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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Young women don't know what a woman is

484 replies

BlackForestCake · 08/05/2020 14:23

This is absolutely staggering.

The latest poll commissioned by Wings over Scotland on the subject of self-ID, finds that all demographics in their majority believe a woman is an adult human female.

Except young women.

"The 16-34 female demographic actually voted by a narrow six-point majority that a person’s sex has absolutely nothing to do with biology. Even the next-closest group (young men) was a staggering FORTY points adrift from that view (net -34), and middle-aged women were close behind them at a net -36. Among women over 55 the margin against self-ID was a crushing 62 points (over 4:1 against), with older men at a breathtaking 10:1."

wingsoverscotland.com/abolishing-women/

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RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 08/05/2020 19:21

I am so fucking done with mumsnet now

Following your post that’s probably a relief for everyone

SoldiersinPetticoats · 08/05/2020 19:25

@nauticant If I was a furry someone else would be licking my arse Grin

PositiveVibez · 08/05/2020 19:27

Well, I'm a middle-aged woman myself

How do you know?

Genuinely interested to hear your answer

NotTerfNorCis · 08/05/2020 19:31

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too and if you say that all women are born with a vagina then you are being a bigot.

What's it like to 'feel like a woman', then, biology and a life of socialisation aside?

I know a young transwoman quite well, and I'd love to ask why they 'feel like a woman', especially as all their hobbies are stereotypically male, and they act much more like a stereotypically geeky man than a woman. I can't ask, of course.

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 08/05/2020 19:32

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too

It is. And it isn't.

CountFosco · 08/05/2020 19:33

As I told my teenager Mums aren't prejudiced about trans people we just think that encouraging young people down a path of medication and mutilation and sterilisation is not a good idea. She got it. I suspect ignorance about the reality of what being trans really means has a lot to do with it.

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 08/05/2020 19:34

It's easy to be all kind and accepting when your boundaries havent been breached.

That is so very true.

NotTerfNorCis · 08/05/2020 19:36

Could it be that younger women are more likely to give the answer they think they're required to give, rather than what they really think?

I know I could be quite conformist as a young woman.

Michelleoftheresistance · 08/05/2020 19:37

Also missing the obvious logic of if there's no such thing as a woman anyway, how does anyone know that they feel like one? You can only feel like and identify as something that tangibly, definably exists. This is all smoke and mirrors and polite social lying for the sake of emotional needs.

Which is fine until it's driven to the point of being harmful to female humans. This all only works if you believe that female people are always inferior to and less valuable than male born people. And calling that feminist is like calling yourself vegan while chugging down steak.

PositiveVibez · 08/05/2020 19:48

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too and if you say that all women are born with a vagina then you are being a bigot

Wow. Just wow. So what is 'inside' that counts so much?

Someone can think they identify with a stereotype of a certain 'gender' and go for it. All power to you. But what's inside does count. Mammary glands, ovaries, menstruation, fallopian tubes - that is actually what's inside.

If you are so knowledgeable on the subject, can you please tell me what makes a man 'feel' like a woman and how does he know what being a woman feels like?

I have never heard a reply that resonates with me, as a biological woman.

Lordfrontpaw · 08/05/2020 20:01

Can someone describe what water or air smells or tastes like? Or what it’s like to have no legs (only those who have 2 legs please). Or what’s it’s like to have no sense of smell?

Try it. Ok, so what does ‘feeling like a woman’ feel like - and it has to be feelings not preferences for certain clothes of activities.

CaliforniaMountainSnake · 08/05/2020 20:04

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too

Well I know I'm definitely a woman then because I can feel a little person moving around inside me 😁

Aposterhasnoname · 08/05/2020 20:09

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too

Cool, I’m a woman, so you’ll be able to tell me exactly how I “feel inside” then.

Whenever you’re ready. I’ll wait.

Kantastic · 08/05/2020 20:09

Try it. Ok, so what does ‘feeling like a woman’ feel like - and it has to be feelings not preferences for certain clothes of activities.

Having lurked on trans subreddits I actually know the answer to this! "Feeling like a woman" is having "gender euphoria" which is in its in turn a euphemism for getting an erection when you put your knickers on.

Yes, monitors, not all transwomen, and I'm sure Reddit is not a representative sample, etc and so on. Disclaimer notwithstanding, it's darkly hilarious how many of them believe they are women because their penis told them so.

