Blimey. I'm astounded at how right wing this place has become. I think that might turn out to be one of the saddest unintended outcomes of the schism - that it's actually allowed the right to take over this place, which has been so important to so many women of all political positions over the years. I'm not talking about a 'broadening of the church' but what seems to be a new dominant narrative within MN feminism.
I'm on what would previously have been called the liberal left. 20 years ago when I first started using MN, most users were. That's shifted over the years as MN has grown - there was a definite surge during Brexit - but that's life. It reflects a revival in conservative thinking which is the intended consequence of the dismantling of the structural underpinnings of this country. But this, on this board, is really sad.
I admire JCJ's intellect but I'm not a socialist feminist (if anything, I'm further to the left politically - but equally very wary of any politics which considers misogyny to be a subset of class oppression). I'm not a participant in the schism - I admire KJK for all the things that women admire her for.
But I'm sure I'm not the only person that finds it depressing to hear 'purity spiral' used, much as the TRAs use TWAW, as a debate-ender to shut down any suggestion that misogyny operates in, or even at the top of, a broader system of inequality and oppression. Purity spiral has a meaning - a competitive, no-one-wins escalation of what is required to be thought of as 'good'. It doesn't mean 'left wing' or 'liberal'.
I also can't be alone in cringing when I hear posters using 'woke'. You must have considered whether that word doesn't only weep aside 'progressive' postmodernism and the attempted destruction of material reality as a basis for, well, everything - but also he fact that certain groups, including women, are still at a shameful disadvantage in our society. You do sound like bigots when you use it. Like racist bigots, to be specific. There are other ways to express what you mean if you don't want to be thought of as that.
'Purity spiral', 'woke' - these are the la-la-la-can'thearyou throwdowns for a particular kind of populist conservativism. On another thread, I was accused of elitism and head girl feminism for - I think, I still can't really work it out - using sentences which sounded vaguely like they could be used in an essay? I am not an academic or an intellectual - but I'm really disturbed* by the fact that these words are used as slurs here now. This is Farage feminism.
(*Not quite as disturbed as I am to hear one poster bemoan the 'casual monstering' of Trump, but that's for another day.)
Someone on the other thread suggested that this all might be an unintended consequence of MN's coralling of all gender critical discussion into this topic and I can see her point. It is good that gender criticism is spreading beyond feminism - of course it is. Still, fucking depressing when a feminist board on a forum whose usp has always been that women's voices can actually be heard, seems to be increasingly dominated by women who are uncertain, at best, whether they are feminists.
Anyway, shout out to the MN wims from back in the day from onebatmother/OBM, if anyone is still here. If you've been a bit crushed by all this too, the only solution is to start speaking up. They can't shame us all