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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What rights do transpeople believe they do not have?

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sunshinesupermum · 17/04/2023 17:33

Serious question, so I can go back and discuss with my DDs (aged 38 and 42) without a row. I support JKR and they call me a TERF!

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paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 14:39

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MavisMcMinty · 22/04/2023 14:40

No they/we don’t. Show us an example.

SinnerBoy · 22/04/2023 14:41

paulinesmithson · Today 14:39

Have a read on Mumsnet. People treat trans people disgustingly and as if they aren't even human

Really? Could you link to some such comments, please?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 14:41

MN always delete transphobia @paulinesmithson so I do hope you’re reporting all the terrible transphobic posts

oakleaffy · 22/04/2023 14:49

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That’s not true.
What people are justified in being concerned about is the irreversible surgery and hormone treatment of young , vulnerable people.
Autistic children are especially vulnerable to social pressures.

Hormones have serious side effects.

Also, Transwomen in women’s sport/jails/ refuges causes real concern to many women.

No one minds if a male wants to dress up in women’s clothing, but saying one is a woman to win at sport is wrong in many eyes.

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 14:51

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 14:41

MN always delete transphobia @paulinesmithson so I do hope you’re reporting all the terrible transphobic posts

Yes absolutely.

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 14:53

SinnerBoy · 22/04/2023 14:41

paulinesmithson · Today 14:39

Have a read on Mumsnet. People treat trans people disgustingly and as if they aren't even human

Really? Could you link to some such comments, please?

On the Feminism Sex/Gender topic, near the top there is a thread about Dylan Mulvaney and people preying on her downfall, calling her a fraud etc without proof, just throwing around hateful ideas
Also came across a commen stating that trans people are part of a cult, which is not true

oakleaffy · 22/04/2023 14:55

Theeyeballsinthesky · 21/04/2023 17:04

transmen are women so why would they be a threat?

Transmen are not threatening to women, and men ( I asked several male friends) and they said a Transman is no threat to them.

It’s Transwomen that are alarming in Female spaces.
Women can always tell.

oakleaffy · 22/04/2023 15:03

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 14:53

On the Feminism Sex/Gender topic, near the top there is a thread about Dylan Mulvaney and people preying on her downfall, calling her a fraud etc without proof, just throwing around hateful ideas
Also came across a commen stating that trans people are part of a cult, which is not true

Mulvaney and Geoffrey with the grin who appeals to “ Kids” are insulting to women.

If a woman was to pretend to be a man “ My 365 Days of Boyhood” by burping, farting, setting light to farts, being boorish, going on about football and Rugby, mimicking men in the lowest form ( as Mulvaney mocks women) there would likely be protests from men.

It IS insulting having Mulvaney who will NEVER have periods push Tampax.

Many find it creepy.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 15:05

Mulvaney is a man LARPING as a woman. They’ve been invited to meet the fucking president for Christ sake along with having a ton of sponsorship & freebies thrown at them. They’re laughing (at women) all the way to the bank

oakleaffy · 22/04/2023 15:17

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 15:05

Mulvaney is a man LARPING as a woman. They’ve been invited to meet the fucking president for Christ sake along with having a ton of sponsorship & freebies thrown at them. They’re laughing (at women) all the way to the bank

The President is losing it in my eyes-Why celebrate someone as divisive and insulting to women!

SinnerBoy · 22/04/2023 15:19

paulinesmithson · Today 14:53

On the Feminism Sex/Gender topic, near the top there is a thread about Dylan Mulvaney and people preying on her downfall, calling her a fraud etc without proof, just throwing around hateful ideas

They're just mocking a chancer, it doesn't look hateful to me. And being angry at companies using them as a representative for women and girls, because they's neither.

