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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 29/11/2020 10:21

What a surprise

Winesalot · 29/11/2020 19:47

Another one gone! Important one too...

Datun · 29/11/2020 19:49

It was an important one. But anyone who was going to read it, already had.

DeaconBoo · 29/11/2020 19:59

Which one? The last page (for me, I have 100 posts/page) of the Boyz one isn't working but the other seems to be?

Quaagars · 29/11/2020 20:03

Came to see if it's just me the last page of the Boyz thread wasn't working for but seems it's not - no idea what's going on there!
The thread's there but won't load up the last page of comments, can still see all the others if you do it individually though

Datun · 29/11/2020 20:04

Boyz seems to have been deleted, even though they weren't any deletions on it. I thought it was heading that way, though, So who knows 🤷‍♂️

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 29/11/2020 20:06

Yeah I haven’t got the last page either

Its saying page not found

Its not rocket science, its the page after 32 😩😩😩 its found between 32 and 34

Quaagars · 29/11/2020 20:55

It's just page 33 that won't load - now it's been bumped to page 34 the thread is working properly again.
33 seems to have done a runner though Confused Grin

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 29/11/2020 21:06

Reported as a fault...

SophocIestheFox · 30/11/2020 06:16

I still can’t get into the thread at all this morning. Probably for the best, it was going nowhere...

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 30/11/2020 12:44

If it really is a glitch rather than some sort of deliberate act on MNHQ's part they need to know about it, though.

Quaagars · 30/11/2020 12:59

The whole thread's still there for me, just checked - can only read it page by page though, and 33's gone.

Quaagars · 30/11/2020 13:00

Well, error message when you try to access it that is

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/11/2020 13:58

I'm reading it on the app which scrolls without pages, it's fine for me.

MammothMashup · 30/11/2020 14:26

A post by jj was deleted which seems to have been the start of it. I can see it all in the app.

MammothMashup · 30/11/2020 14:27

Quaggars repeats the post but it's deleted.

Deletion overload possibly...!

Winesalot · 30/11/2020 14:47

As SophaclesTheFox said, it wasn't really going anywhere except around in circles.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 30/11/2020 22:25

I've had a message from MNHQ saying yes, it's a glitch and they'll look into it.

I find that obscurely comforting.

testing987654321 · 01/12/2020 08:33

I think it's jj overload, even the IT system can't face any more.

Winesalot · 01/12/2020 08:40

Maybe it was a denial overload.

Considering at least two of the things on the list of hatefulness were completely proven to be unfounded. I went back to find the rest but the post was deleted.

TheChampagneGalop · 01/12/2020 10:43

Is there some anti-feminist handbook somewhere where it says that women are scared of violent lesbians attacking them in public loos?

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 01/12/2020 11:47

I think it is possible that the lesbian attacks in the toilets are part of the 70s (?) lesbian porn (made by male perverts) which was referred to previously on this thread. By the same poster I think.

TheChampagneGalop · 01/12/2020 11:54

What, did a poster admit that he gets his info about women from 70's porn?

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 01/12/2020 11:58

I am afraid so. The same poster also seemed to confuse vibrators with dildos/strap-ons (based on a posted link to the former as evidence for use of the latter).