Have been called transphobic by my trans child

[Firevixen]

My trans boy child just called me transphobic because I said they couldn't have their boyfriend over for a sleepover because they have a penis. My DC is 14 and the BF is 15.

They asked me what about if they had a transgirl stay over and I said that would be a no too because they have a penis.

So my DC thinks I'm transphobic and that I think that they are going to go around having sex with everyone.

I'm not being unreasonable am I? no one in their right mind would let two underage teenagers of the opposite sex, who are dating, have a sleepover, would they?

Believe me, been there, done that. The important thing is being able to change your mind as you discover new information.

There are posts on this site somewhere from me under an old name, explaining that I didn't mind being called "cis".

😨 nooooooooooo

It grates me deeply, didn't understand why for ages. I do now thanks to you all.

I was very pronoun compliant and on the fence on saying the transwoman are men by sex thing. Not now. Now I am GC. Fed up.

@Sleepyquest

Not the point but why oh why are there so many trans teenagers

And why do most of them seem to be FtM? Nothing to do with the way society treats women, I'm sure. Now there's a feminist issue.

Chickenyhead ♥️