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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What rights do transpeople believe they do not have?

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sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 17:33

Serious question, so I can go back and discuss with my DDs (aged 38 and 42) without a row. I support JKR and they call me a TERF!

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TiedUpWithABlackVelvetBand · 29/04/2023 03:46

’Genocide’ doesn’t mean what you obviously think it means.

For a couple of examples of the sorts of atrocities that do fall under the definition, you could look up ‘the Holocaust’ and ‘Rwanda’.

You could also look into the confronting number of women (xx) killed by men on a daily/weekly/annual basis.

Tabasco007 · 29/04/2023 06:57

SmartHome · 17/04/2023 19:02

Strangely, they can never define what rights it is that they don't have compared to women, gay people or even the general population. That's because they are not in ANY way being persecuted, treated illegally or being genocided. What they are really struggling with is that, apart from other people like them, and the people that have hitched their wagon to the 'cause', for whatever reason, the majority of people, from women to teenage boys to boomers, are laughing at them behind their backs. Because they're being ridiculous. Nobody believes it's possible to change sex, even they don't. And it's everyone else's fault really for initially going along with it, 'being kind', pretending to affirm them - yes of course you are a real women now, you go girl etc etc..and really, it was cruel. Because it must be unpleased to have built your whole life around an identity and to slowly be coming to the conclusion that most people think you're being silly, at best, or predatory, at worse.

Well said.

MargotBamborough · 29/04/2023 07:43

So, given that the number of trans people being murdered is less than one per year in the UK and less than 400 per year globally (representing less than 0.1% of all homicide victims), let's talk about suicide. How many trans people have actually died by suicide? We hear an awful lot of figures from trans rights organisations about how many trans people have thought about or attempted suicide, but since this is entirely self reported and there are no statistics whatsoever about how many people in the general population have ever thought about or attempted suicide, this isn't very useful data. We do know that quite a lot of people die by suicide every year; it is one of the leading causes of death among young men in fact. Would it not be useful to gather statistics about the birth sex and any gender identity of all suicide victims so we can assess whether trans people are actually at greater risk of suicide or not? For what it's worth, I would actually expect the figure to be slightly higher than average, since gender dysphoria must be very difficult to live with.

I don't, however, see why any of the blame for this lies with women.

mach2 · 29/04/2023 09:12

Kiwi Farms picks on anyone the users believe can be "farmed" for entertaining distress. It's target list is wider than the trans-identifying.

TraumatisedGooner · 29/04/2023 09:35

Thank you for clarifying that Kiwi Farms isn’t a dangerous hate group that goes after trans people due to transphobia, but merely a group looking for some entertainment.

DialSquare · 29/04/2023 09:42

Come late to this one. Has anyone actually answered the original question yet?

NickCaveisnotaBadSeed · 29/04/2023 10:15

MerlinsLostMarbles · 29/04/2023 00:11

People have been asking if there is a "genocide" against transpeople. Today someone who is apparently a teacher has said Hitler's ideology should be brought back "but for transpeople".

<a class="break-all" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490

Was this person a feminist? The tweet is gone and doesn’t seem to be archived.

No person should be advocating for nazi methods to be used on any person or group.

However, what is your point? Do we need to point out the number of threats to women who disagree with gender identity ideology from some trans people ? Do you ignore those? Those would simply flood the thread and wouldn’t scratch the surface. And that is just the threats from some trans people and not from the rest of society.

What is your point? The laws are already in place to protect trans people. The laws are not being weakened by allowing those who seek to harm them into their spaces?

What rights are your posts trying to prove are not in place?

MargotBamborough · 29/04/2023 10:18

TraumatisedGooner · 29/04/2023 09:35

Thank you for clarifying that Kiwi Farms isn’t a dangerous hate group that goes after trans people due to transphobia, but merely a group looking for some entertainment.