MargotBamborough · 22/04/2023 15:26

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 14:53

On the Feminism Sex/Gender topic, near the top there is a thread about Dylan Mulvaney and people preying on her downfall, calling her a fraud etc without proof, just throwing around hateful ideas
Also came across a commen stating that trans people are part of a cult, which is not true

Dylan Mulvaney is offensive to women. He's not a real trans person anyway, he tried various other publicity stunts before womanface and this just happens to be the one that went viral and got him all this attention from people so open minded their brains have fallen out.

MargotBamborough · 22/04/2023 15:40

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I think it's pretty obvious that if you think someone is a man, you think they're human, Pauline.

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 15:47

@MargotBamborough
It was a figure of speech, they obviously are aware trans people are humans. Just sometimes they lack respect and jump to conclusions

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 15:49

SinnerBoy · 22/04/2023 15:19

paulinesmithson · Today 14:53

On the Feminism Sex/Gender topic, near the top there is a thread about Dylan Mulvaney and people preying on her downfall, calling her a fraud etc without proof, just throwing around hateful ideas

They're just mocking a chancer, it doesn't look hateful to me. And being angry at companies using them as a representative for women and girls, because they's neither.

As much as her stereotyping girls as crying a lot is bad, I don't think any of us are in the position to know for sure if she is faking or not and until I know for sure, I will refer to her as a woman because she is feminine

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 15:52

Does that make “unfeminine” women men then?

titchy · 22/04/2023 15:52

@paulinesmithson do you really think Dylan Mulvaney is a genuine TW, who has spent their life tortures by gender dysphoria? You really believe that?

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 15:54

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 15:52

Does that make “unfeminine” women men then?

Not quite. However, everyone's judgement of someone's gender typically comes from their initial presentation as opposed to inspecting the sex organs of everyone they meet. If I didn't know Dylan and saw her on the street, I would see her at first glance as a woman due to her facial features, the way she dresses and her overall gender 'presentation'. I wouldn't check her private parts to confirm that.

MargotBamborough · 22/04/2023 15:56

I'd be interested to know how many women Pauline has met who look or behave like Dylan Mulvaney.

I have met precisely zero, in my 37 years of being female.

Ingenieur · 22/04/2023 15:57

@paulinesmithson

However, everyone's judgement of someone's gender typically comes from their initial presentation

I'm afraid we're all going to need some evidence to back up this wild assertion, if you don't mind.

RoseslnTheHospital · 22/04/2023 16:00

Nothing about Mulvaney is feminine or female. What the behaviour and presentation is, is caricature, gross exaggeration, campness and what used to be called "mincing". It's bizarre and offensive.

I can't believe for a minute that you'd read Mulvaney as female based even on a first glance. Unless you're so addled by gender ideology that you've become so confused as to think that clothes and makeup have more bearing on someone's sex than their physical body.

paulinesmithson · 22/04/2023 16:01

MargotBamborough · 22/04/2023 15:56

I'd be interested to know how many women Pauline has met who look or behave like Dylan Mulvaney.

I have met precisely zero, in my 37 years of being female.

I actually have four transgender friends. All of them are lovely and respectful people and do not fit the 'aggressive' label transgender people are often given. The more you surround yourself with people with different experiences, the more accepting you become of everyone's differences

sanluca · 22/04/2023 16:08

She said 'women', paulinesmithson, women who act like Mulvaney does. Not transwomen.
Women I know don't act like bimbo barbie dolls because no one would ever take them seriously. The fact he can and then everyone applauds him tells me the misogynistic expectations most people have of women (with most people read men).

It is setting the clock back fifty years to a time when women were good for nothing but eye candy.

Gilmorehill · 22/04/2023 16:08

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/04/2023 15:05

Mulvaney is a man LARPING as a woman. They’ve been invited to meet the fucking president for Christ sake along with having a ton of sponsorship & freebies thrown at them. They’re laughing (at women) all the way to the bank

I’ve just come back from the US. There’s a LOT of anger at the companies who have used him in ads. The parent company of Bud light had a fortune wiped off its market value. There’s also a huge backlash against Nike who already don’t have a great record with women athletes.

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