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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Staniland Question is so good. Can we think of others?

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aliasundercover · 17/02/2021 11:10

The Staniland question:
Do you believe that male-sexed people have the right to undress and shower in a communal changing room with teenage girls?
is so clever. The fact that so many people refuse to engage with it - let alone answer it - means it's a quick, powerful, way of showing how ridiculous the TWAW position is.

Can we think of any others that would be as effective? Maybe we could come up with 5 or so really sharp questions that TRAs could refuse to answer. My first thoughts are something along the lines of:
Why is it racist to identify as another race but stunning and brave to identify as another sex?
I'm sure somebody can word that better.

So any suggestions? The questions need to be short and clear.

OP posts:
MrsSteveMcDonald · 20/02/2021 19:46

I think it's because a lesbian either has to have or like penis. Any hint of not liking penis is bad so they can't just simply be referred to as a lesbian. Need a hint of bad character or 'not really a lesbian' to go with it

334bu · 20/02/2021 19:48

Should we replace Female in FGM with People because some people think talking about women and girls with regard to FGM is transphobic?

Nora Imlau on Twitter

twitter.com/planet_eltern/status/1362713672737583112

CranberriesChoccyAgain · 20/02/2021 20:48

[quote 334bu]Should we replace Female in FGM with People because some people think talking about women and girls with regard to FGM is transphobic?

Nora Imlau on Twitter

twitter.com/planet_eltern/status/1362713672737583112[/quote]
Well yes, if TW are saying they can also claim the word 'female' for themselves, perhaps FGM might include circumcision. 🤡

Bluesername · 20/02/2021 21:07

Should people be able to self-identify as trans-age so they can go back to school/youth club or claim their pension sooner than they would otherwise? Should the date on their birth certificate be changed accordingly?

Should people be able to self-identify as 'trans-height' so they can bypass the safety limits of that funfair ride?

Should people be able to self-identify as having a different blood group than the one they were born with, because they feel they were 'born with the wrong blood group'?

Mumofgirlswholiketoplaywithmud · 20/02/2021 21:40

@Bluesername

Should people be able to self-identify as trans-age so they can go back to school/youth club or claim their pension sooner than they would otherwise? Should the date on their birth certificate be changed accordingly?

Should people be able to self-identify as 'trans-height' so they can bypass the safety limits of that funfair ride?

Should people be able to self-identify as having a different blood group than the one they were born with, because they feel they were 'born with the wrong blood group'?

Trans-age has been done- this 6 year old girl was adopted by a family in Canada: www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/stefonknee-wolschtt-transgender-father-leaves-family-toronto-start-new-life-six-year-old-girl-a6769051.html%3famp
334bu · 20/02/2021 21:48

Well yes, if TW are saying they can also claim the word 'female' for themselves, perhaps FGM might include circumcision.

I hope this is sarcasm as there is really no comparison between the absolute barbarity of FGM and circumcision, distressing though it might be.

ppappyon · 20/02/2021 21:55

The Stanniland question is very easy to answer: nobody has a right to undress in front of anyone, neither legally nor morally. In truth, there are “societal understandings”; a kind of broader version of the “gentlemen’s agreement”. For example, we understand that a happily married couple consent to be naked in each other’s presence. There is no legal or moral right to that, nor is there any form of implied consent simply because they are married. It is understood because of the nature of the arrangement. Either party can contest that understanding at any point.
In the same vein, it is understood that if you enter a changing room, you consent to be naked in front of whoever is permitted to be in there.

Credit: R Gellman

CranberriesChoccyAgain · 20/02/2021 21:59

@334bu

*Well yes, if TW are saying they can also claim the word 'female' for themselves, perhaps FGM might include circumcision.*

I hope this is sarcasm as there is really no comparison between the absolute barbarity of FGM and circumcision, distressing though it might be.

The clown emoji was a bit of a clue. 😁
aliasundercover · 20/02/2021 22:14

ppappyon has tried to disgyuise their opinion in confusing language, but the answer is clear: ppappyon thinks that male-sexed people have the right to undress and shower in a communal dressing room with teenage girls.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/02/2021 22:18

Credit: R Gellman

No one thinks it should deserve "credit"

334bu · 20/02/2021 22:25

The clown emoji was a bit of a clue. 😁

Sorry it didn't show up on my screen. Also feeling a bit touchy about this subject as I had read through Hibo' s tweeter feed and oh my god I knew it was bad but no words!

