People can tell the difference between comedy and threats surely?"
"it's a total witch hunt"
"I just feel he's a scape goat"
The thing you have to understand, user, is that threats of rape and violence is the single most significant thing that men have over women in order to create the oppression in the first place.
Without that hanging in the air, in the background, they'd have no fucking chance.
And even the good guys benefit from it. Even a raised voice, is benefiting from all the punches another man has delivered.
So when Benjamin jokes about rape, or minimises rape, he is, beyond doubt, utilising and exploiting systematic violence against women.
The fact that it trips so easily off the tongue, merely demonstrates how ingrained his sense of superiority over women is and how instinctive it is to leverage violence to maintain it.