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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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TheChampagneGalop · 01/12/2020 12:30

That must have been a different thread, the fear of predatory lesbians is a surprisingly common and lie they use.
Anyway we got a "discuss!" type of thread now.

TheChampagneGalop · 01/12/2020 12:31

ignore *and

persistentwoman · 01/12/2020 12:32

Those posts where an OP orders FWR to speak! Such arrogance.

Pahrump · 01/12/2020 12:33

I expect we will have lots of drive-bys and ploppers over the next few days.

terryleather · 01/12/2020 13:18

Yup, it's tiresome in its predictability.
Dullards.

PotholeParadies · 01/12/2020 13:23

For absolutely no reason I am going to muse on the size of the world and the diversity of thought in it. And put these links here.

www.feministcurrent.com/2020/06/15/the-south-korean-womens-movement-we-are-not-flowers-we-are-a-fire/

10mag.com/megalia-south-koreas-radical-feminism-community/

www.feministcurrent.com/2017/07/26/white-feminism-thing-gender-identity-ideology-epitomizes/

persistentwoman · 01/12/2020 13:50

Pleased to see that MNHQ had the measure of the last peremptory demand made of FWR and deleted it [flowers}

persistentwoman · 01/12/2020 13:51

Flowers even

fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 16:58

gguguguuarrrra ! Pigeon Married to Trans... FS!!!!

MedusasBadHairDay · 01/12/2020 17:01

I'm going to buy a bag of hula hoops and place one on each finger like a small child in order to stop myself typing replies to people who really don't deserve replies, anyone else need a bag..?

fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 17:05

sounds good I've also realised with HORROR i have have no weird xmas cheese in you know that stilton with apriots or cranberry and whatever... I'm rather partial too it....

midgebabe · 01/12/2020 17:10

I would need many bags, I am very good at eating crisps

MedusasBadHairDay · 01/12/2020 17:11

@midgebabe

I would need many bags, I am very good at eating crisps
Same. I cannot be let near a tube of pringles, apparently they are for sharing?!
EdgeOfACoin · 01/12/2020 17:11

When I first visited these boards I used to get irritated and baffled by discussions about recipes and food. I thought it was unfair to posters who had a different perspective and unhelpful to lurkers like me who wanted to get a handle on the issues.

I was so young last year! So naive! I Totally Get It now.

TheChampagneGalop · 01/12/2020 17:18

The dramatic "hurt by children NOT going through medical malpractice" comment was pretty funny, it does say a lot about the person who wrote it.

midgebabe · 01/12/2020 17:18

Sharing with my tummy?

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 01/12/2020 17:19

I wonder sometimes what really is going on with certain posters. If they really cannot see how incoherent their arguments are and how ridiculous some comes across Confused. Or if they just cannot help themselves.

I found myself at one point two days ago sitting on my hands not to write “no, you actually mean to propose the following arguments [insert a) b) c ] and this is why they do not hold up to scrutiny “

Going to get the biscuits now. Edge, I was very naive until very recently as well...

HecatesCats · 01/12/2020 17:24

Someone's having a bad day Confused

MedusasBadHairDay · 01/12/2020 17:25

@midgebabe

Sharing with my tummy?
That must be what they mean Grin

Definitely not engaging in a thread where the OP wants to tell us about their "partners" erection Hmm

DickKerrLadies · 01/12/2020 17:28

Flowers for the mods today - I'm sure it's been a busy one!

Pahrump · 01/12/2020 17:45

So there's an obvious pisstake thread that we are supposed to be taking seriously.

Blimey!

PotholeParadies · 01/12/2020 17:48

I sometimes wonder what the people who tweet Sonic the Hedgehog memes about t**fs must be like to live with.

I now feel I know.

Delphinium20 · 01/12/2020 18:12

[quote PotholeParadies]For absolutely no reason I am going to muse on the size of the world and the diversity of thought in it. And put these links here.

www.feministcurrent.com/2020/06/15/the-south-korean-womens-movement-we-are-not-flowers-we-are-a-fire/

10mag.com/megalia-south-koreas-radical-feminism-community/

www.feministcurrent.com/2017/07/26/white-feminism-thing-gender-identity-ideology-epitomizes/[/quote]
Excellent links! Thanks @PotholeParadies

SophocIestheFox · 01/12/2020 18:20

Nosebleeds over news stories! Still, I suppose seeing D. Trumps gurning mug always gives me a tension headache, so who am I to judge?

persistentwoman · 01/12/2020 18:21

It's all rather gloriously unhinged isn't it?