How to make love to a trans woman

[PsychoPumpkin]

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

I spat out the water I was drinking. They're trying to get people to fuck TIMs by painting it as "naughty" or "kinky" or "special"? I can't...this is too funny. I can't finish reading that.

I understand you, a man, finds it funny. Or perhaps funny is the wrong word? Usually if something is funny, we keep reading it. Because it amuses us.

Women, lesbians, who are being pressured into sex with transwomen, don't find it funny. They find it scary and devaluing.

I'm not having a go. I'm just interested in the different reaction from A man whose sexual orientation is questioned, rather than a woman whose sexual orientation is questioned.

( unless I've got your sexual orientation wrong?)

I did not mean to capitalise that 'A'!

describing someone's body in horrible and graphic terms

Do you mean my post about laser hair removal?

The ones using really crude language, describing someone's body in horrible and graphic terms.

I know, I didn't think it was very nice describing women as frigid and that their proportions weren't as good or their vaginas as fresh as transwomens. That's what you meant right?

Datun

Well, I am fully aware of what the likes of Riley Dickhead Dennis get up to, so I understand where you are coming from. I have however come to react with laughter more often than not, rather than outrage at the nonsense some of these people come up with.

And that is interesting, I for one would for sure not let them pressure me into anything. Then again, I don't receive anywhere near the abuse and gaslighting that lesbian get, so that has to be viewed from a different perspective.

GHardy's right about it pimping out TIMs as kinky sex dolls. All in all the writer has a revolting attitude toward women and doesn't mind exploiting TIMs if it benefits him/his site/his bank balance.

No sympathy for him at all. I totally reserve my right to ridicule and laugh at him. O+

And that is interesting, I for one would for sure not let them pressure me into anything. Then again, I don't receive anywhere near the abuse and gaslighting that lesbian get, so that has to be viewed from a different perspective.

That's true. I'm just conscious of the way men view it differently. Because they can.

Again, i'm not having a go. Just observing.

Michfest for instance. Shut down due to transactivist violence, after running annually for 40 years. A woman only gathering.

I can't ever imagine it happening the other way round.

Women don't have the power. (Or the inclination, tbh).

Because they can

Yes, exactly. I think that's a big reason many are so ignorant/not understanding, those things are no issue for most of us.

I heard about that, infuriating. There is absolutely no coincidence there are pretty much no issues with TIFs and the entire abuse is TIMs towards women.

Reported. #TGLWGH

Well done Roger and Mumsnet for getting that deleted so quickly.