CranberriesChoccyAgain · 20/02/2021 22:32

@334bu

The clown emoji was a bit of a clue. 😁

Sorry it didn't show up on my screen. Also feeling a bit touchy about this subject as I had read through Hibo' s tweeter feed and oh my god I knew it was bad but no words!

No need to apologize, I understand.

I wasn't trivialising it or anything, just shining a light on how important words are and that they mean what they are intended to. The appropriation of our words is contemptible.

ItsLateHumpty · 20/02/2021 22:35

[quote 334bu]Should we replace Female in FGM with People because some people think talking about women and girls with regard to FGM is transphobic?

Nora Imlau on Twitter

twitter.com/planet_eltern/status/1362713672737583112[/quote]
Those tweets are horrific - and she just keeps on going. Fml.

The little girls lives and the life long damage she is hand waving away because we must always remember to centre men. The only positive from her insane ideals is the ratios, and comments, and sunlight.

twitter.com/planet_eltern/status/1362750164646187014

Staniland Question is so good. Can we think of others?
CranberriesChoccyAgain · 20/02/2021 22:43

^^ I look forward to her medalling at the next Olympics in the mental gymnastics event. Will she also compete in the jumping through hoops and over-reach disciplines?

Bluesername · 20/02/2021 23:31

Trans-age has been done- this 6 year old girl was adopted by a family in Canada:

Shock OMG!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/02/2021 23:43

Those tweets are horrific - and she just keeps on going. Fml.

She was either being massively goady with that tweet or she's so mired in the ideology she didn't grasp the point Almut was making.

These people are contemptible.

PotholeParadies · 20/02/2021 23:59

She mostly seems confused about what she's arguing.

It honestly didn't seem to occur to her that a little girl could suffer FGM and not be "cis".

Now that she's realised that it would have to be 'cis girls and other people with a vulva', will she realise exactly how awkward it would be for Hibo and others like her to have to say all that? Hibo is trying to deliver punchy, effective messages that make people stop and think about a tradition and persuade them to reject the tradition.

She's not trying to lull people to sleep or write a Butlerian thesis that 5 people will read.

ItsLateHumpty · 21/02/2021 01:11

Now that she's realised that it would have to be 'cis girls and other people with a vulva‘ , will she realise exactly how awkward it would be for Hibo and others like her to have to say all that?

Plus, and it sickens me write this, as FGM can include removal of all or part of the vulva for those whose whose lives this directly affects, is she saying they are no longer people, or girls or women?

I have no words for her crassness.

CompliantIndividualSignalling · 21/02/2021 11:59

How do dogs know the difference between "men" and "women"??

Now that's a great question - because they do seem to know the difference don't they?

Smell?

Jarnsaxa · 21/02/2021 13:07

If there is such a thing as 'boy brain' and 'girl brain', then could that not be observed at the 20 week anomaly scan during pregnancy?

334bu · 21/02/2021 14:50

Should lesbian and gay dating services be forced to allow members of the opposite sex to register on them?

CranberriesChoccyAgain · 21/02/2021 14:59

@334bu

Should lesbian and gay dating services be forced to allow members of the opposite sex to register on them?
I think if dating app creators want to be inclusive they just have to be upfront about it. What seems to be getting attacked are apps that want to remain same-sex orientation. And it makes no sense for TRAs to want to be allowed on those apps as they would think it was full of t*s. Why would they want to date someone who wouldn't entertain dating a transgender person who claimed to be the same sex (but wasn't)?
334bu · 21/02/2021 17:36

I think many transwomen who register on these sites are seeking the total validation of their new gender identity. Straight women are not enough as they are attracted to the male body, so it has to be lesbians

Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 21/02/2021 17:59

I went on POF looking for a female partner. Fully one in twelve people were transwomen.

EdgeOfACoin · 21/02/2021 18:55

@Bluesername

Trans-age has been done- this 6 year old girl was adopted by a family in Canada:

Shock OMG!

Yes, Stefonknee is a rather disturbed individual, I think. It appears that Stefonknee has been convicted of a crime previously, but declined to say which one. If I were parents of a young child, I think I would want to know precisely which crime Stefonknee had been convicted of before allowing them to spend time with my child.

Stefonknee is quite good for questions:

Do you believe this person is a six-year-old girl?

Do you believe this person is female but not six?

Why do you believe that they are transgender but not transage?

If you believe that some people are born in the wrong body but that Stefonknee is not one of those people, why not?

Should Stefonknee be treated as a six-year-old and allowed unfettered access to children's spaces?