MadameTuffington · 08/05/2020 20:10

oh ffs can’t we just accept there’s 3 sodding genders and there always has been - some identify as ‘female’ and ‘male’ with all the society ‘norms’ that entails and some people are in the wrong body or feel a mix of both - twas ever thus - did you know Native American Indians consider trans to be a gift? I am a fluffy pink 49 yr old woman who likes dick and pretty things and I believe people should be celebrated and encouraged in whatever fucking endeavour they so choose and what makes them happy. It’s fucking 2020 and we are in the middle of a global pandemic and have lost many people - enough now - live and let live - be who you want to be and what makes you happy!!!!!

Pertella · 08/05/2020 20:18

Female and Male are biological states. Not an identity or feeling but an actual physical factual state of being.

So no, theres no accepting some males can identify as female anymore than I can identify as being brown eyed - I simply am not.

YoungYankee · 08/05/2020 20:18

@MadameTuffington

Trans activists aren't asking for "live and let live". They are demanding that other people recognize and accommodate their identity.

GinUnicorn · 08/05/2020 20:19

Sex is defined by gamete production. There are two gametes and two sexes.

Biology matters. Sexism and female oppression is because of our biology.

TW and TM might indentify into a third category and frankly power to them. I wish them health and happiness and a life free from prejudice.

It is not bigoted though to want to maintain the privacy and dignity of biological sexes though. It’s also not helpful to deny reality and it’s certainly not kind.

testing987654321 · 08/05/2020 20:23

I believe people should be celebrated and encouraged in whatever fucking endeavour they so choose and what makes them happy.

What makes me happy is people using words accurately. I am so glad you support my endeavours to make sure woman means adult human female.

Thanks.

Helmetbymidnight · 08/05/2020 20:29

live and let live - be who you want to be and what makes you happy!!!!

so to be clear, you believe womens sports, changing rooms, refuges etc should all be opened to men?

do you believe people should be able to identify as any age? eg middle aged man can go to nursery? or race eg white people apply to scholarships for minorities? or species?

attackedbycritters · 08/05/2020 20:36

I can't be who I want to be whilst denying what I am

I can't be an ace footballer because of a congenital ankle fault.

Spending my life thinking I can be a world class footballer would be a waste of a life.

I need to be me, whole me, my physical and mental and emotional being.

ThinEndoftheWedge · 08/05/2020 20:37

Biology isn't everything, it is how you feel inside that counts too and if you say that all women are born with a vagina then you are being a bigot.

Could somebody tell me what it ‘feels like’ to be a woman. I am an adult human female - I have no idea.

All women are born with a vagina. That’s what my A-Level biology text book told me. Transphobic trash. Let’s change the medical textbooks for Dr.s, Nurses etc. Feelings over reality please - won’t harm anyone.

Aposterhasnoname · 08/05/2020 20:38

live and let live - be who you want to be and what makes you happy!!!!

It makes me happy to have spaces, without any penises in them. So how does that fit In with people who are made happy by goIng into these spaces with their penises?

I’m sure you are not suggesting for a single minute that my feelings count for less, so please do tell how we get round this situation @MadameTuffington

JellyFishSquish · 08/05/2020 20:43

MadameTuffington however many genders we want to imagine (and yeah, go for it!) there are only two sexes.

And the "in the wrong body" crap really winds me up. If it is 2020 and many people are dying so everyone should live and let live, why can't a gender-non-conforming male (TW) use male facilities with the men celebrating their fucking choices and not beating them up? Why can't men accept them and "live and let live"?

Oh, right, it's because it's the women who have to accept and celebrate their fucking choices. The women. Right.

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 08/05/2020 20:43

oh ffs can’t we just accept there’s 3 sodding genders and there always has been - some identify as ‘female’ and ‘male’ with all the society ‘norms’ that entails and some people are in the wrong body or feel a mix of both - twas ever thus - did you know Native American Indians consider trans to be a gift? I am a fluffy pink 49 yr old woman who likes dick and pretty things and I believe people should be celebrated and encouraged in whatever fucking endeavour they so choose and what makes them happy. It’s fucking 2020 and we are in the middle of a global pandemic and have lost many people - enough now - live and let live - be who you want to be and what makes you happy!!!!!

Oh, FFS yourself. If I wanted to be you, would you be happy if I rocked up at your house, made myself feel at home and made a move on your partner?

This is all so fucking ridiculous Angry