I think the point being made is that KiwiFarms go after many other groups as well, so no, it's not specifically an anti trans hate group but more of a generalised full service hate group. And I think you know that but are pretending not to.

MargotBamborough · 29/04/2023 10:23

DialSquare · 29/04/2023 09:42

Come late to this one. Has anyone actually answered the original question yet?

If by that you mean has anyone identified any actual rights which trans people don't have but other people do have and trans people ought to have, then the answer is no.

We've identified a few "rights" trans people have which they should not have because nobody else has them and because they infringe on the rights of other groups though.

DialSquare · 29/04/2023 10:27

Yes MargotBamborough, that's exactly what I meant. And the outcome is just as I expected.

mach2 · 29/04/2023 10:48

i Thank you for clarifying that Kiwi Farms isn’t a dangerous hate group that goes after trans people due to transphobia, but merely a group looking for some entertainment.

Thank you for intentionally mischaracterising my post.

MerlinsLostMarbles · 29/04/2023 12:49

mach2 · 29/04/2023 09:12

Kiwi Farms picks on anyone the users believe can be "farmed" for entertaining distress. It's target list is wider than the trans-identifying.

Where I'm from bullying people into committing suicide because they are LGBT isn't "entertainment". It's a very serious crime.

"The tweet is gone and doesn’t seem to be archived."

It is an archive but the formatting got messed up. I'll try again:

<a class="break-all" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490

MerlinsLostMarbles · 29/04/2023 12:50

It works if you highlight the web archive link then right click and select "go to address".

GailBlancheViola · 29/04/2023 13:25

Where I'm from bullying people into committing suicide because they are LGBT isn't "entertainment". It's a very serious crime.

The person doing it faced the due process of the Law then?

I assume you also think that well worn tactic of TRAs to bully and emotionally blackmail by threatening suicide if they don't get what they want is equally repellent?

mach2 · 29/04/2023 13:26

Where I'm from bullying people into committing suicide because they are LGBT isn't "entertainment". It's a very serious crime.

It's like trying to explain to a marble - it's that the people who frequent Kiwi Farms find distress entertaining. I didn't say bullying to suicide is entertaining.

OldCrone · 29/04/2023 13:33

Where I'm from bullying people into committing suicide because they are LGBT isn't "entertainment". It's a very serious crime.

Why don't you sign up to that site and tell them?

What's the point in haranguing us about what other people are saying on other sites, much of which we don't agree with either?

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 29/04/2023 13:52

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mach2 · 29/04/2023 13:58

Damn, I blinked and I missed.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 29/04/2023 14:04

mach2 · 29/04/2023 13:58

Damn, I blinked and I missed.

Not a shock. Evidently biological facts don't matter anymore.

MargotBamborough · 29/04/2023 14:44

MerlinsLostMarbles · 29/04/2023 12:49

Where I'm from bullying people into committing suicide because they are LGBT isn't "entertainment". It's a very serious crime.

"The tweet is gone and doesn’t seem to be archived."

It is an archive but the formatting got messed up. I'll try again:

<a class="break-all" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://web.archive.org/web/20230428212657/twitter.com/KathyMcClarn/status/1651942826698047490

You do realise that this isn't Kiwi Farms, right?

And that women discussing women's rights on Mumsnet aren't actually responsible for what other people post on Kiwi Farms?

SidewaysOtter · 29/04/2023 16:37

crunchermuncher · 23/04/2023 22:33

I find it interesting and also disturbing that several commenters recently seem to equate disagreeing with an idea with 'being hateful'.

Disagreement is not hate.

How do these people manage to navigate life on a day to day basis? Their mind must be blown every time those around them aren't in complete and total agreement with everything they say.

Not being able to disagree and discuss is a kind of totalitarianism.

I wonder this too. A failure to cope with a differing opinion seems to be where a lot of the accusations of “phobia” and feelings of “being unsafe” come from. It must be an awful way to live.

But where does it come from?

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