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Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 20:30

Disabled, incontinent sexually ambiguous goth pigeons in pants.

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ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 20:31

To be fair, pigeons are really lovely birds.

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WaveWalker · 01/12/2020 20:32

Can I have a pint of shandy and a shot of lagavulin please? It's been a long..odd weekend and Monday.

I am insisting on bringing my emotional support cat. She has previously acted as a group facilitator and is a good fluffy comfort in distressing situations.


I don't think there's a "celibate cat lady" box to tick in the umbrella of sexualities.... excuse the fur on my bed Blush

I will take all this over to the bluestocking in a bit. I really just wanted to post pictures on here of the emotional support cat who could probably facilitate feminist zoom meetings if courage called. It's not letting me attach images though Angry

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WaveWalker · 01/12/2020 20:32

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WaveWalker · 01/12/2020 20:33

^ mission accomplished.

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 01/12/2020 20:34

That is a truly excellent cat!

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BettyDuKeiraBellisMyShero · 01/12/2020 20:35

@ArabellaScott

To be fair, pigeons are really lovely birds.

Not when your cat brings a crumpled but still love one in through the flap!
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ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 20:35

Oh, that is a GORGEOUS cat.

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WaveWalker · 01/12/2020 20:36

Isn't she just! proud

Our favourite game is "is that your belly?" "IS IT???" with appropriately punctuated tickles

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ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 20:37

Lovely. My cat's favourite game is 'fuck off, I wasn't talking to you, where's the tuna'

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BettyDuKeiraBellisMyShero · 01/12/2020 20:43

My cat’s favourite game is ‘Fuck off, our elderly catless neighbour has bought hundreds of packets of Dreamies again’.

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Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 01/12/2020 20:51

Here's my kitty looking deeply uncomfortable.

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ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 20:53

Dreamies must have some kind of feline methamphetamine in them is my theory.

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ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 20:53

Wrongside, it looks like someone has sat on your cat.

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SophocIestheFox · 01/12/2020 21:05

@ArabellaScott

To be fair, pigeons are really lovely birds.

Lovely and tasty 😬

Excellent cats, wims.
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Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 01/12/2020 21:06

He's been on the feline methamphetamine.

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fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 21:22

@WaveWalker

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thats a floof and a half....
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DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 21:28

Oh cats, how lovely and floofy. I've been stuck an a AIBU thread that reads like a Lynda LaPlante novel Confused

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fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 21:31

@DrDavidBanner

Oh cats, how lovely and floofy. I've been stuck an a AIBU thread that reads like a Lynda LaPlante novel Confused

I love AIBU it just makes me grateful for my life!
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WaveWalker · 01/12/2020 23:41

I have crowdfunded this in the hope of getting the david shrigley teatowels...

www.artfund.org/get-involved/art-happens/join-together-for-museums/donate

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WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 00:29

@Wrongsideofhistorymyarse

Here's my kitty looking deeply uncomfortable.

That is an excellent cat. If I had to name them from that pic, they'd be Flat Eric.

Have they been eating baby spider plants or catnip? They are both feline hallucinogens - that's why kitties like chomping on them so much then entering an alternative reality with big eyes, pinned back ears and pouncing at nothing/having a mad half hour.
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WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 00:30

AIBU to think dreamies may contain baby spider plant extract Hmm

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WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 01:42

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WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 01:47

tofekeye? Oh ffs that is too close to covfefe.
I meant delete. Sorry mods for the extra work.


Call me sausage fingered nervy drunk type queen.

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WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 01:49
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