and testicles said ( In a women’s group) that they “Identify as Lesbian”
Yet they were thrown out of one women’s group because they showed a vulnerable woman Adult material ( P0rn) on their phone.
Women feel uncomfortable around this person.

sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 22:02

piedbeauty both are university educated from a time when students were still encouraged to think critically. I can't explain why they are indoctrinated TRAs.

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Waitwhat23 · 17/04/2023 20:40

Gah, I was just about to post that and realised that you had beat me to it! It's the most unhinged thing I've seen from TRA's and that's saying something.

That’s some delusional stuff- Hormones and butchering of bodies without any consultation?

When it all goes wrong, Will the NHS pick up the pieces??

piedbeauty · 17/04/2023 22:10

sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 22:02

piedbeauty both are university educated from a time when students were still encouraged to think critically. I can't explain why they are indoctrinated TRAs.

My message has been deleted for some bizarre reason. 🙄🙄🙄

I'm sorry, op. You've had some good suggestions here - good luck!

oakleaffy · 17/04/2023 22:14

Tinysoxx · 17/04/2023 20:40

This.

Then talk to your children about the fact that white men that have championed ‘rights’ to the point that policies and laws have changed have since been found guilty of crimes involving women and children.

A Transwoman saying they have periods is just so strange. ( In a group of women)
No ovaries or womb, but a penis and testicles.

They clearly didn’t take even rudimentary biology at school.

Yet women are supposed to accept this nonsense in a group setting??

Seadragonusgiganticusmaximus · 17/04/2023 22:14

My DD (teenager so much younger than yours OP) explained at great length over dinner one evening the whole TWAW thing including that people are whatever they feel they are, needing to believe people are what they say they are, acceptance without exception etc etc.

She’d obviously seen me rolling my eyes during her lecture as when she finished she looked at me and asked: “So what do you think, Dad?”

I replied: “Please don’t misgender me. I’m a woman so you should call me Mum.”

Things went downhill rapidly from there, but she is still speaking to me and the subject has not come up again.

oakleaffy · 17/04/2023 22:26

Signalbox · 17/04/2023 19:30

The right to demand that society goes along with their ideological belief system and the right to punish anyone who won’t comply.

This⬆️⬆️⬆️

WickedSerious · 17/04/2023 22:26

ArabeIIaScott · 17/04/2023 21:34

A grown male dressing like a six year old girl?

A six year old girl who wants to 'normalise the bulge'?

lechiffre55 · 17/04/2023 22:30

When the six year old girl thing got mentioned I thought it was referring to Stefonknee

BonfireLady · 17/04/2023 22:32

Waitwhat23 · 17/04/2023 20:40

Gah, I was just about to post that and realised that you had beat me to it! It's the most unhinged thing I've seen from TRA's and that's saying something.

Wow. That's quite something.

Well yes, there are quite a few demands on that list that are probably not being met.

I'm not sure whether it's the list itself or the 203 likes for it that surprised me for most.

sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 22:34

Very odd piedbeauty! Thanks. Yes there are indeed some helpful suggestions.

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BonfireLady · 17/04/2023 22:32

Wow. That's quite something.

Well yes, there are quite a few demands on that list that are probably not being met.

I'm not sure whether it's the list itself or the 203 likes for it that surprised me for most.

That list is the kind of thing which happens when a group seeking particular privileges gets no push-back, partly, because it is seen as untouchable, partly because it's very aggressive and enforces #nodebate, and partly because its activism has mostly taken place behind the curtain. So if you get everything you ask for, why not ask for much, much more?

piedbeauty · 17/04/2023 23:04

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33goingon64 · 17/04/2023 23:06

So many good points made here. The one that hit me like a bolt of lightning recently is the whole 'they'/pronouns thing. For centuries women have been excluded from language about humans - man, him and he being the default language. Still now all drivers are assumed to be male unless obviously female, all animals are referred to as he unless it's clearly pointed out that it's female. Male is the default in every situation and this has only recently started to slowly change in some areas.

But hang on, suddenly a teeeeeeny proportion of the population find it offensive to use him or her and prefer they - to the point where they demand that everyone refer to everyone else this way - to the point where my son's school has told the pupils to use they all the time? Why couldn't we have done this centuries ago, to make language inclusive of, you know, half the population of the world? Boils my piss.

lechiffre55 · 17/04/2023 23:11

@sunshinesupermum
What rights do transpeople believe they do not have?

Women's rights.
I don't mean the same rights as women. I mean the rights belonging to women.
They want them.

sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 23:16

lechiffre55 but surely they already get these rights? After all don't the male of the species get more rights than women? Why do men want to be women? Seriously.

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lechiffre55 · 17/04/2023 23:26

Its like when a child is playing with a toy, and another child wants that toy. Offering another toy doesn't help, they want the toy the first child has, no other toy will do.

Cherryblossoms85 · 18/04/2023 06:43

@lechiffre55 ...and until 5 minutes ago, they had no interest in that toy. Only when another kid thought it was fun 🤔

mach2 · 18/04/2023 07:43

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forgotmyusername1 · 18/04/2023 08:11

If they are allowed to butcher themselves what's the betting that they will sue the NHS in the future for allowing them to butcher themselves. I know we asked for this right but you shouldn't have listened to us - your the experts, you should have stopped us

DerekFaker · 18/04/2023 10:23

OldCrone · 17/04/2023 18:44

If your children are claiming that transpeople don't have the same rights as everyone else, they should be able to tell you exactly what rights they lack. Ask them.

Exactly.