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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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Winesalot · 01/12/2020 18:23

I think unhinged is a good word for it. Seems a terrible vulnerable person involved (and I am not sure it is the OP to be honest).

Pahrump · 01/12/2020 18:24

Type of thread that could result in casualties so time to step away. Still chuckling over the fact we were meant to take it seriously though.

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 18:45

I've never been in the Bunbury before but I could do with a large G+T with a whisky chaser. Have things gone extra weird in here since the weekend or is it just me? Confused

CaraDuneRedux · 01/12/2020 18:47

They are extra weird yes. Though you may be muddling Bunbury and the Bluestocking - but it's okay, the Bluestocking has a licence for off sales and a delivery service, so here's your G&T.

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 18:51

Oh thank you, between the support pigeons, the second wave white feminism and the learing that Lush are funding far right tax evasion through the dark web I don't know whether I'm coming or going!

BettyDuKeiraBellisMyShero · 01/12/2020 18:58

Maybe we can all have extra gin with the dark web money?

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 19:03

Good idea Gin

PotholeParadies · 01/12/2020 19:07

It's Twilight zone stuff here. I never expected a thread about misogynistically-motivated behaviour in music to sidestep into a tangent on whether a totally different popstar was asexual and oppressed for it.

lady69 · 01/12/2020 19:13

Shares in biscuits rocketing today.

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 19:15

I think they must be, I was suprised to learn about Elaine Paige. I think I need another Gin

CaraDuneRedux · 01/12/2020 19:17

@DrDavidBanner

I think they must be, I was suprised to learn about Elaine Paige. I think I need another Gin
Ellen. But given the multiple threads you're not the only one to have got a bit confused.Grin
BettyDuKeiraBellisMyShero · 01/12/2020 19:20

m.youtube.com/watch?v=s2SDInk6voA

Happily singing along over here.

lady69 · 01/12/2020 19:22

Ooh, Barbara Dixon!

nauticant · 01/12/2020 19:32

Definitely an evening to resist engaging with those posters who seem not to be wholly rational.

ArabellaScott · 01/12/2020 19:36

Gin. Thank fuck. Chin-chin, ladies.

persistentwoman · 01/12/2020 19:39

Thank God the Gin is open. Cheers everyone - it's certainly a day for some celebration Wine (even if I'm mixing my drinks here)

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 19:53

Oh Ellen? I know him so well

fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 19:54

Ok I might need a gin too... EMOTIONAL SUPPORT PIGEON???

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 01/12/2020 20:07

Personally I need a vodka, but I know I'm weird.

Siablue · 01/12/2020 20:12

There are some seriously odd threads today. I can’t tell if the one with the cuddly squid and the emotional support pidgeon is real or satire.
I also need to buy some Christmas cheese to help me cope with the oddness. I like white Stilton with cranberries.

MammothMashup · 01/12/2020 20:18

Incontinent goth identifying emotional support pigeon to be precise.

DrDavidBanner · 01/12/2020 20:23

Mumsnet has introduced me to so many things but I never thought pigeon pants would be one of them Gin

BewaretheIckabog · 01/12/2020 20:24

Disabled incontinent pigeon

fatblackcatspaw · 01/12/2020 20:25

@Siablue

There are some seriously odd threads today. I can’t tell if the one with the cuddly squid and the emotional support pidgeon is real or satire. I also need to buy some Christmas cheese to help me cope with the oddness. I like white Stilton with cranberries.
food of the gods! add in a tiny bottle of port some cheap xmas cake ...
Delphinium20 · 01/12/2020 20:26

My time zone means I'm giggling about pigeon pants during my work hours. Who knew Tuesdays could feel like the weekend!!